When is the right time to tell him??
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I have a boyfriend who says he loves me and I think I love him too but we have been sexual active lately we've only had oral sex...I was tested in the 9th grade and many times after that said I was positive the last time I was tested it came back negative and I asked my doctor was that correct she said yeah...but should I tell him I have it or not??? I feel like he will break up with me...by the way we haven't been together for too long about 4 months and were in college also...should I go get tested once again then tell him based upon that or what??? Please help!
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archemedes Page02116
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If you are talking about an STI please be more specific.
archemedes
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kaydence89266 Page02116
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flawbeautifully Page02116
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silentconfusions Page02116
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So in reply to your question sweetie, I would say that yes you should tell your boyfriend. This STI feels like a burden but its the one least likely to lead to serious complications and passing it on can be avoided with the right precautions.
Your boyfriend should respect that and he'll probably appreciate the fact that you're telling him. Have the conversation whenever you feel is right. I have read that its good to wait until you know you're ready to have sex with him, so that you can have the whole 'so when was the last time you got tested' talk, and then you can bring it up casually. If he breaks up with you then he was no use to you anyway, but something like this isn't something that usually makes or breaks a relationship.
danielle7586 Page02116
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I have too been with my boyfriend 4 months. I have had HSV2 for 6 months and was so scared of telling him. I felt selfish so picked up the courage to tell him a few nights ago. He wasn't mad that I had it but was mad that I have only just told him-I just explained how I was scared of telling him cause I thought he would never talk to me again. Luckily I was wrong and he understood why I was scared of telling him.
if your boyfriend really loves you he won't care what you have so go ahead and tell him! And good luck!