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I had a bombshell dropped on me on Christmas Day.
My wife told me that she did not want to see me anymore. We had been living apart for about 18 months. On Boxing Day she invited me round to collect my Christmas belonging. She returned her house key to our family home and then took the key that I held to her home off of me. I am her carer.
A few days later she called to say that that her laptop was on the blink. I agreed to call round to have a look at it. During the visit my wife said that she had told me that she did not want to see me as "just as jolt". She felt that I was overly involving her in my affairs and that it had caused her a lot of stress. What puzzled me was that in an earlier conversation she told me that she has already told her sisters that we were now having a " clean break"
We see each other now on an irregular basis. I am due to call round to her house this afternoon. I am feeling very apprehensive about the visit because I fear that another bombshell be dropped.
I am doing my best to place myself in a position where decisions that are made by my wife I am less affected by. I feel a sense of her being able to contol and manipulate me. I love her very much but feel that dealings with her have become very unsettling.
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