Death - Alcoholic Liver Disease
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My ex-husband has just died from Alcoholic Liver Disease. He became very bloated round the abdomen and his urine output and bowel movements erratic. He was hardly able to move around in the last week. I noticed when he came to meet my daughter and I that his eyes were very yellow. It was obvious to me that something terrible was happening. Alcohol had no effect on him in the last two weeks. He did not want to bother his doctor but after my insistence he saw a locum last Thursday who gave him tablets for nausea and something for constipation. He died on Monday after a two terrible nights of pain thinking it was the laxatives working! By the time I got an ambulance his chest was crackling and he could hardly breathe. He died in ICU 12 hours later.
I am so angry with the locum who gave him laxatives. She had his whole case history before her - his eyes were yellow, his abdomen was full of fluids - something terrible was happening inside. AND SHE GAVE HIM LAXATIVES. I need to do something. Could he have had a chance if seen by his normal GP!! I just don't know. Three days might have at least given him a chance.
Anyone any ideas? He struggled all his life and just couldn't beat alcoholism. But this was quick at the end.
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Guest
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They took seven litres of fluid from him and he was there a few days. His Dr subsequently told him his Liver was failing so I do wonder about your experience with the Locum and what would have been the outcome if he had been taken to Hospital.
What I will say is that since then he has not, (to my knowledge), drunk alcohol, however, the bloating (ascities) is back and I think that may portend a poor prognosis in the long term. I think by the time ascities happens the Liver is already cirrhotic and decompensated.
We both refer to these men as ex's, I left becauseof the drinking and I also never had children with him because of being the child of an alcoholic myself, yes it's a difficult thing to beat.
Unfortunately, in my experience of both, Alcoholic liver disease means little sympathy from medical staff, such patients would not be considered for transplant, you are right to be angry but I suspect doors will close if you were to try to pursue it.
margaretann
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for it.Because it certinly looks from where im sitting he might have survived.good luck MARGARETANN
DeanoUk
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alicia97501 DeanoUk
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I'm broken. I'm a mother of 2 amazing teenz. Drank 1yr chased sobriety 1.5 in facilities not knowing I was exposed to hep etc. I will fix this. BUT need you to know your broken heart request will push me to fix the alcohol facilities response to middle age necessity
alicia97501 Guest
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Not a physician. HOWEVER a short quick and again I reiterate short, time alcoholic. I drank for 1yr and a half. Doctors gave me lipase which accidentally sent me into a massive swelling co dition and I had blood pressure so thru the roof I was BP points from a massive stroke. Lipase.....i's given accidentally continuously
misterlion Guest
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so sorry for your lose. laxatives are given for a reason with liver disease. i won't go into the details, but those laxatives might well have been given in the hopes that you would have had some quality of life together at the end.
me: ascites (the bloating), childs-pugh B (life span in question), recent TIPS (a kind of liver bypass) and on lacitives to keep my brain sharp. I'm alive but watched my mother die of liver disease. Once the liver fails there is not much to do, but the laxatives can help to keep the brain working. my point: that prescription may have been a very humane gesture.
peace, sympathy and serenity to you....
claresugabuddha Guest
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Hi
I've just come across your post after searching the net for answers
I'm sorry to hear about your daughters father I got shivers when I read it as my daughter father too struggles with alcholol and recently addicted to opiates his health has declined last three months to the point vomiting last month every day not able to pass urine when he does the colour is dark tea stomach is severely swollen. His skin and eyes are yellow
He went to the gp twice last week begging for help to stop vomiting and feeling weak Drs where nasty to him and gave him anti sickness and sent him away second visit they told him to stop coming in the surgery nothing wrong with him
Friday I get a call to say he is seriously unwell in hospital and dr doesn't know how he has not collapsed before now
He is severely malnourished his liver levels are 5038 should be 50 he is having scans this afternoon hopefully know more then he not on any treatment for liver only fluids keep hydrated. I'm worried for my daughter as to the prognosis as I feel there nothing they can do
I wondered if anyone has knowledge of blood readings and what we are looking at long term
Thank you in advance for readings this
Hope your daughter is doing ok x
monica34400 Guest
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My husband 37 just barely 11/20/1980-12/14/2017
Died from end stage liver disease. I had him admitted to the hospital on 11/01/2017 he was released 7 days later with obvious signs of end stage liver disease but was not given a chance to get better. He was only 37 how did I not notice he was so badly damaged. My aunt's a Dr and I asked her how come they would release him while showing obvious signs of distress. She told me it couldn't have been that bad because you don't know it's that bad until it's to late.
lori77449 Guest
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I'm not a doctor, but my estranged (his choice) brother died from what the coroner termed "chronic alcoholism." I've been doing a lot of research and asking a lot of questions. It is my understanding that at the point of liver damage you are describing, the damage is irreversible and deadly. No one could have saved him. He's lucky to have died so quickly without too much pain. I'm sorry for your loss.
betterMonica Guest
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GrandmaB Guest
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I'm sorry for your loss. The laxatives were given to him for a reason. His ammonia levels were probably pretty high. The laxatives help.
My husband is in ESLD. He has less than 5% functioning liver. And he continues to drink. He was given months to live. He could be gone anytime. It breaks my heart.
jennifer55368 GrandmaB
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GrandmaB jennifer55368
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mark81988 GrandmaB
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GrandmaB mark81988
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I'm trying to get him in to rehab. Hes been in twice this year and comes home and starts drinking again. Hes giving up.
jennifer55368 GrandmaB
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So sorry to hear. How long has he had known problems? Did he have symptoms early on or along the way or not until it was bad and y'all found out?