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Do you have retrograde ejaculation ? What does it feel like? How do you feel about it?

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philip42830
philip42830

I recently had a HoLEP, I was told by my surgeon I would almost certainly get RE, which I am fine with but it would be very supportive if I could hear from other men who have RE and their experiences. This discussion is not about the procedures that caused the RE, it is about how you live with it. Thanks for any insight. If you want to PM me that is fine. Thanks. 

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  • rogcal
    rogcal philip42830

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    I had a HoLEP almost 3 years ago and RE was par for the course and hasn't bothered me or my wife at all.

    Whatever type of "rebore" your have no man will have exactly the same amount of prostate tissue removed from exactly the same location as another man and the RE "experience" will be different for us all, so just live with it.

    Plus, the savings on the cost of tissues is a bonus.

    • philip42830
      philip42830 rogcal

      Posted

      Rogcal, I was thinking the same about the tissues. 
  • jim81578
    jim81578 philip42830

    Posted

    I had fla twice second time I got re. For me it's kinda a bummer not to cum. But over all my orgasims are good and seem to last longer. I'm 61 been married for 35 yrs so not a bid deal to me. Wife loves it cause no mess. Lol. Good luck on your journey.

    Jim

  • kenneth_42676
    kenneth_42676 philip42830

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    My wife used to love to watch my orgasm or actually feel my semen inside her for awhile, now it’s like she thinks I fake cumming .

    It’s really not worth having sex anymore in my opinion.

    It’s also very depressing.

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