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I am a man in a long distance relationship with a girl I am very in love with, and we are engaged to be married. Soon she will be moving here in a few months making it a real relationship. I have had sex with her pretty regularly when I see her, but there have been some troubling facts she has told me about making wonder if this is going to lead to disaster for me.
On my end, I have a ridiculously high sex drive at 42 years old. Previous girl friends have told me I am not normal as my "regular" sex sessions have an average of 3 ejaculations and have gone up to 6 times in like 4 hours once. I also like sex every day, and do morning and night sex. I never feel tired or worn out, I just want to keep going. With her I have only gone once in a session and she told me enough. Then I lay frustrated, wait till she goes to sleep and then masturbate. This is no good. I can't live a life like that.
She is very conservative and doesn't seem to like to discuss sex, so I don't with her. With previous girl friends in the past, I have had crazy beast sex, but I feel like she doesn't want that sort of thing. She has told me she has never had an orgasm. She has told me she doesn't masturbate and doesn't really think about sex. I think she definitely has a very low libido though she has assured me "we will experiment" and she definitely wants a child with me which is what I want too. I am really agonizing about this and feel like this is going to be doomed if I can't change how she approaches sex and more important, sex with me. How do I even talk to her about this without sounding like a complete a**hole? That is a real problem for me as I already have been accused of being "paranoid" on more than a few occasions with her. I love her to death, but this issue is driving me crazy. Help!
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