Dilating - how to do it?
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I have finally had my first try-out with the Femmax dilating kit. It wasn´t as bad as I expected. All sizes worked quite well with lots of vaseline, except the largest one which I guess is supposed to be the size of an average penis. I´m sorry for being so detailed and I hope noone is offended. The largest dilator caused me quite some pain, not unbearable but still problematic (excactly like it felt having intercourse which was years ago now). Today, the day after dilating, I am a bit sore but it is quite okej. Can anyone give me some advice how to go on? Should I wait until the soreness fades away before the next dilating or should I go on smoothly every evening? Do you recommend to continue with clobetasol once a day during the dilating treatment (even if I am sore)? My dermatologist doesn´t want me to go through Fenton´s procedure since she is afraid it will cause a flare up and more scarring. I am not sure, since my scarring is quite resistant and I think it will be difficult with only dilators but I will give it a try.
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I have started with the smaller sizes at first and use fluid coconut oil for lubrication. Use the size that feels comfortable. Over time you will notice that a bigger size will fit. (And put something underneath you to catch the oil.)
I'm doing this procedure every day. Gradually things have improved considerably and now I am able to be intimate with my husband again.
Any further questions - feel free to ask.
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I've recently started using dilators to help with the tightness and make intercourse more comfortable. I'm using the next size up from the smallest size. I'm seeing a pelvic physiotherapist. I also have LS on my urethra and definitely feel irritated, almost like I have to urinate constantly after intercourse and the friction that causes. How is your doctor treating the inflamed urethra? I just carefully rub some steroid ointment around the the utethra. I honestly don't think it's doing anything.
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