do i really have IBS?
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Hi all im looking for some advice on IBS.
I was told by my doctor that i have it around 4 years ago but have never had any tests to confirm anything,during this time my IBS has got worse and i worry that maybe i dont really have it and maybe the doctor has missed something as my symptoms can be so debilitating that i sometimes think surely IBS cant make me feel this unwell?
when it all first started,my symptoms were the odd "off" stomach i.e some days i would have trapped wind and cramps and be constipated but it happened infrequently and i could still function normally.
as time has gone on i have had more frequent episodes and more and more symptoms to the point i am at now (and have been for around 2 years now) i now suffer almost all the time and can have constipation,diarrohea,ribbon stools,gas pains,bloating,whole body weakness and aching all over i also feel breathless sometimes and its gotten so bad to the point i had to stop working because i feel so ill i cannot function and feel so weak tired and ill that all i can do is lie down.
these episodes when they are really bad can last over a week and during that time i have no appetite so barely eat.
I am at the point now where i feel so down with it all and feel like i cant be a normal wife and mum as it effects me so much i also feel like people look and think she cant be that bad its only ibs! but it does seriously affect my life.
does anyone else experience it to this extreme? and is it really just ibs?
any advice is appreciated
thanks
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Kecki
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I used to take loperimide (Diocalm) for diarrhoea, but find that Pepto-Bismol is better. It can also be worse just before you have a period. When I get a bad attack, (been coping with one since Thursday), I go on a very bland diet for 3 or 4 days of dry toast, (sometimes with Marmite though!) bananas, natural yogurt, and you could try eating plain boiled rice and small portions of stewed apple. This combination seems to help calm the ibs down.
I know how you feel about how much it affects your life, as people can't see it and think that you're just making a fuss about it. Stress can be a huge factor in ibs, and I've found hypnotherapy to be very useful since I was diagnosed.
I hope that some of this helps. Good luck
ladysparkles
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I have asked to see a consultant but my doctor was very reluctant to agree but like you say maybe i need to be forceful so i am going to do as you suggest.
Its so depressing coping with these flare ups ist it? Bravo to you for coping for so long as this is a reccuring thought i have that i could have this for years and how do i cope
I have tried colpermin myself and also suffered heartburn so i will try the peppermint and see how that is for the bloating i have found that chewing fennel seeds helps me to a degree and am thinking about what my triggers are but cant seem to point to anything particular although i fully agree that my ibs is worse just before my period i may try the food diary anything is worth a go isnt it?
Thank you for your help i do appreciate it
Kecki
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Try to persist with the doctor though as some of the ibs symptoms that people have are similar to the problems you can get with gall stones. If I hadn't been sent for tests by my GP they wouldn't have found that I had gallstones and needed to have the gall bladder removed in the end.
The food diary doesn't always work for everyone, as sometimes the ibs is mainly triggered by stress and hormones. So I usually have a minor flare-up just before my period, although this month it's a bit worse. The peppermint tablets (I've found Holland and Barrett's to be the best), should help with cramps and I've been taking them on and off since I was diagnosed.
If you drink coffee, switch to decaff or stop drinking it for a while, I found that was one of my biggest triggers, but tea seems to be fine!
Also, take a look at the ibs network site (they used to be called the Gut Trust), there's a lot of useful information on there that can help.
I hope that everything goes well with your doctor, good luck and remember you're not alone!
Take care
gracesam
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Kecki
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One thing I have found good is eating live natural yogurt every day as part of breakfast and I've learnt that skipping meals if I'm not hungry is one of the worst things to do. I usually get a very bad bout if I don't eat, it seems to make the IBS worse.
I was told that part of the nausea is due to a rapid exchange of fluids in the colon, and it can also cause dizzy spells for me. Also watch out for artificial sweetners especially sorbitol (used in Orbit chewing gum etc), will usually act as a trigger for IBS.
When I had really bad nausea a few years ago, I had to have treatment for excess acid, which thankfully was a one-off course for me, but maybe you should get this checked out with your doctor, just to rule it out.
I hope that everything settles down for you soon
gracesam
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Just wish there was some sort of remedy i could take that helps me enjoy my day again!!!
Kecki
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You should get your doctor to check if you need treatment for acid reflux and have you tried taking peppermint oil? I hope things improve soon, take care.
cmc46
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turkey cmc46
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Sorry for going on soo much, but other half doesn't understand.
cazmum
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I've been prescribed Buscopan tablets and have bought some Actimel yoghurt drinks as I've also heard that they can help. It's a relief to know that my symptoms are quite typical and that there is light at the end of the tunnel, even if it is rather a long tunnel at the moment 😏
ssn51dreq
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rosie41
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cmc46
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I'm sorry to hear that things are not too good at the moment, I know what you mean about it taking over your life, have you had any tests like a colonoscopy,? I had that and was told it was IBS, if not you ought to keep on to your doctor and tell them how bad you are feeling, in the end I went on a low dose of antidepressants and this helped a lot, I got my appetite back and it wasn't on my mind 24/7 as it was before, this was last year and I am now weaning my self off the andi's, I still get the stomach problems but they aren't as bad and they are not on my mind all the time, I am learning to live with it, I hope you get some help soon,
aussiechick13
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Since then i had cut out dairy, fructose and gluten products as recommended by my gastro doctor.
within 6 months I lost 11 kgs which scared my family the most.
Even though I had cut out a lot of those foods, the symptoms are so severe, to the point where I can't even go out because I don't feel well, being an 18 year old all you want to do is go out and enjoy yourself but me on the other hand cannot.
My severe symptoms include, bloating (worse at night), loss of appetite due to mild nausea, cramping in the
upper and lower abdomen area, shortage of breath, toilet changes (3/4 times a day)
I just don't know how to manage these things, Ive been to the doctor COUNTLESS times as well with the
hospital, they all give me the same advice that is just not working
michelle26261
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last 3 mos. and has lost about 50 pounds. They've done numerous testing and have found nothing. I did read
an article by chance mos. ago as I was bettering my health and came across digestive enzymes and
probiotics. I read an article where this woman who had ibs said that digestive enzymes changed her life. So
just wanted to offer that for anyone to try. From research that I've done for myself (not related to ibs) I've found E-Factor premium japanese plant sourced enzymes to be the best. So I don't know if these will help but it's
something to try if you guys can't find anything to help. I would also recommend and all organic diet. I'm going to put my aunt on them along with probiotics and an organic diet with juicing as well. Sending love and light and healing energy to you all!! Oh and see yourselves healed and healthy ...the brain is miraculous!!