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Why do I feel like herpes is only bothering me?

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Livelife
Livelife

I've started a new relationship with a guy who doesn't have herpes and I have herpes type 2

I went in with all the facts told him to go home research and then tell me how he feels

Blablabla he still wants me and he really likes me

We still haven't had sex because I wanted to give my suppressive time to get into my system properly but when we get back from holiday I know we will have to do it, he doesn't seem bothered he's super excited to have sex with me and he's so eager but I am absolute cacking myself,

I am constantly scared he will eventually up and leave me over this, I'm scared he can do better because he can

And I hate feeling like this, I've never felt this worthless before I just feel like I'm disgusting whenever I'm around him

Any advice guys

Any stories???

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  • ashlyn26137
    ashlyn26137 Livelife

    Posted

    Be careful if he cheats or leaves he could use your herpes as an excuse that's what happened to me I was happy when he said he wanted to be together but then he cheated and used my herpes as an excuse he even said he wanted to be together when I told him about it, plus are you sure he's clean? He's been tested?

    • Livelife
      Livelife ashlyn26137

      Posted

      Hahahaha he's really not that sort of person

      He's 31 slept with 3 people and has never been in a relationship

      He's definitely not a cheat and I feel like warning people due to your bad experiences is really awful

      I'm sorry for what happened but saying 'he might cheat and use your herpes' is a very bad approach

  • debbie07494
    debbie07494 Livelife

    Posted

    Hey one step at a time you will learn that people will be interested in you for you
    • Livelife
      Livelife debbie07494

      Posted

      Yeah but I keep thinking now that like what if he's not interested

    • debbie07494
      debbie07494 Livelife

      Posted

      Stop it, you wrote that he was still interested because he has made that clear to you. Remember what we think and speak we allow it to manifest in our lives
    • Livelife
      Livelife debbie07494

      Posted

      You're very right

      I just feel so nervous and I think it's because the last time I felt this close to somebody (emotion wise) was when I was 16 I've had many relationships since then and felt nothing so I thought I turned aromantic but suddenly to start liking him it's like I can love again and I'm super scared of losing him because I know I'm going to love him

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