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Hiya im due to have a hysterectomy on the 7th of january feel nervous about it know that will have a bit of pain but need to know how long before I can do normal things ect like shopping and going back to work any advice much appreciated Thanks x

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    Hi again.just letting you all know that my op for 8th Jan has been cancelled.I'm now having my hysterectomy on the 29th Jan. Know these things happen and can't be helped but I was all set for next week.karenx
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    HI I am 41 and I am 4 weeks 4 day's post TAH.  Today I When't swimming with my kids 11 and 9 and shopping. Have healed very well. Still get tired faster than I did before op but pain is almost completely gone only when I really stretch or do something really silly.  The wound healed very well as it was glued and is not even red now. Brusing had taken a long time to go. My biggest pice of advise is get moving as soon as you can. It is a little sore. But rest a lot to. For first couple of weeks. If it hurts stop, if you are tired rest. But keep moving little and often. The big shocks for me was how much my skin changed and how greasy my hair is and lots of hair falling out. I kept my overese so did  not expect this. Oh and trapped wind after op. Oh my god now that hurt more than anything else. But so glad I had op. One more week and back to work. Already back driving. Have been for a week. But you must check with you inshorance.  
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      That's a fantastic. Recovery. For you that's brilliant. How you are doing you must be feeling. Good how you are doing ..obviously. Had pain but sounds like you are doing all the right stuff for you x
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    Hi Linda,

    Its natural to be a little anxious post op. I am now four weeks post op, TAH, conservation of ovaries, and removal of bulky, fibroid uterus and tubes. The recovery and associated pain, will dpend on HOW your procedure is done. Mine was through an open surgery, eg bikini line cut. 

    Take all the pain killers offered, everyone's pain threshold is different, I had pre op spinal pain injection, slow release of opiods post op, and was on a self administered morphine pump..you will need them. Thankfully, I was so drugged up, I was out of it for 2-3 hrs post op...take or ask for anti sickness injection too, I didnt and vomitting after that op was painful, to say the least..

    I was kept conmfortable in hoispital with pain releife, take what you can, and use peppermint tea, constipation is a side effect, and I was constipated for 7 days post op..your bowels get a bit shocked by the op...its not all bad, I was very sore and tender as to be expected for the first two weeks. Use a pillow to prop yourself at night when home, and lying on your side. It is amazing how quickly the first stage of recovery happens, eg by the end of week two, I was over the worst , post hospital, its mre like bruising, tenderness, and a fe weird twinges. You MUST at all costs do NOTHING for the first two weeks, lost of rest, gentle walking around the house, listen to your body, and do everything at the pace of a sloth..your body doesnt let you know you have overdo it, until an hour or two later!

    I rested up, pottered around each day, and with each day learned what I could and couldnt do, eg laundry etc, but NO VACUUMING!! those muscles have to heal 6-8 weeks. Definitely get doing your pelvic excesises, gentle 'kegels' eg tightening your vagina to get everything going again asap post op....remember that its a long, slow process to complete recoevery,,be kind to yourself, live in loose fitting clothes for the first few weeks, and remember that in the end , its wrth it..you may find Hyster Systers forum helpful, it will all be fine..take care, and take it EASY!

     

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    Hi Linda.  I just wondered how you are doing?  I am going in for a hysterectomy on 9 January so know just how you are feeling?  Do you know how long you will be staying in hospital for?

    xxx Kathy

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    Kathy,

    It depends on how you have your op, eg LAVH is a 2 night stay, TAH is 3-4 days, I was in for four days with TAH, and Neverstaystill, if you are having a TAH, build sensible goals, I couldnt walk further then short distances for 2-3 weeks, and managed my first decent walk at week 4, you have to listen to your own body, but I waited until all the twinges, weirdness, pulling etc inside to settle down, you have quite a few hundred internal stitches after a TAH/LAVH, so slow and steady wins the race..and regular naps, I am week four and still get tired after light housework..take it easy, the op will be fine, its not a breeze, its major surgery, but you get through with rest and patience! x

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    Hiya ladies thanks so much for all your replies really helpful makes me feel so much better more understanding now still due on the 7th just starting my preop drinks bag packed leggings bought lol now just waiting will keep you posted after op good luck all you ladies with yours xx 

    Updates to follow lol xx

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      Hi Linda

      I have to take pre-op drinks also.  I start mine on Thursday morning (day before op) and it's clear liquids only all day.  I also have to take 4 senekot tablets at 10.00am Thursday.  Is that the same as you are having to do?

      xxxKathy

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      Good luck ladies ill be following. You on the 9th allegedly 😤 ..keep me posted are you both having tah with cut or other versions #scaredmuch!!; xc
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      Hi Denise.  I'm having TAH, starting off keyhole, but may have to make a larger verticle cut if necessary - I have endometreosis.

      xxx Kathy

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      I'm in for a TAH on 29th Jan, not looking forward to it one bit. Have my pre op on 15th so will see what they give me to prepare. Good luck and hugs to all thoses who are up soon xx
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      AH YES.. THE "PREP DRINKS", LOL... you know.. it wasn't all that bad... I had that bottle of  red stuff.. and had it in the refrigerator... tasted like a drink, but with that extra "something" in it....

