Will i fall back in love again?

I constantly feel the need to remind him that i love him in hopes that I can convince myself... 

Hello. I don't know if there's a right or wrong approach here so just follow your heart really. Do whatever's going to be best for your inner well-being, whatever it may be. Depression's such a bummer. 

Hello

We are all different as is our partners. Sometimes I sit here wondering what happened to me forty years ago when we started living together then marrying. All I remember going on my honeymoon and grasping Her hand all the way down to the South Cost.

Sometimes if we are depressed we can have mixed feelings towards people we love and this can seem to be more intense as we get older. With my health problems I become very irritated and my mood can become raw. We wonder if things have changed. Then after a time it blows over and we are back together once more.

I have no idea of your reationship and your negative feelings at this time. Depression can be an impulsive health condition and the clever bit is to understand that and never go to bed annoyed.

You may find the negativity you are suffering from will clear and if you break up you may regret the breakup later on, I have seen many couples that would strangle eachother in the morning and be back madly in love by teatime.

Reserve you thoughts for a time we all have little niggly problem when we are depressed.  I try and sit quiet and let the moods change.

I suffer from Depression and can be very raw with my moods, we both understand that and we move on holding hands once more.

Good Luck

Hi kaylin42989 im sure you will feel the same way as you did before. Love is a strange thing but is beutiful when you are in love. Sometimes there can be issues with love its about being able to relax in each others company and give it a whille the spark can come back. I hope your depression improves. With the right support i feel it will come back your love for your boyfriend. You may be finding yourself again and it can get confusing thoughts, emotions. I hope some of what i have written makes some sort of sense im new to all this. I wish you well kayln42989

Hi Kaylin,

I am curious, why do you feel like you don't love him? Do you just not feel the same intensity as before? Something I ran into with my ex whom I was with for 4.5 years is I wasn't sure if I loved her or not. She was my first relationship so I was kind of walking in the dark.

After some time now and dating another I can say without question I was madly in love with her. In the end, it caused me to delay getting engaged and ended up killing our relationship. She married someone else now and I have carried a large amount of regret since. I now suffer from depression and anxiety daily, when I used to be a very happy confident person before. I also am now dating someone else who I have been having a similar issue as you except and I'm wondering if my feelings would ever grow for her, I had hoped they would. I don't feel the same way about her as I did my ex.

Is he your first relationship or have you felt more strongly for others in the past?

With depression for me its about establishing your thoughts your feelings..emotions and then you start to remember when you was happy. Sometimes we need a little patience and will to get through depression. With true love. I will stop there what is true love? For me if your in a relationship obviously you need chemistry... that spark its a beutiful feeling. Thats my outlook on how it should be. I may be wrong but i am a deep person.