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chris32
chris32

i have depression now for three weeks. every day something happens that makes my life suck, i have been sacked from my job even though i had a doctors line saying i had depression. my wife has left saying that she needs time apart so she can get her head straight. i feel so alone and have no one too talk too, dont know how to deal with everything that is happening to me, i use to be such a happy person now i find it hard to raise a smile. is this all my fault?

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  • wildflower
    wildflower

    Posted

    Depression,which I know something about, is a serious illness. Please get to a doctor and get on some kind of medication that will help you throught this dark time in your life. I have had major depressions throughout my entire life.This illness is nothing to fool with. Get help.If your wife needs space let her have it. If you've lost your job,it's not the end of the world.You are what matters most right now and there is plenty of help available. You are not thinking straight and these situations in your life are out of your control. You are looking through dark glasses.This makes everything look darker than it really is for you right now.No promises that situations will improve for you but you will,if you seek help, be able to handle them better.Good luck
  • gayonar
    gayonar

    Posted

    [size=12:dcd6825f15][size=18][i:dcd6825f15]Hi there Chris, I too understand what you are going through, it's a horrible time and you will get through it. I know life seems to suck, i too have gone through similar experiences but i suffer with depression from pain, I don't know how i do it but i put on a mask to get through my days sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, but i strongly advise you to go to your GP and get some help it's worth it. You are welcome to email me when you are in need to talk to some-one. I may not be able to answer immediately but i will always answer. take care and go to GP it's very important that you tell him/her all you are feeling. bye for now Mala [b:dcd6825f15]x[/b:dcd6825f15][/i:dcd6825f15][/size:dcd6825f15][/size] smile
  • wildflower
    wildflower

    Posted

    Chris are you still with us? Chris? Chris?
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