Decided today I am going to stop

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I have just come back from a weekend visiting family, and was so upset that i had to much to drink on Saturday night leaving me hungover and depressed. Its just not worth it. I guess i wanted somewhere i could write this down and take that first step

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  • Posted

    You shouldn't knock yourself up too much, there are loads of people here who will be able to advise you on the next steps!

  • Posted

    Hi Lucy,

    This is a great place to share your highs and lows of your experiences with alcohol.

    Nobody judges you and nearly everyone has been in the same of boat of struggling with alcohol so lots of encouragement and advice to be shared.

    Let us know how you get on - if you want to give us a bit more background info regarding your problems with drinking then feel free to do so!!

    All the best

    Claire

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    Thanks both, I can have very bad binges, all of which only bring problems into my relationships . And the source of many of my problems can be related back to drink. Its just not worth the risk anymore . I want to be free of that sick feeling i get. I ended the day well today , with a really nice takeaway - and no booze! And knowing i will wake fresh is a good feeling

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    Do not worry too much. How often and how much do you drink??perhaps not that much and that often..let us hear from you..Robin

    • Posted

      Thanks Robin, I may have a drink in the evening most days, that not being a problem for me. The problem is when I am out - drink to much, leaving to a feeling of depression and anxiety. I have a day of today - so going to do something nice. Hope you have a good day !

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      I had a fine day since i have so much to live for! 6 1/2 years sober and never going back. Drank massive amounts for many many years. Always hiding bottles anywhere and lying constantly! Twins girls 15 months old and i stopped since i wanted to live a long and healthy life. You have smaller problems and it is great that you dealing with them now. Sad, depressed and feeling strange the next day after drinking too much alcohol is quite normal but not good..perhaps try to reduce it? Make a plan? All the best. Robin

    • Posted

      Wow - thats amazing, well done! I have made a plan and been sticking to it. I had a few visitors this week , so made plans to do some activities , not involving alcohol - which was fun

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    I know how you feel Lucy, trust me it has happened to me often. Dont be hard on yourself. This is a disease like diabetes or any other. We can only try to get better slowly. I know you will overcome this. U are stronger than you know. Send you all the positive energy and support. Xx

    • Posted

      Thank you Chesca , its great to gave a clear head - and no alcohol related anxiety. Sending you good wishes too - I hope you have a great week ahead XX

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    Hi Lucy,

    I was drawn to your previous post -

    "I had a few visitors this week , so made plans to do some activities , not involving alcohol - which was fun".

    This is what I have found. I actually enjoy myself more without alcohol which I didn't believe was possible. I wake up clear headed and don't have to worry about what I'd done the night before whilst under the influence!!

    It sounds like you are on the right track, so keep feeling positive and keep congratulating yourself on your progress. It might seem like little steps to you at the moment, but believe me 'every drink not drunk' is a massive step forward in your life.

    Well done and keep up the good work!!

    All the best

    Claire xx

    • Posted

      Thank you Claire , and absolutely, your right , feel

      so much happier without the dreaded worry about the night before! Best wishes to you too ! XX

    • Posted

      Great to stay sober enjoying refreshing lemonades and San Pellegrino are amazing i think. Do you know them? Keep trying....rgds Robin

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    Before I start answering, I would say anything in excess is harmful to the human body! So dear you took right step maybe you face some difficulties in the starting but I am sure you will definitely overcome this habit one day. However, if you think you need guidance then you can also approach to Preventive Medicine Specialists who can guide you in much better way how to overcome this habit.

    • Posted

      Thank you Alexandra, I have been doing well, keeping busy with work , and I am of on a much needed holiday on monday X

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