66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    hello! i have some problems with my left breast, meaning pain and swollen and different in size and shape comparing with the right one. did scans and mammo and everything came back normal. lately my aches and muscle pain is better than before, but i have my left arm in terrible pain and my inner elbow is swollen and my fist and fingers of the left hand a bit swollen also. is this caused by perimenopause? does somebody has this? my fingers are killing me. i did all the autoimune tests and mri and all seems to be ok, but my breast and all the left part of my upper body is killing me. help me with some advices of al least telm is because of hormones.

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      Hi Malina,

      i felt like that about a month ago went for bunch of tests everything came back normal a few days later was gone!! i think the more you stressing about it the worst it gets, at least thats how was with me. as soon i knew tests were ok i relaxed and it was gone..i know its crazy everyday is a different symptom yesterday was my stomach pain today a headache just doesnt stop!! this year will be 10 years i'm going through this !!

      feel better and happy new year!

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      Most of my pain is left side too - arm, hand, leg, etc. I did a bunch of autoimmune and other tests too and everything came back normal. I've had this 2+ years and have come to realize if my gut is off (constipation, etc) then the symptoms start up. Makes sense as a vast portion of the colon is on the left side. Most definitely stress affects it and some other things like poor diet (holiday snacking for me currently!), sitting too much, etc.

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      Hi Malina,

      from my experience everything you are experiencing is HORMONES. I have gone through all the symptoms you describe with the left side if my body. my left breast is larger then my right I have problems with pain and discomfort all down my left side. Breast, arm, left navel, where colon is, elbow, thigh, knee all painful down the left side if my body, i get constipated and this makes the symptoms worse. The pain were worse during peri menopause but now I am post menopause its a lot better, my doctor my physiotherapist and my orthopaedic consultant all said it was menopause and all hormone related. It does get better you said you have had the tests done and all is well, keep coming here and reading it helps hope you start feeling better soon.

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      hello Jules! thank you for your response. i had a bad day. i noticed my palm is swollen and my fingers are killing me. i don t know what to do, but i hope i ll get better one day. i am in pain since April 2019 and nothing seems to work in pain management.

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      you are absolutely right ! a year ago i had stopped sugars, coffee, alcohol and fatty foods and i felt so much better. over the holidays with friends and family my diet went out of the window and im feeling the worst i ever felt! my entire body is aching my fingers are swollen, headaches, stomach issues and anxiety been so bad!!!

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      the last days , i feel so weak and sluggish..I've been laying in my bed and also having a horrible nightmares involving my children..i wake up crying!!! Also my heart beat is elevated, which it shouldn't be since I'm laying in bed!!! I'm soooo sad 10 years and still no wnd to this nightmare!!!

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    I am new to this site.

    I'm experiencing symptoms of peri-menapause. I'm 47 and didn't realise i had started with these symptoms about a year ago - irregular heart rate and heart beating faster at times, happening at night.

    i'm now experiencing anxiety, lack of self confidence, was waking up with adrenaline rushes and now insomnia.

    I now find it hard to sleep one night then with little or no sleep then next day i will sleep no problem.

    I have felt so helpless over this last month - just utter dispair.

    I can't believe this is how it would be.

    i have chosen not to take HRT or any other medication so will just have to ride it out

    i will not be coming back as a women again!!

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      I will be 49 in February and I have experienced all of the symptoms you have mentioned and more! They seem to come and go in waves, which is very frustrating to me. At least we are not alone. Take care, and hang in there!

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      Hi Joanne

      i started with all these symptoms you describing when i was around 45 years old ..its been almost 10 years and still dealing with irregular heart rate and the anxiety is the most scariest thing!! i use to love traveling now my husband mention a vacation and i freak out, all these horrible things play in my mind!! i had so many tests for the past 10 years! this week im dealing with this full feeling when i eat so uncomfortable! and of course thinking the worst! everything will be ok..nothing wrong with your heart its all the crazy hormones!!

      feel better xxxx

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    hi! thank you to all of you for responding to my concerns. it helps me a lot. yesterday i noticed my left palm is swollen. i also have the inner elbow swollen from April and had terrible pain in my fingers, but the swelling of my palm is new. is this possible to be due to my hormonal imbalance to? anyone with the same problem? is strange that i only have my left part in pain: shoulder, arm, breast, ribs, elbow, palm and fingers. i have days when my pain is so bad that i cry. i am like that from March and no doctor is helping me. i had enough of the muscle and joint pain. anyone can tell me if it s something i can do about it? thnak you and Happy New Year!

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      I actually feel the same. the joint pain in my arms feel like my vains are gonna bust open. im seeing my doctor tomorrow.

      ive felt like total crap for 2 months its stopped me from working. feel sorry for every woman who has no choice b to work through this.

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      On top of everything else going on with me, I notice that I am getting more tingling and numbness in my hands. 😩️ It is coming and going at different times. Plus, I get pains in my arms and legs too. These symptoms seem to go on for a while then mutate into other problems. I have gone months without certain symptoms but get new symptoms and then have the old symptoms return. I've been doing this dance since my 30s and I am now 49 years old.

      Cut off all sugar to help with joint pain. That is the advice of some of the ladies who have been here a long time. It does help, but if you're a sugar fiend, like me, I can't stay away from chocolate or Coca Cola. Sigh.

      Anyway, I hope you feel better soon.

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    I'm feeling much the same as everyone here. I seem to be sweating a lot of the time, night and day. I'm waking up in the night drenched in sweat. oh the Joy's of being a woman! I'm 52 and STILL having periods which is really annoying too. I stopped for 3 months last Christmas, then had a smear test March last year and they started again 😕

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