66 Peri menopause / Menopause Symptoms you may experience which may help some ladies
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SIXTY-SIX PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS: Part one 1 - 49
These are very real physical changes and conditions. Some symptoms alarm a woman that she may be suffering from a serious disease. Perhaps you know the more common ones related to menopausal symptoms in this list. But many of these may surprise you, as they have not been typically associated with this normal physiological transformation.
1. Change in Menstrual Cycle, Cycles may get closer together or farther apart, lighter and shorter in duration or much heavier, lasting longer than one has been accustomed to. Menses may seem to take forever to begin with dark spotting for days until you actually flow, or you might feel like you have your menses every two weeks.
2. Menstrual Flooding can come on with sudden onset and feel like you may hemorrhage to death. Or it can be a gradual build up just when you think your menses will end and you start gushing for days. Flooding commonly accompanies the woman with uterine fibroids as she transits into menopause.
3. Headaches, Migraines, especially before, during or at the end of your menses debilitate and radically interferes with normal functioning.
4. Decreased Motor Coordination, Clumsiness, almost begins to make the woman who experiences this feel like she is certainly less than graceful during perhaps an already awkward period in her life.
5. Lethargy, a persistent feeling sluggishness physically and mentally, that seems to negate ones ability to do much.
6. Physical Exhaustion , and Crushing Crashing Fatigue that can come on so suddenly and grip you into feeling like you will collapse unless you stop this instant.
7. Exacerbation of any Chronic Illness or Existing Condition transpires as hormones decline or deviate from their normal balance.
8. Insomnia, this includes a new or unusual pattern of either difficulty falling asleep, or dropping off to sleep for a few hours and then awakening with the inability to return to sleep.
9. Sleep Disturbances sometimes are from nightmares, night sweats, or just a vague sense of restlessness keeping you up or disrupting your precious revitalizing retreat from this realm of responsibilities.
10. Night Sweats often begin between a woman?s breasts, initially a night or two before her menses, waking her from sleep, later more profoundly disturbing with up to total body saturation, followed by damp or sweat drenched chills.
11. Interference With Dream Recall interrupts the sense of normal sleep, if you are someone accustomed to vivid or at least some detailed memory of your dreamtime.
12. Muscle Cramps can occur anywhere in the body from legs to back to neck, and sometimes reflects the need for more calcium, or simply that your progesterone levels are too low.
13. Low Backache often worsens before or during menses, but if your hormones remain at low levels, you can experience it on a regular basis.
14. Gall Bladder Symptoms of pain, spasms and discomfort felt in the right upper abdominal quadrant under the ribs, which may be accompanied by belching, bloating, and intolerance to certain foods reflect the increased liver load with declining hormones.
15. Frequent Urination, or sensations that mimic urinary infections is a disturbing symptom often unrelieved by actual urination. It is often experienced as the sensation of needing to urinate all the time, even immediately afterwards.
16. Urinary Incontinence, the uncontrollable and spontaneous loss of urine, or the Urge for Incontinence, can occur suddenly or feel continuous, and not only in response to coughing, sneezing, jumping or running.
17. Hypoglycemic Reactions happen when suddenly your blood sugar crashes and you must have food now.
18. Food Cravings, often for sweets or salty foods, but can include sour or pungent foods.
19. Increased Appetite, especially at night and after dinner contributes to that unusual and unwanted weight gain.
20. Dark Circles Under Eyes can also be caused by adrenal exhaustion and thyroid dysfunctions, but no amount of sleep seems to eliminate it.
21. Joint and Muscle Pain, Achy, Sore Joints, Muscles and Tendons, which sometimes develop into actual carpal tunnel syndrome, or give rise to the questioning of other disease possibilities.
22. Increased Tension in Muscles demonstrates itself in those hunched up shoulders as you work or talk about anything uncomfortable, along with promoting lower back pain and a stiff neck.
23. Increased Hair Loss or Thinning anywhere on body, including your head, armpits, pubic area.
24. Increase in Facial Hair especially under your chin, or along your jaw line. It may be defined by generalized hair growth, or a specific and coarse single strand of hair that pokes out, even curls.
25. Unusually Hair Growth, around Nipples, between Breasts, down your back, places where your hair was finer, less coarse.
26. Acne, quite disturbing to any woman who dealt with this in adolescence and never thought it would recur.
27. Infertility causes grief in the woman who postponed pregnancy in her earlier years and now wishes to conceive, carry to term a healthy baby, and discovers she is unable to do so.
28. Loss of Breast Tissue begins with the decrease of progesterone production. Women often feel as though their breast have become empty sacs devoid of their normal fullness, with or without sagging.
