Why do I bleed each time I try having sex

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its been three months i did my fibroid operation and my doctor advised we have sex at least three times a week. the first time i tried having sex, i bled and my husband was so scared but i took my bath and wash up and the bleeding stopped. five days after we tried having sex again and i bled. as it is my husband has said he wont touch me again till after one year because he doesn't want to cause me any complications. Although im meeting with my doctor today, I need some explanation why i cant have my sex life back

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    Sorry to hear that. What type of operation was it? Open myomectomy? Key hole? Have your stitches fully healed? Apart from this issue have you noticed anything else that's different? Is it painful during sex or mainly bleeding only?

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      it was open myomectomy. yes my stitches are healed. no it is not painful during sex. my period is irregular last month it came on the 13 and just for two days. this Month it came on the 3. i do not feel pain in my abdomen or any oart of my body but still dont under why i still spot.

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    hello and sorry to hear that but it has been 6 months ago since i have had mine and i don't bleed at all. however i did had a little bleeding like 3 weeks after the surgery but since that time i haven't seen a spot so you really need to see maybe someone else cause you shouldn't be still bleeding

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      i dont have anyone that helps with house chores and my husband is nit helping out. i have three children i care for every day. i wake up 5am every day to get them dressed for school, i cook , i do everything and when im tired i need some rest , i lay down on my bed and pushh the blood cones out. could it be because im stressing myself

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