White pimple on penis skin appeared about 6 moths ago

Hi, so i am 14. Yeah I know, but right now I am kind of embaraced, but not really much, so I think I will just go to the doctor if it does not go away. I have never had problems in this area, so I am kind of freaked out right now.

And no I am not circumcised.

No I still have not applied anything to the skin, but I will try out those products. And the problem of me feeling uncomfortable being naked in front of people is coming from the thing that I don't really like the shape of my body right now. And it comes from the food that my grandma started giving me when I was like 7. I started gaining weight and back then I didnt really care, but now... I really dont like it. Now I am trying to eat like a normal teenager and another thing that my mother told me is to eat every time I feel hungry, because back then I just knew that I need to eat breakfast, lunch, breakfast after launch and dinner, because my grandmother told me that I need to eat like this or otherwise I will have health problems. No one told me that I am gaining weight and that I need to eat like a normal kid... I think that my parents just didnt want to make me feel bad, but it was a big mistake. I dont blame them, but I really think that they should have done something. Anyway I am trying to not eat unhealthy food really often. I still eat unhealthy food, but i am not eating it every day. It is more like max 2 times a week. And i mean 2 meals in the week, not like eating unhealthy food all day. Soooo I am still trying to get in shape and when I feel good with my body I will probably not have problems with showing my body to others.

I just talked with my dad about it and he told me that we should go to the doctor and to not try to threat it by myself, because it is a very sensitive area. He also told me that he had something like this too when he was young, but he had a lot and they were on his legs too. Back then the only option was to cut the skin were the pimple is, he told me that he did not feel anything, because the doctor was using a slecial tool. And now he thinks that there could probably be some kind of medicine that could help it go away without cutting. So I guess we should just go to the doctor and see what he will say.

Well done for asking for help.

It is good that you have now talked this over with your Dad and found out he had to deal with similar health issues.

Also, your insight about how you were eating food from age 7 onwards, and the steps you are taking now to regulate the types of food you are eating is really good.  This is personal insight = ' I used to do this with food, and that resulted in, and now I am doing ' - is excellent.  People who have no personal insight struggle with a host of personal issues, throughout their lives, not just with health issues.

When you go to the Doctor, and, if someone takes you, tell them you want to explain in your own words about the issue on your penis.  The other thing to say to the Doctor would be about your concerns over how you feel now about how you used to eat, and what you are trying to do in practical terms to change your weight.  This is good - telling people who may be able to offer you further help and advice, such a medical professional (i.e. your Doctor) - about how you think about your current diet, and what has brought about change for you.

In personal terms you may be able to think of ways of helping to change how you feel about your body.  Such as doing regular physical activity - this could be activities you arrange yourself, or joining in with other friends.  Perhaps you have a friend or a family member who does a regular activity such as riding a bike, swimming - something that you could eventually start to take part in yourself.

Doing stuff regularly, need not cost a whole lot of money: perhaps you have a family member or trusted older friend who likes to do long walks - often something as simple as running around doing various activities at your local park, like playing football as best you can trigger you getting involved in a whole host of other regular physical activities.

If your Mom or Dad could help you pay to go to something like a boxing club, a club for young people doing Martial Arts (Judo, Karate, etc.) or simply after school clubs / a community center where they do mixed physical activity training for beginners.  Many of these not just help get you physically fitter, but they give you a real, and, lasting boost to you confidence in how you feel about yourself ....

Ask around - don't close off possibilities - try something, it does not mean you have to keep going back - be determined to find what you want to be involved with, whether that be something you, friends or family arrange, or it is something organised at school, at a community centre, or even at a sports club ... you have the whole of the rest of your life to benefit from doing things such as this .....

My dad would looove for me to try some sports and all of that, but the thing is... I dont hate sports, but most of the time when I try doing it I just find some terrible people who are trying to tell me what to do. By "what to do" i mean that they MAKE me try some new sport, which is cool, but when I try learning it they literally do everything they can to just destroy me at that game or whatever it is. And then tell me nothing, but just by the look of their faces I can tell that they are like "hmmm, maybe I am better and you are the worst" and they don't want me to make any progress. Even if I make progress they will be like "it was good... But not as good as me" with a smile on their face. I just feel like all sports people around me are terrible. And when I make a mistake they will be like "watch how it is done..." And the only good thing about them is that at least they don't call me fat. I am not fat, but i am not skinny too. I am kind of in between. Anyway... Oh and there was this one time when at school we were doing 60 meters sprint and I was vs the fastest person in the whole school and as we started I dont know if he didnt run well or I was just running better than him, but as he saw that I was pulling ahead he literally pulled me back with my shirt just so I dont win... And then I gave up and stopped. If some of those people read this they will probably say that I am over dramatic, but this is my experience with sports. And now I am actually scared to try any kind of sport, because I think that when I start making progress people will just laugh at me and tell me that I am just lucky and I will never be good. And I have never told anyone about this, because they will probably say that I am too dramatic. And that is why i dont even try making progress at any sport and if my dad asks me if I want to play football lets say (which is his dream) I would just say "I dont like sport".

And the thing about telling the doctor about my weight and all of that stuff. I just dont know if I need to say that, because I have talked with my mom about this and she just told me that as I grow this body fat will just go away and I dont need to see the doctor for that. I just need to not gain weight. This was her oppinion, but I just feel like I need to talk with both of my parents about it before making changes. My dad is not really positive about this idead, because he thinks that I am growing up and I need to eat all kinds of food. Maybe this is just for another time. I need both of them to be ok with my desition.

Again - well done for asking for help and not letting your anxieties stop you. That took courage.

Thank you!