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I have been together with my girlfriend just under a year now. With our anniversary coming up soon. We both had some stress the last few months, I have moved house. She is switching jobs. During the past year when she was feeling down, she sometimes wanted her space, and sometimes wanted me to stay and keep her company.
It all started a couple weeks ago, as I was moving into my new home...the last time we saw each other was during Christmas. She didn't fell well after and a little me time (which was partly the job switching and a cold). I may have made too many suggestions trying to see her, and see my new house and that may have added to the stress. But then a week ago, after a pleasant chat on the weekend, she tells me she isn't
feeling to well. When I ask her if I can help; she tells me, that she is under a lot of stress because of me. She wants to take a break because she feels she can't trust me anymore. (The issue in question is that I've told her that I suffered from depression in that past myself). I found ways to accept that part of me, but she thinks I was lying to her and questions my honesty.
That was the last thing I heard from, as well as her wanting to be on a break. I am so confused and lost, I love her so much and want to help, but after sending her message about the issue in question and letting her know I'm there for her with occasional messages. I haven't heard from her since, I am worried this might be end of our relationship.'
I love her, she loves me too. But how can I help her, if she doesn't want my help?
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