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I was wondering if I could get any help or at least hear from someone who understands what I'm going through.
I'm a 21 year old girl. And I don't understand why other peoples thoughts effect me so much. Depending on the day a slight negative comment can just ruin my day or reduce me to tears. Something as my friend jokingly saying "I hate you" ( after I told her I couldn't give her a ride) made me feel so guilty and made me feel terrible. I feel like I obsess on how others perceive me. It's not only friends but family and stupidly a comment from a random person of the internet can not only upset me but make me furious.
I find it so strange at how intense these feelings are. Most of the time I'm upset simply due to the fact I let someone's opinion get to me.
I'd love to see a therapist, but maybe once I move out or I can at least pay for it myself.
I'm studying psychology with Counselling and I feel I should know the answer to this haha.
Anyways, sorry for the ramble. I was just wondering if anyone had a a better idea then I do.
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