29. Breast Soreness/Tenderness/Pain/ Engorgement and swelling, occurs particularly a few days to one week before bleeding actually begins, which usually potentiates complete relief of any pain or swelling.
30. Painful, or tender nipples have been described as this exquisite localized pain only in the nipples and suggests estrogen excess.
31. Cold Extremities feels quite strange especially in the presence of a hot flash, the combination of which is not impossible.
32. Being Accident Prone, bumping into things, not even realizing it until the bruise reveals itself later and then lacking the ability to recall the causative incident feels perplexing and a little scary at the prospect of something more damaging.
33. Hot flashes initially may be described as mild to severe flushes of heat waves, and for some women these evolve into intense outbreaks of sudden heat with sweating and turning bright red all over.
34. Loss of Sexual Energy, our Libido, can be marked by a gradual or sudden disinterest in sex, to the development of an actual aversion.
35. Painful Sex often described as if one?s vagina would tear open at the point of penetration along with feelings of abrasion during intercourse.
36. Vaginal Dryness, Irritation, sometimes accompanied by a consistent unusual discharge - typically odor free, negates a woman?s ability to be sexually active, or able to enjoy or be comfortable in her body.
37. Dizziness, feeling lightheaded and the loss of physical balance, and even a bit wobbling at times, requires pause in movement to prevent falling over or deepening into vertigo or feeling faint.
38. Ringing in the Ears, Tinnitus, can be experienced as a pulsing sensation, a whooshing sound, an almost musical or buzzing sound with a fuzzy sensation.
39. Abdominal Bloating comes on suddenly often after eating, or seems to be all the time, and can be visibly evident making you feel that you look like you are pregnant.
40. Weight Gain disturbs most women, particularly when it seems to happen over a couple of days, settles in the waist, buttocks and thighs, promoting a visceral thickening from the waist down, the classic middle-aged figure.
41. Fluid Retention, Edema, commonly with swelling in the legs and ankles, though not limited to this area and it is unrelieved by urination.
42. Palpitations or Heart Racing usually comes on suddenly, without warning or provocation, and dissipates spontaneously. The experience can be so wild and intense that a woman may become alarmed and wonder if she is having a heart attack.
43. Irregularities in your Heart Rate may feel more like your heart has just done a flip-flop or skipped a beat.
44. Constipation/Diarrhea, intermittent or alternating, results from declining hormone levels, which increase the demands on liver function and alters intestinal motility.
45. Tendency towards Candidiasis can increase, even if you have no prior known history ? and if you do, it may worsen.
46. Gastrointestinal Distress, Increased Flatulence, Unrelieved Gas pains, Indigestion, Nausea all can reflect intestinal changes due to hormonal imbalances.
47. Slow Digestion often goes along with the bloat ? what previously took four to five hours to digest, now seems to take all night. It seems worse in the evenings.
48. Lack of Appetite may be experienced as more of a lack of interest in food, going to the frig and standing there with the door open and staring blankly. Feeling completely uninspired, you busy yourself with something else and forget that you need to eat.
49. Changes in Body Odor especially disturbing when it seems to focus in the groin area, but can be anywhere on the body.
50. Puffy Eyes, not only from sleep disturbances, but also can accompany low progesterone.
51. Facial Pallor alternating with Facial Flushes is often intermittent with hot flashes.
52. Flare up of Arthritis worsens with low progesterone levels and increase sugar intake.
53. Loss of Bone Density, Osteoporosis, is not only an elderly woman?s disease, though it seems to develop over an extended period and is triggered by the decline of hormone production.
54. Dry Hair, Change in Skin Tone, Integrity, and Texture, becomes more wrinkled, and may begin the thinning process.
55. Changes in your Fingernails characterized by easy breakage, bending, cracking and getting softer.
56. Itchy, Crawly Skin with a strange sensation like insects crawling around under the skin ? quite different than the dry skin feeling.
57. Muscle tone seems to slack and sag, and loose its previous response to normal exercise.
58. Pelvic Pain can be random and independent of cycles and may feel continuous for some women.
59. Dry, Itchy Eyes felt in the deep posterior aspect of the eye socket, as well as superficially.
60. Teeth Aching or the experience of a strange sensation in one?s teeth or gums, often accompanied by an increase in bleeding gums.
61. Change in the normal Tongue sensation, which can be accompanied by a feeling of burning in your tongue and roof of mouth, malodorous breath or change in breath odor, and/or a bad taste in your mouth.
62. Memory Loss or Lapses in time, makes one feel disoriented and less focused, especially when you go into another room to get something specific and seconds later cannot remember what you went to retrieve.
