Am I back to SQ 1?
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Hi all ive been on the mend for around a month now but yesterday my anxiety was triggered and I feel ive just gone back sq #1, it's my daughters 21st tomorrow so I'm not going to say anything but am at psychiatrists tomorrow morning so will mention it. I do hope ive not gone backwards and this is a blip and things will click back into place but at the moment I could just cry. Due back to start work on a phased return Monday so I'm now really anxious about that now but will go.
Some reassurance would be a boost. N
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iain68035 Aspinan
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Jim1234 Aspinan
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Since anxiety really took hold of me I can say a strange off shoot is I've become a more compasionate a person and can empathize too quickly. Whatever someone's feeling, I feel it too. My kids' issues especially because lord knows I just want life easier for them. Mine choose to take the hard way too often so it triggers my anxiety. I guess anxiety hasn't been all bad. I wouldn't trade my new found compassion for others; though everything else can happily go away without regret...
archemedes Aspinan
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You have proved that you can overcome this great problem, so you know you have to be determined not to let it get the better of you.
You can do it for yourself and for those around you who love you, so don't give in now keep up the good work.
Aspinan
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My anxiety is aimed at being anxious about going backwards more than anything else.
Ive just had a right good cry whilst nobody is here, my other daughter and wife will be home soon so I'll have to hold it together as it will upset them to know I'm finding I'm struggling, really hope over the next day or so it goes and I'll see light at the end of the tunnel again.
Really didn't expect this as Id felt as though id got through the worse over last 4 weeks and that Id come too far to go backwards so it's a huge blow, although it was only January I was told I was suffering from severe depression but thanks for reassurance that it's a blip, can't get my head around it being just that at moment.
Neil
archemedes Aspinan
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We often exclude our partners from our most intimate of fears and experiences, but I believe that a problem shared is a problem less,
Why not try it?
If it is any consolation to you, I have confidence in your complete recovery.
Best wishes
Rod
Jim1234 Aspinan
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On a side note. I used alcohol for years thinking it was just for pleasure. Never late for work and such but in discussions with my doctor it's believed I was self medicating with alcohol to treat my anxiety and sleep apnea. Alcohol and sleep apnea, now there's a dangerous pair. I don't drink anymore because of the meds but I do miss a regular beer (I drink a no alcohol beer now and again) and especially the smell and taste of Johnny Walker.
archemedes Jim1234
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Been there, done that and got the Tee shirt too - anxiety too.
There is no substitute other than to adopt a 'bloody-minded I will not give in' attitude to this problem.
I know that you will come out of this Jim and win, so don't give in before the battle is won.
Jim1234 archemedes
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How are you fareing? Does it ever go away completely? Can you get back to a "normal" life?
Aspinan Jim1234
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My anxiety latches onto Julia and I think all sorts of things, but I'm not too bad now, might take a few days to pass but I'll get there. Gonna ask psychiatrist to prescribe something I can take if I get a bout of acute anxiety as only got a couple of diazepams which I haven't touched for weeks, but had one (split into 2 halves), kept one for tomorrow, but could do with emergency supply. N
Jim1234 Aspinan
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I don't know if you've read about Stevie Nicks from the band Fleetwood Mac, but she had a terrible problem with anxiety. She was also addicted to Cocane. She was prescribed multiple benzodiazapines like ativan, xanax, klonopin, and valium. She said she lost many years of her life and was basically in a stooper because it was easier to add more benzo's to stay ahead of the "bad" then to deal with it. She finally got sober and off the benzos. If you read her story it's profound. She said getting off cocane was nothing. A short time and you're clean, but the benzos was a long, long, terrible, scary fight. The toughest thing in her life.
Long story short, I had to take an ativan this morning, and it's also probably why I'm on this website today. My anxiety was way up and going into an attack so I took the ativan. I read the blogs to try and find something new someone might be using to battle anxiety so I can discuss with my nurse. I'm very in charge (good or bad) with my own health now. The fact is 8 years ago there wasn't much information that I could relate to my anxiety. Today it's much different and I can relate to even the most severe stories. There's comfort in knowing I'm not alone and also to hear some of the folks who are better discussing how they got through the tunnel.
archemedes Jim1234
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The first stage was giving-up the 'hard stuff'. That in itself did not totally get rid of my anxiety problems, but it did become less of a problem, only striking at me when there were unexpected issues of extreme pressure in my life.
