Did it kill the "seks"?
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I understand that some might not want to respond to this post. Just wanted to ask others if they lost all desire for seks after their op? I am now five months post-op and have realised I have never wanted it once since the op. This is unusual for me...
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sarah1996 belleAUSSydney
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bini31328 belleAUSSydney
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renee01952 belleAUSSydney
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oh how I wish to be part of this conversation  --- just will follow instead -
big warm hug
renee
linda38528 renee01952
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linda38528 belleAUSSydney
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Likes Sarah and others, ... this was not a burning preoccupation for quite a while before the operation and since.
TBH, it took some courage the first time (on the part of both of us). I think it would be fair to say that we are still engaged in a gentler, cautious exploration of this element of our relationship and may well be for a while yet with my 2nd THR scheduled this summer.
😕😉😚
bini31328 belleAUSSydney
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annie.conway belleAUSSydney
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Rocketman_SG6UK annie.conway
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Take your time, enjoy each other without full relations, and progress as you feel able, try different positions, have a laugh together at your attempts. Â
You could always get him to rub Bio Oil into your scar - make it a fun time ?
Graham - 🚀💃
toto64676 belleAUSSydney
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The pain before the op, the recovery time and the menopause all combined to make it less of a priority. Â We are much more careful now as I am still nervous of how much movement I have in the new joint. Â Hopefully we will get back to some semblance of normality but it is slow going at 4 months post op.
bini31328 belleAUSSydney
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sarah1996 bini31328
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God dont i sound happy haha xxxx
bini31328 sarah1996
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sarah1996 bini31328
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The only clothes i look good in are jeans and im to scared to try jeans as my incision isnt healed yet haha. But i am going to get my first shower on monday hopefully in 3 weeks. Lucky me haha xxx
bini31328 sarah1996
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sarah1996 bini31328
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