Anyone else stuck in that vicious health anxiety cycle?

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So the last time I posted on here it was a few months back and thankfully the health issue that was causing me soo much anxiety has finally passed . But has anyone else noticed that the feeling of releivement only lasts a very short period before you find something else to worry about . I’m 22 year old female and for most of my young life have dealt with health anxiety pretty well . But since my best friend past away a few months back I can’t seem to shake this bad flare up . I’m currently dealing with a upset stomache and skin issues which has me worrying over stomache and skin cancer . I’m honestly just so fed up of being stuck in this horrific cycle , I miss being the person I used to be . I was social , looked forward to things , loved having fun just graduated with a 1st , got my own place . But now it’s like I’m the complete opposite when I’m around people I put on this front when deep aside I just feel sad .When I wake up in the morning I dread the day , I dread what new symptom is going to cause me stress. I’ve spent a lot of time at the gp , a&e and have even paid privately at desperate times just looking for some sort of reassurance that I’m okay . But even when I receive the reassurance I will be on top of the world for a few days of that , just before I find something else to knock me down. I know only I can make myself better but I was just wondering how other people may have dealt with this horriable health anxiety cycle ?

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    Hi,

    I can completely sympathise with you! It’s anxiety disorder and this awful health anxiety, you deal with one symptom get the all clear and then few days later something new pops up that doesn’t go away causing us sufferers to assume the worst! I have done it all.. brain tumour, mouth, throat cancer, sepsis, tetanus, lymphoma, Hodgkin, aids, everything you can think of and now I’m on lung cancer, i am also quite young and the only 26!, and I know how it feels for it to consume your life in constant worry you have an awful disease, your not alone and never feel like you are! 

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      Hi Leah , thanks for responding it is nice to know that I’m not the only one going through this but as you said it’s horriable . I have also had the lung cancer scare and even though we’re so young to even think about this type of illness you can’t help but think your going to be that 1 in a million who does get it at a young age . This is meant to be the best years of our lives and yet they seem to be the worst at the moment , I hope we both overcome this horriable phase , thankyouu x
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    I have health anxiety too .. constantly thinking about heart attacks or strokes it's horrible I'm 23 .. my mum or dad have never had anything wrong with them in that way ... the only person that has had heart attacks in my family is my grandad but mum and dad healthy just can't get it out of my heads it's horrible... some days I will be alright but then it kicks back in after a day or too... I know what your going threw it's horrid

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      Hey Daniel , yeah it’s such a strange thing I come from a very big family and there is no history from what I’m aware of any illness or condition of any sort . Yet I seemed to be plagued by all these ideas , I also think because we look on Google soo much we open our minds to illnesses and conditions most people will never even think about . But because we’re now so exposed to these conditions when something is wrong with us we go to the worst possiable scenario.  Thankyou for sharing that with me .
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    well, not just you or me, many many here have faced this vicious cycle of anxiety..

    but one should keep the faith and definitely it is possible to come out of it..

    your nick name "Live Your Best"  is so inspiring, this has given me new energy.. 

     

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      Hi ark

      It’s true to think sooo many people have this condition . Faith has definately helped me at my lowest times and I’m glad because it’s true we all have to find a way eventually to just live our best lives. 

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    Health issues can do that. I been through cancer, lung issues and fragile bones. Each illness brings anxiety and I start out doing everything I can to make it go away. Then, I go back to being myself. 

    I hate the in between fright & flight feeling. It confuses my thinking and memory. The physical feel of it is terrible too. Stomach issues, sore muscles, low energy.......

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      Hey Donna , tell me about it , it’s such a horriable feeling and even when you finally get over one thing it’s only a short amount of time before another issue creeps in , really sucks sad 
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      Donna. This is me too. Always something new to worry about. Sadly not just about health. The world is too hard for me. Good luck with your struggles. I never knew there were so many of us suffering. So sad. 
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      Cathy, what ails you? The world is very stressful....if you want to DM me I'm here to talk....

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      cathyanne 20404 too: 

      Not all of it is personal health issues. We're having financial issues too. My husband's health is always a surprise. He continues to have one problem after the other. 

      There are times when I think I have a right to be a nervous wreck. LOL! 

       

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    Hey there, I wanted to ask what, what came first?  You said you had a lung cancer scare, did you smoke in your teens? Do reckless things? I'm asking because i've dealt with somewhat similar issues as you, as a result of what I can only assume were bad habits society imposed upon me and I'm wondering if you have done similar things...let me elaborate.. I have been labeled by friends and family as a hypochondriac---not in good vain. When I was a teenager, I smoked cigarettes, I didn't eat properly, I was hospitalized with anorexia twice--I was taught to hate my body so I went below 70lbs.......(yeah sad) and when I went to college the reckless self destruction didn't stop there. Around 2010, when I was 20 years old, I started having severe anxiety attacks--I dealt with acne and acne rashes, which I never had a big issue with before, and most of all- bloating, water retention and stomach aches as a result of my body not being able to properly metabolize and assimilate food, and stress from my daily life of classes and pressure to succeed. This went on for about 2 years. All of these symptoms led me to many different avenues to figure out how to cure whatever I had, which I was quite sure something was devastatingly off with me compared to other seemingly well functioning people. I fermented food, I ate only vegan, began exercising regularly, quit smoking for good, quit alcohol, took all sorts of herbs and made my own kombucha elixirs for my stomach. (BTW hummus and tahini sauce are great natural anti-depresasnts). And most of all, I began listening to my body and relaxing and meditating. All of this is to say, I don't really know now what helped me in particular, the food and the diet is only one small portion of what you have to do--maintaining a sense of relief and happiness is so difficult in this society- sometimes with daily stressors of living in a late capitalistic industrial era we age more than we want, we get sick, we get tired.....but this doesn't necessarily mean that you're going to get any of things you think you might get, such as cancer. And the reason I ask about your past is because, if you didn't do the terrible things that I did to my body, then that's a good sign. I still deal with anxiety today, even after I tried to find natural remedies (which believe me is not an easy thing to tackle). You're not alone in this. 

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    Yes...look into medication and therapy if you haven't already. Anxiety is NOT something you can always fix by yourself, it is a real disease despite what some on here say. You can actually see the difference in brain scans and there is a ton of medical evidence out there. I have been struggling for over 20 years and while there are a lot of things you can do to help you cope with your anxiety and its symptoms sometimes that is not enough. I know it wasn't in my case, Medication and therapy was the only thing that got me to be a semi-functioning person. Unfortunately I have been without both for a while now and have been stuck in this vicious cycle once again. If I could afford it I would be back at my psychiatrist in a heartbeat and back on my meds and seeing my therapist regularly once again. You need to start treating the anxiety itself, only then will you get some relief. Therapy would be a great help for you, in my opinion. Good Luck!!!

     

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      Racheld is correct. Anxiety is a real, physical disease. It can imitate other diseases, but docs can determine that. 2nd opinions are great too. 

      Racheld, do you find that certain activities increase the feeling of well-being? 

       

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