66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies

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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49

These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation. 

1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.

2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.

3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.

4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life. 

5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much. 

6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.

7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.

8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.

9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.

10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.

11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime. 

12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low. 

13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.

14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones. 

15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.

16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running. 

17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.

18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods. 

19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.

20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it. 

21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.

22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.

23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.

24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls. 

25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.

26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur. 

27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so. 

28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.

29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.

30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess. 

31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.

32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging. 

33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over. 

34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion. 

35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.

36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.

37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.

38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.

39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant. 

40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.

41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.

42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack. 

43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.

44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.

45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.

46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.

47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.

48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.

49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.

50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.

51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.

52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.

53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.

54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.

55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.

56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.

57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.

58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.

59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.

60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.

61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.

62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.

63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)

64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.

65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.

66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.

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    Is there anyone on here in late 30s/early 40s? I’m 40 this year but started to have odd symptoms about 2 yrs ago. The only thing that makes sense of it all is peri menopause. Even my husband was like ‘wow, this is you’ when he saw the list. I keep it in my phone as it helps calm me down when I’m worrying about all the bizarre symptoms. Doctor says she very much doubts it because of my age and my periods are still fairly regular (24-30 day cycles) though they are usually incredibly heavy and give me anaemia if I’m not careful. I’ve always been heavy but lately they are worse and I have sudden floods. Some are much lighter though. The longer cycles seem to start with days and days of brown discharge. I’ve not missed any though. Doctor just puts it down to anxiety which again I’ve always had but it’s worse now, and for no real reason. I get vertigo, mini panics, sudden exhaustion that comes and goes, mild acne, odd sensations in my limbs (tight skin feeling, numb skin sensation that’s not really numbness in the true sense, muscle aches, terrible pms, less sex drive, dry eyes, poor short term memory, ectopic beats (had those for years but got worse), night sweats, insomnia, achy gums, nausea in first part of cycle, excess saliva, odd taste in mouth. There’s probably more! My Nan had full meno at my age but my mum was early 50s. I’ve had bloods done loads and all fine apparently!
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      Hello! And yes...I am 42 and have been having at least 6 months of strange symptoms. I initially thought I was dying (not joking...the symptoms were that random and bizarre).  After multiple trips to my doc he finally got sick of me and said I had anxiety and prescribed me anti-anxiety meds. My Gyn said all the symptoms and my period issues are all “normal for my age” but wouldn’t use the word perimenopause. My symptoms sound very similar to yours. I am just taking it one day at a time. This site helps me from going crazy.  Hang in there!
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      Hi Emma and Caroline

      The problem with GPs are they quickly dismiss these symptoms and push them back onto the patient as if they were 'made up' Having attended my practice several times only the FSH levels were done and came back within range all the time and in fact our hormone levels fluctuate all the time. I persisted and eventually had my Estrogen & LH levels tested to discover my estogen was very low hence all the symptoms similarly discribed by you both. I would imagine that from around 42 onwards (Im now 45) a decline of estrogen but I never associated with perimenopausal symptoms.

      Have you tried any of the supplements that other ladies have suggested are helpful on this site. If you haven't already please do ask your gp to do blood tests for LH and estrogen.

      Best wishes

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      Hello ladies,

      I wanted to give everyone an update on my acupuncture recommendation from my GYNO specifically for perimenopause symptoms.  I have gone 3 times now and you guys....I think it really is working.  I am sleeping through the night, my anxiety seems to be at bay, I wake up early and feel great.  

      NOW....don't get me wrong, I still have my tired moments but nothing like before, my left leg aches (had an ultrasound yesterday, everything came back normal) but the peri symptoms aren't as pronounced as before.  Also, I started taking magnesium supplements, a woman's vitamin specifically for perimenopause symptoms, a probiotic and lemon water every morning.  Also, I am picking up primrose oil today. I also use magnesium oil and rub it on any body part that is hurting or aching. (my neck muscles, my stomach, my legs, my feet) and it works!!

      I know I don't personally know each and everyone of you, but I talk about you as if I do.  You are all my rocks and I would be lost without this forum.  

      Have a great day!!

      Kiki smile

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      This is great this is so postive to read Kiki thank you for posting your update sounds promising. Glad to hear your ultrasound was fine too. These tips are really helpful and I am going to try the magnesium oil for my leg, should and neck ache too as well as the probiotic. I will be seeing my gyneacologist on Sunday so I will discuss the use of supplements alongside HRT and see what they suggest.

      I have an accupturist locally so I am going to make an appointment soon

      Keep us posted!

      Best  x

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      KikiP,

      I'm really encouraged by the acupuncture! I am happy it seems to be working for you. I am looking at acupuncturist where I am. Great news about the ultrasound, I get the left leg pain too. It will ache something fierce, then go away only to return. It is a scary feeling. 

      I also use the magnesium spray! I recommend it too. I put it on my upper thighs and rub it in, because it does have a slight tacky, dried salt water feel. The body absorbs the magnesium through your skin. 

      Your info is so encouraging! You made my day brighter, thank you!

      I also wish you a wonderful day!!  

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      Thats great news!!!

      how many mg of magnesium are you taking a day? i will definitely  give it a trysmile 

      Thank you so much, you give us hopelol

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      Get a high strength one-a-day supplement if you can. Its less to remember or get mixed up about. As it is absorbed it also behaves more like normal levels required to maintain maximum health benefits starting off strong and petering off as the day goes by just like the days hormone levels do. XXX
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      Dont forget a high strength Vit B complex for anxiety and depression and have your D levels checked. Valerian is great to aid sleep. XXX
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      Magnesium spray irritates my skin. I get very itchy! It is unbearable. I manage just about ok on my feet. I guess body will still take it from my feet.
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      Thanks Elaine. Yes I will look up the supplements. I’m taking magnesium and vitamin D and a multivitamin. I’m having a coil fitted tomorrow to hopefully stop the ridiculous periods. I just think, with the NHS, if it’s not going to kill you, GPs aren’t interested in the cause of symptoms like ours. The numbish feelings are worrying me most but GP says isn’t anything to worry about. It’s not like anything actually loses all sensation or feeling, no loss of strength or dexterity. It’s just an odd feeling, like I’ve laid on it too long, feels like it should be numb if I touch it, but it’s not when I do. Also get a feeling like I have a face mask that’s gone too hard over my skin sometimes on my right hand. It’s not all the time. Just sometimes!
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      Thanks Caroline! Good that it’s not just me! My GP has offered me anxiety meds in the past and I’ve had counselling but not for these symptoms. Often it’s just ‘there’s nothing wrong with you’. I don’t go too often tho and keep a lot of it bottled up and just worry about it. It’s chicken and egg. I’m obviously anxious about symptoms but is it anxiety causing them or a consequence of them? I find I go from worrying about one thing to another. At the moment it’s an odd feeling latch of skin on my knee and my limbs sometimes feeling slightly like they’re going to sleep if I get cold!
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    And....the magnesium supplement was rec by my gyno.  She said magnesium is just an all around great supplement for everything.

    Keep us updated.  

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      Thanks again. I know some people may not think much of positive posts, but I do especially going through all these changes. We need to not take out our Meno symptoms on others on this forum and be respectful that we are all individuals.

      Best Wishes x

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