Will sex ALWAYS hurt??
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I am feeling very low at the moment. Last night I had sex with my boyfriend and it hurt terribly ( during and after) we used lube and I put on Vaseline after. Will this be my future of sex??? I am 25 years old and I cannot imagine a sexless relationship at this point!!
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kathryn07219 nicole1990
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Morrell1951 nicole1990
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Just don't try to have sex when you're already sore. There are things you wouldn't think of doing with your mouth if your lip was split and you had a raging rash there.
Guppy007 nicole1990
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Chrisy nicole1990
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kasiaj nicole1990
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Kasia
nicole1990 kasiaj
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I have just started a new relationship and unfortunately I have not had the courage to tell him about my diagnosis. I had sex last night and I am still in pain (in the clitoral area) Do you find that you get pain in that area?? How would I be able to avoid burning there?? I would love to hear your advice on this.
Thanks,
Nicole
kasiaj nicole1990
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Did you only get pain in your clitoral area? Did you get it in the vagina opening as well?
I personally do not get pain around the clitoral area. But, in the past I have had a strong burning sensation and occassionally get that too nowadays. My advice would be to use a natural water based lubricant and a lot of it! I would apply your steroid cream normally as you've been instructed and I also recommend coconut oil. I use that every evening and it helps keep the skin stretchy I think. But maybe invest in a good lube and be gentle and well lubricated. I just started using one called 'yes'. So far it seems ok but isn't a great actual lube - dries out quite quick I think!
I hope I helped a little and sorry if I didn't!
Kasia