Can't have sex
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Had post op check yesterday at 17weeks............ yes took me that long to get one! The op (A&P and sf) has gone somewhat wrong, I am too tight to have intercourse. Sorry if tmi, but just the facts.
Consultant has never seen this before, to be honest cant remember exactly what he said but it's the back part of my vj . He gave me 2 options 1. surgery 2. dialators. I opted for 2 just could not face further surgery having recently starting to feel a bit normal. They said to use dialators for 3 months and see how it goes, if no change I would need surgery.
It has just taken so long to recover from this op and now further blooming issues....... so fed up with it all. The literature, in my opinion gives such an unrealistic timeframe for recovery. Thank god for this forum. Feeling a bit down atm and just so fed up with it all. Husband is good and understanding though so suppose that's something..
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dorothy03601 SMM103
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phyl_40063 SMM103
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I had my post op check at 12 weeks, and they did ask if had sex; they know the op has been successful if been able to engage in penetrative sex.
At that point I hadn't as I was scared due to posterior repair being sensitive at back end of vag opening. Anyhow gave it a go day or two later using plenty KYgel and everything fine.
At 16 weeks post op still a bIt sore at the back end of vag, feels taught and if sitting too long without good support gets quite raw and sore.
Hope dialators work for you, take care.
Phyl x💖
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Anyhow using it post op. Read somewhere that it helps if internally dry as is the walls after surgery!
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Not quite sure where your thread is going considering my original post? I must have missed some?
Im sure most on here consider that we are all different and don't compare on here in detail. I personally have found it wonderful supportive resource and find it very useful to compare experiences.