Bedridden and frustrated on a beautiful day

And with the thought of a test comming out..I wonder DO I REALLY have it?

​Cause I was just told I have a Vitamin D deficiency...which can cause similar symptoms. And 78% of people have this deficiency.

Feel your pain. I have days too when I feel like my legs f so heavy n ache 😞

i KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN  !!!. I was always an active person did aerobics kick boxing  etc. Now im blessed if I can move 50 yds a day. Depression anxiety pain exhaustion and most of all GUILT !!

so sorry you feel ;like that,thats what fibro does.you arent lazy or useless .my housework gets done when and as i feel able and it takes me almost all day to wash my floors.I have the same problem -family and friends dont get how much we suffer because they "cant see"our pain etc.i get told im eating ok even tho have no appetite (not fibro)and that i am eating as much as anyone else when i barely eat.i used to have double helpings of xmas dinner but now barelymanage to eat a small meal.

we fibromites are here for each other,hope you feel better soon.

Hi Eathakitt Please dont be hard on yourself none of us asked for fibro or want it. None of this is our fault we cant help the way we are. I feel the same frustrated at not being able to do what I use to feeling useless.and worthless. I use to work was always on the go looked after my mum when she was dieing of cancer got a child to look after who had depression and husband who had a break down. Then wham was hit like anything. where I spent over 6 months in bed 2012 2013 2014 2015 not being able to walk and carers looking after me. I understand how your feeling where your coming from. But its not our fault all we can do is listen to what our body tells us, if it tells you to rest stay in bed then do it. try fighting against fibro we end up suffering for it. take each day as it comes get through it as best you csan. each day we get through is another battle won. I find treating my self gives me a lift new hair do perfume be kind to ourselves. Dont expect people to understand because they dont friends family husbands partners children. the only people that fully understand are those that have it and are living with it day in day out. focus your mind off fibro whether its watching tele listening to music reading abook. I dont focus on fibro or my other health conditions its almost like I try to think they dont exist. Thats how I try to cope and handle it, not always easy. But I try? fibro is alearning curb for us all it differs for us all in the severity of it. we just have to find ways to handle it and works for us personally. As what works for one may not for another as we are all different. At least on here we have each other for support comfort emempathy. Rant away none of us mind weve all been their. sending you a big hug xx

I'm another miserable git joining you on the couch....  Lets just kick back best as we can, throw in a movie, pop corn or other...  liquids and grissle and stretch when need be..   Anyone else wanna join, happy to put some large throw cushions, gel mattress's (if there is such a thing!! lord if only!!)..  pull out the day bed/s and draw the curtains..  Lets PARTY...  :-)