      It totally clears you out!  Push the fluids too!!!!  My doctor told me that when there is any waste in you during the procedure, it can cause issues.. they can have problems... so I just didnt eat day before. I had ONLY  fluids... she said I was perfectly cleaned out!  Helped them tremendously!   GOOD LUCK smile

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      Good luck Luckymum!!! We will be here for you... keep us posted!  smile
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      Hi Kathy l havnt been told to take senekot just the preop drinks l havnt been told anything really wasn't even sure what preop drinks were for my daughter is a nurse and found a lot of information out for me thank god also this site is a blessing you ladies have told me more than any doctor good luck Kathy will let you know ASAP how it goes xx
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      Thanks Mintdream, I will...feeling a bit low today, no real reason just low sad I'm finding it more and more difficult to do things, especially at work as in a physical job, even getting in or out of the car is becoming an effort, it just feels tight across my stomach sad Not sure if things are actually getting worse or if it's my imagination or the stress of waiting for the op sad
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      We all get some "low feeling" days... its ok.... it really is...

      Take it one day at a time... learn more about it, and understand it...

      This isite is so awesome... any qustions you have, someone has been there/done that.

      Hope you have a HAPPY DAY tomorrow.. new day... closer to a new you!

       

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      Thanks Mintdream, I am feeling a bit better atm, hopefully it will last x
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      H Mintdream.  I'm doing the preop drinks tomorrow (Thursday).  Did your instructions say you could have a light breakfast before 7.00am?

      Kathy

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      Hi Kath...NOOOOOOOOOOOO... my directions were the day before.. NOTHING after 2:00 p.m... so I could wake up, eat, and have early lunch... then NOTHING but the PREP drinks/ plenty of water/fluids...

      I didnt eat at all that day... just all liquids.. and I was SO CLEAN... dr. told me that it's when women are NOT fully cleared out there could be a possiblity with issues with the bowel/bladder.. it's hard for them to do the procedure with something there.  And damage CAN happen.. that terrified me.. so I gave up food for that day before..

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      Tea and toast. Fri 7am for me Fri ...but no pr op drinks or laxative to take ..and will be eating as norm today.
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      You were up early Denise!  I've just jad my slice of toast and cup of tea.  As I have been awake since about 3.30am, I am tempted to go back to bed before I start the laxatives at 10 am.  No more food for me now (or milk).  Only clear liquids or jelly until after my op tomorrow.cry

      How are you feeling today Denise?

      xxxKathy

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      I'm ok hun ..im just on my phone not out of bed lol ..not at work today so making the most of it today ..just the normal shopping and h work today ..thats gunna feel odd in a few days ..still very worried about the whole thing although. I'm feeling more positive. . Still got this gut feeling I wont do it. ..which is really what I shouldn't. Do ..if I'm in a mess tomorrow. I'll see if I can gave a pre med if poss xx
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      Kath...

      Good luck today... clear it out.. the more the BETTER... makes it easier for the dr.

      And, I hope everything goes well for you tomorrow! You will do fine!  You will be "Thinking" a lot today about it, that's normal...

      Just get it all ready today for you at home, makes it easier...

      Hugs from USA  <3>

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      Denise... doc did not want you to clear it out??

      That liquid drink?!?!

      hmmmmm..

      Well... keep it up!   And Ihope all goes well for you tomorrow!  We are all thinking of you!

      Keep in touch!  smile

      Hugs from USA <3>

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      Hi Denise

      Yes, we must try and stay positive today.  You will do it!  We both will!  When are you having to fast from?

      xxx Kathy

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      Ahhh ..you in America ..are you on holiday. Or do you live there ...no pre ops drinks for me to take ..and can eat light brekki at 7 tomo then that's it x
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      YEP... BORN AND BRED.. USA smile

      So I am concerned.. your dr. did not want you to "clean out" your bowels prior??

      I guess we might have different ways to do our procedures from UK to USA...

      We have to have faith in our dr's...

      I know you will do fine!   smile

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