63. Feeling Faint for no known reason (this does not include standing up too quickly)
64. Tingling in Extremities not only feels weird and like your hands or feet are falling asleep, but if persistent can be a symptom of diabetes, B12, potassium or calcium deficiency, or a compromise in blood vessel flexibility.
65. Sensation of Electrical Stimulation,or Shock occurring in the tissue under the skin, and may signal you that a hot flash will begin.
66. Increase and worsening of Allergies occurs as hormones become imbalanced, so can our immune system.
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tonya13787 jayneejay
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Okay everyone, who gets the severe hot flashes and cold flashes? Wooo weee! Lately I have been getting random lava bursts that are so intense they cause nausea and then they turn to intense cold flashes that make me feel like I am getting the flu. I end up under my covers shaking and then the hot flush comes back and I am desperate to get the blankets off! Then I end up sleepy because I can't get enough sleep. I turned 48 last month and now I am just miserable with these latest events. I had the hot flashes back in my 30s and now, I suppose they have returned to wreak havoc on me. I am so ready for all of these symptoms to just stop.
kjvands tonya13787
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Same here Tonya! Up at 3 am today with them. Had it yesterday in a coffee shop. Sometimes I get the nausea too. And at night typically leg cramps accompany them which is the worst for me. I just had 2.5 weeks of no symptoms which is rare and so great but now they're back with a vengeance. Mentally it's taking its toll on me today as I thought maybe I was done with all this crap and could live my normal life. But the little voice of logic in me was like 'no you're still in perimeno so don't kid yourself'.
The lack of sleep is a killer too. I like your "lava bursts". I may have to use that:)
Thank god for you and this group. I don't know where I'd be without the support.
lisa95354 tonya13787
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Hello Tonya, the cold and hot flashes are terrible and you described it perfectly, it does feel like the flu. Do you take any type of menopause support or black cohosh. Look at my comment to Karen, KJ vands, I gave her the ingredients to the specialty meno support my pharmacist compounds. Also I apologize if I asked you this before, are you still consuming caffeine, caffeine is the ultimate worst for hot flashes, also alcohol and sugar. TRy not to eat after 6 PM at night as if you do your body will burn energy to digest the food and that will also cause hot flashes. Put several drops of peppermint essential oil in a spray bottle with water, and spray on your chest, stomach, wrists, neck and inside your forearms when having a hot flash, really helps. For the aches and pains I get this spray that has a essential oil’s in it and it’s fabulous it’s called, Stop Pain, you can get it anywhere, Walgreens, CVS, any pharmacy pretty much. It is such an array of symptoms it becomes exhausting, but we are all in this together 😉 Thinking of you… Have a great day 😃
tonya13787 kjvands
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Like you, I had a peaceful week or so and then these lava/freezer bursts hit. I actually had to take a couple of sleeping pills just to get caught up on sleep. Yes, it does feel like lava is trying to break from a volcano when these things hit. Like a volcano at the north pole.
I agree, it is good to have others to talk to about these issues. 😃
tonya13787 lisa95354
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Hi Lisa,
No, I don't take anything for these symptoms and I have cut way back on my sugar intake and cut down to one Coke a day. I detest coffee in all of its forms so Coca Cola is my caffeine. I am going to be having sugar DTs over this. I came into this world weaned on Coke and chocolate. Heck, my mother craved chocolate milk and lemon filled long john donuts while pregnant with me. Being a sweet fiend, it is difficult to function without them. I can't handle alcohol, one or two sips and I am out like a light. I am on a night shift schedule with my husband and I sleep during the day. But I am trying not to eat before sleeping because I just can't do that anymore. I used to be able to jump out of bed and eat and then head right back to bed and keep on sleeping, but those days are gone. My GERD won't let me eat then sleep now.
Thanks for the suggestions, I will definitely try to get the peppermint oil and stop pain oil. 😃 Have a great day too.
