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WHY us ? how come only some women get like this ?

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corinne62311
corinne62311

I have always need a reason for things since I was small. and again I am asking WHY . why do some of us have this to deal with? Did we do something to cause this, is it because I smoke ? is it because I took Birth Control injections ? is it because I had to have an ovary removed years ago ?I am looking for an answer I don't know I will find. This explains why I have such a hard time accepting that it is hormones. In my heart I know it is, but I keep looking for an explanation. I look to my past and think "wow" you used to do be able to do that or "gee you were so carefree , and strong and bubbly. and now I cant look at myself in the mirror.It makes me sad

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  • toria_07298
    toria_07298 corinne62311

    Posted

    i totally relate, i used to be so active, today i pulled my already sore back moving a tiny table 😦 x

  • beth58277
    beth58277 corinne62311

    Edited

    You sound a lot like me. I've always wanted to know the why of things. I have to have answers. And I wondered if my problems are because I've have 4 c sections or because I have my tubes burned and tied. Is this why my transition is so hard. I don't know, I just don't have the answers. Just know you are not alone.

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