Wife has Herpes, I Don't
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My wife was diagnored with genital herpes 3 weeks ago. I got myself tested and found out I don't have it.
Issue I am having with this is my wife was a virgin when we married and she told me she has never had any kind of sex with any other man except for myself. How it is possible for someone to get Herpes if she has only had sex with me, yet I don't have it.
Pretty obvious where my mind is going here. Just wondering if someone can ease my thoughts on this.
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HSV johninthe514
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johninthe514 HSV
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2014Newbie johninthe514
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Also it can lie dormant for a lifetime without any outbreaks. I read a report of a 70 year old woman having her first outbreak and had only been sexually active with her husband!!!
feelbroken johninthe514
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I know this must be a hard to not ponder the possibility she was unfaithful, but ponder these options as well.
david84345 johninthe514
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You may have it but are not testing positive. It is possible you gave it to her but your body does a better job of fighting it than hers. I did not test positive until I had a breakout, then got tested during the breakout. If you are not having breakouts (that you know of) you may not test positive until you do.
Of course she may have stepped out also .... there is really no way of telling. Just know it is possible. If you love and trust her and there are no other signs that she has been stepping out, don't loose her over this.
feelbroken david84345
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chastity123 johninthe514
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