lisa95354 tonya13787
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My mother had a vicious sweet tooth as well that I inherited. Every day at 3 we would have coffee and some delicious homemade baked dish, since I was a child. I have to admit it has been hard for me to give up sugar as well, I’ve already had too much today. Rome wasn’t built in a day 😉
lynniebird jayneejay
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Good morning to everyone! I so appreciate finding this forum, it makes me feel less alone going through this unpleasant journey! I have read extensively about peri-menopause and menopause and have never seen many of the symptoms listed here among the "usual". I haven't felt like myself in quite a while, I'd say 7 years, I'm currently 55. I, too, have had the horrifying heart palpitations that led me to the ER twice last year, had scans and blood tests run, all normal. I was prescribed a beta blocker and ativan. I took the beta blocker for six months, still felt the occasional racing heart. I lost a ton of hair......alot! I decided to wean myself off of the beta blocker because I felt I didn't need it as I don't have high blood pressure. I now use ativan when I feel I need to. I am so tired of feeling anxious and exhausted from my over thinking, I become angry that life is passing me by and I am only a bystander in my own life. I don't now where to begin to explain this to my family. I love my family and want to be the old me, is that going to be possible? When does this feeling of wearing an amoured suit end? I haven't had a period in 11 months. I don't know how my husband tolerates me!!! I can't tolerate me!!! Haha 😃
tonya13787 lynniebird
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Hi Lynniebird,
I like your name and yes, heart palps and flutters are a normal symptoms of this mess. The other day, I was talking about how I hadn't had any in over a month and guess what? I had some after saying what I did. Coughing helps stop them. Losing hair on your head due to it migrating to your face sucks! Walmart has vitamins for hair/nails that help your hair grow. That anger is another symptom with mood swings and yes, anger at having your life hi-jacked is normal. It seems this stuff just keeps on going with no end. I don't know about you, but I go from crying to laughing and then to anger over all of it. People who don't experience this look at you like you've lost your mind and frankly, it does feel like you've gone insane. Sharing your experiences with others who go through it does help. There is comfort in knowing that one is not alone. If you makes it 12 months without a period you will officially be in menopause. I hope you feel better. 😃
lisa95354 lynniebird
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This forum is having issues, I just wrote to 2 paragraphs to you and it wiped it out, so annoying! I feel exactly like you just described, mine has been going on for 10 years. What I wouldn’t give to be my carefree fun self, it’s like an alien is taking over my body. And I don’t know how my partner tolerates me either, sometimes I feel so bad. And I do feel like a bystander in my own life as well. Were you losing your hair because of your thyroid, I know you said your blood test came out ok, but that sounds like a thyroid issue. And the overthinking, that’s what my partner said he said you over examine everything, I feel like I literally am losing my mind. It’s like my head feels like a circus, we just had that conversation tonight. I feel like I’m constantly spinning in circles with the same stupid stuff. It is a struggle but I know we will make it through, even tho its very difficult. You’re not alone we do all feel this way. sending positive thoughts your way 😃
lisa95354 lynniebird
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I also meant to say, anxious and exhausted from overthinking, that is exactly how I feel every single flipping day. And it is so hard to explain to family members, you really truly can’t understand unless you’re going through it. And that is exactly how I feel, less alone so thank God for this forum! It’s like we are all just exhausted just trying to make it through the day.
lisa95354 tonya13787
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I keep forgetting to ask you, how is your pain level. Some days I can barely move!
lynniebird lisa95354
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Oh, I feel for you as well! This stuff is not for sissies! As far as my hair loss, I attributed it to the beta blocker that I was prescribed. I researched side effects of the particular one that I had been taking for six months and hair loss and weight gain were common side effects. I was losing a handful of hair every time I shampooed my hair, something that was very odd for me. It has been two months since I have discontinued taking the beta blocker and I am seeing much less hair loss....hurray! I know that hair thinning is part of our aging process, but this sudden hair loss was altogether different. I love a simple solution to a problem! Now if I could only solve the remaining issues all would be great!!! I honestly think that my quest for a solution is part of my over thinking, I just can't accept that this is my new normal, it is so unfair! I do feel better when I exercise and get more than four hours of sleep! Oh well, another day ahead for me, I am babysitting my 21 month old twin grandchildren!! Wishing you all the best! 😃
amy341731 jayneejay
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you ladies are all so amazing and supportive! SO glad I found you. we can always find someone to help us out and not feel so scared, alone, sad..Thank you all so much..these responses are simply amazing, sometimes hilarious and ALWAYS what we need. xoxo
Junglechicken jayneejay
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Anyone else experience little stitches in left side (under rib cage)? Accompanied by pain there?
I have no idea what is causing it, but its been going on for about 6 weeks now. Really worried.
Not sure if its GI tract or what, but my last period arrived on Day 50 (of my non-existent cycle).
Just had vaginal swab done for bacterial culture. GP also said "down there" was dry.
Also going to have another FSH test done on 1 November to see whats going on with oestrogen levels.
kjvands Junglechicken
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Hi, I was also getting the stitches there frequently. A few months back thinking it may be constipation I started a heaping tablespoon of psyllium husk in a glass of water once a day followed by drinking lots of water throughout the day (lots of water required when using psyllium husk). My bowel movements are amazing as a result (no straining, etc.) I only now get that problem when I miss using the psyllium. Hope this might help you?
I also had "dry season" in June during my worst episode of perimeno due to my first 49 day cycle. It hasn't happened since as my periods are more frequent again but assume it will probably be upon me once again. Would love to hear from others too if they have this experience and how they deal with it.
All best to you!