Exhaustion after TKR months later?
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I have found this discussion board so helpful! It's good to chat with others on the same journey. I had my TKR 10 weeks ago, and just went back to work this week, teaching part-time (about 12 hours/week) at a local university. Even though it's short hours, I am "on stage" for the entire time. After I get home and have a late lunch, I can't do a thing until I take a one or two hour nap! I feel like I'm wasting precious time, but I can't function otherwise! Have others been through this too? When did you get your energy back?Thanks!
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sue64229 diane95880
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Hi Diane,
I can sympathise with you as a lot will on the forum. It is still very early days for you and I think it's been pretty normal for patients to feel tired after such an operation. I'm not sure why but it is a big operation and we all have to work so hard to get over the initial pain, stiffness etc, not get very much sleep either. I think our bodies just rebel or something. I am almost a year on from a bilateral tkr and don't work but still get very tired.
I wouldn't feel bad about resting if I were you. Take it as it comes and rest if needed, no harm done. I don't think any of us get back to how we were. I admire people like yourself, who go back to work. Be kind to yourself.
best wishes
Sue xx
diane95880 sue64229
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Thanks Sue-I can't imagine having surgery on both knees! My husband doesn't quite understand the long recovery period needed for this surgery. He's finally understanding why I booked a hotel room for our annual camping trip with friends rather than staying in a tent! I can't imagine crawling in and out of a tent...ouch😩
sue64229 diane95880
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A tent???? You're right, ouch!!!! There was a turning point for me at about 4 months post op. My kitten ran under my bed with something in her mouth, I panicked and managed to get on all fours to look. The pain was something else, I screamed as it felt my scars were ripping open. They weren't of course. I managed to scramble to my feet and although stingy, the knees felt better somehow. Like I'd stretched the scar tissue or something. I haven't tried kneeling since lol. Surgeons did say that most recipients are unable to kneel again after the op. My knees still get stiff and sore if I sit too long or when I first get up but on the whole, are ok but it's my back that aches now, I think because I'm walking differently now.
Your husband wouldn't know just what toll this operation takes out on patients bodies unless he went through it. People think nearly a year on, I should be running marathons or something. Enjoy your holiday, the hotel, you deserve. Get your husband to read this forum and he will be able to see how we all struggle.
diane95880 sue64229
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Wow...you better behave😉
barb5947 diane95880
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Hi Diane
I'm Almost 9 weeks post op for LTKR and I get tired too. This surgery takes a lot out of you for sure and the pain and exercising makes you tired as well . Don't beat yourself up for being tired - take your nap and enjoy it - good time for icing your knee!
diane95880 barb5947
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Thanks Barb....future naps will be guilt-free😊
kat1e diane95880
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Hi Diane,
I'm three months post TKR and went back to my office job last Thursday (two days ago). I'm on a phased return so only do four hours a day but am finding that I'm absolutely shattered. Yesterday I actually went to bed for a couple of hours when I got home in the afternoon and then slept through all night too. I think at the moment everything pre TKR that we took for granted just takes time to adjust to post TKR but it's exhausting. One thing I have learnt big time since having this surgery is not to expect anything as normal as my expectations were far too high and then everything else is a bonus. Just listen to your body. It knows what you need. Hope your recovery goes well x
diane95880 kat1e
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Hi Kate,
You're absolutely right-I need to be patient and get used to the new normal.It sounds like you and I are going through the same stage. Wishing you the very best in your recovery! Diane
tijim diane95880
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Hi Diane... wow back at work after 10wks I was still on crutches for 3mths .. totally understand how exhausted you'd be! I don't think that you're knee is probably ready for all that non-stop standing. Do you ice & elevate when you get home? Having a nap sounds absolutely normal, I don't work I used to have afternoon naps and wasn't doing anything except some exercising. At 11mths post op I still stuggle with alot of swelling .. your energy will come back when your body is ready always remember how big an op this is and total recovery is anywhere from 12-18+mths.
Wishing you all the best... Tracey
diane95880 tijim
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Hi Tracey,
Thanks for reminding me to be patient. I really didn't know everything I was getting into when I started this journey, and it's probably a good thing. I don't need to stand the entire time I teach, and I do ice and elevate. I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling at 11 months; please take care. I am thankful for you and others in this discussion group! Wishing you well,
Diane
tijim diane95880
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Hi Diane... was in the same boat as you prior to operation surgeon did advice me it had a 12-18mth recovery period but omg that somehow doesn't really get thru until after your operation and after having issues from day 8 .. I must admit it's been one hell of a journey! Now to have the other leg done, but thankfully I've learned so much what not to do and found this forum which I love... just wish I had of found it so much earlier!
Take care and always put yourself and recovery first.... Tracey