Over a while I learned when to expect problem when certain scenarios occurred, so I created a silent mantra telling myself that I was perfectly normal and anyone else would probably struggle under the same circumstances.
The recovery times became less and less, and today I just take everything in my stride and live a normal life.
I do believe that the 'mantra' habit became an almost unconscious process, so I really don't know if today at stressful times it kicks-in without me knowing about it but I'm ok though.
Aspinan Jim1234
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im acutely aware of the addictive nature as such I treat them with total respect which is why my GP is happy to prescribe despite he having a very addictive personality, he and my psychiatrist trust me not to abuse them.
Yesterday appears to be a blip but still feeling it today so hoping over next day or do I'll settle down again. N
Jim1234 archemedes
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The best thing for me (this will sound strange too) is building a dome. I'm sure some phych doc could explain why it works to some degree; changing the worry-some thoughts, a sheltering feeling, and calming the physical symptoms maybe. I think it's more to do with my desire to build things. I've always been facinated with geodesic domes. I want to cover my entire property so it becomes a giant green house. My house sits on a fair size piece of land and doming it would be an adventure. The huge benefit this time of year would be no snow shoveling. Not that it's too hard with a snow blower but it's not fun either. Thinking about materials to use, how to construct the foundations, using a bucket truck to add the covering, etc., etc., etc. It puts me into a happy place. Who knows, someday I might just build it. I live on agricultural zoned land so most code requirements don't apply if it's for livestock or farm equipment. I'd stretch that rule book to it's limits...
I did get a copy of Lucinda (forgot the last name) DVD/CD/workbook on attacking anxiety. It was work and I have to admit it has helped. There's meditation exercises and basically teaches you how to change your thinking. I'm only on week 5 but it has helped. I think the set retails with the extra videos for around $600, but I was lucky enough to pick it up at a used book store for $34. I'm guessing whoever originally bought it wasn't impressed from the get go because all but the first CD was still in the wrapper, including the work book. Sadly, my first thoughts were the person had bad anxiety and gave in because as we know this condition is no joke. Hopefully, it just wasn't for them and they moved to a different approach.
Jim
Jim1234 Aspinan
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I'm seeing more light in my travels in the anxiety tunnel but for some reason this morning I, like you, had a little blip too. At the time it didn't seem little, but I'm still alive and feel better and pretty much went on with business as close to usual as possible so now so I guess I'll call it a victory. I know it'll take a couple days to be fully free but it's liveable.
You know I'm always looking for new ways or reasons for my anxiety because in my eyes, if you don't know what's causing it, how do you plan to battle it and win? My wife had thyroid issues and it was really making her feel terrible. I read up on it and it's amazing that thyroid can cause anxiety, as well as a host of other symptoms. This morning in the throws of the "near" full-blown attack, I tested my blood sugar. It was a little high but I think it was because I lost concentration and actually stuck the test stick in backwards and may have mucked up the machine a little. I don't have diabetes but I bought a cheap tester (and a BP monitor) to see if those were affected by a panic attack. Nope. Strange because when I feel bad, I'm sure it's physical too and no real changes to either blood sugar or BP. My heartbeat used to speed up but since I've been on the beta-blocker, nothing there either. Nuts of an explanation, and not what I would've expected, but I had to know.
Jim
archemedes Jim1234
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Basically it goes like this:
IDTDDNH
Ill - pill
Despair - rare
Tired - rewired
Doubt - without
Depressed - rest
Nervous - baseless
Hardship - get a grip
It worked for me as it made me really thaink about what was going on and how I should regard it.
archemedes
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Afraid - Home made
Jim1234 archemedes
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Jim
archemedes Jim1234
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When your'e 'ill - take a pill' etc., etc 'depressed - rest', 'hardship - get a grip', and the best one of the lot I thought 'afraid - home made'.
Much better than the standard pre-determined ones supplied which didn't help me at all.
Your idea of making-up your own cards is excellent. Just try to remember to keep it short and to the point, because when we are in the middle of an anxiety attack we have little time to focus on long sentences.
Good luck Jim.
Jim1234 archemedes
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Jim
archemedes Jim1234
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Rod