Age doesnt give you the right to talk down

So sorry you've been made to feel this way.  We are all in the same boat regardless of age.  I hope you do stick around, because we need you!  

Hi Sarah,

Sorry your upset!! I hope I haven't said anything to make you upset..I mostly read posts on this site I don't really respond to them...most of the time there's already like 20 comments...I I feel my is not really needed...and I try to stick with questions that I have personally been through...I have a very bad memory and don't know if I've responded to anything you have posted...if I have and upset you I apologize!! I hope that you stay strong and know that I and most everyone here cares about you!

Good luck!! Stay strong and don't leave!! Your personal experiences could really help someone!!

Danielle

okay,

I am throwing something in this discussion ....

it is the planets !!!! seriously - 5 planets are in retrograde and one of the is mercury - lots of communication issues, miscommunication , overly sensitive and reactive - 

so there - no need to worry because : THIS TOO SHALL PASS

as always,

big warm hug to all

renee

p.s. - all said in respect for y'all and love from my heart 

 

Hi all,

I have deleted the other discussion this is about and will PM users later.

One again if anything is posted that causes offence or I need to be aware of please do NOT reply but report the initial post to me to save discussions like this and the other one turning into an argument.

Regards,

Alan

Thank you for posting this. We value so much your input and it would be very sad if you left the forum. It's  such a shame that some pre op people do not ask all their relevant questions to their surgeons and/or GP before posting questions here. The doctors and their staff should be the first port of call for individual issues as they are aware of the circumstances for the surgery needed. We are individuals but also our hip replacements are individual too. Some people feel more pain than others and that's a simple fact. I needed pain relief every 2 hours for post op pain. 

Im sure I am one of many sending you our support as you have been through such a lot of surgery at such a young age and value your support for others. Ignore those silly minorities x

 

Sarah - I am so sorry you are upset, it is important especially given the history that you do not feel the need to leave. You have so much to give this forum, and one comment from one user in the whole world, when ALL the others are so kind and caring, you will lose more than you will gain, and this is not the way a forum should be conducted. We need to be robust but careful with ourselves on the internet, even on our lovely forum.

If I were you I would give more consideration to whom you respond to - do not respond to anyone whom you feel makes you feel even the slightest bit uncomfortable. If you follow this pathway then it becomes easy to avoid anything unpleasant. You do not need to reply to everyone. No one expects you to. 

You are such a brave soul, and you are certainly not judged by anyone that you care about on here.

So promise me now, you will not leave and you will not be drawn again. You are a young and strong woman, and have just come through a HUGE operation, so you should be feeling proud and strong.  You certainly do not need to feel intimidated or worried about anyone or anything, especially not here where you will always find love and support, but just be mindful who to reply to.

Hi sarah - such a shame you have been made to feel this way - no one has the right to cause anyone to have these feelings , worries or upset . You just carry on doing what you are doing and proudly hold your head high :-D

Xx

Please don't give up Sarah, your young, yes, but you have been through so much more than a lot of us have, keep being strong.xx