Extreme anal fissure pain

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So I've dealt with anal fissures before that went away on their own but NOW it's much worse a couple of years later.

I am in SO MUCH PAIN - I've been considering the emergency room. I'm hoping I can get an appointment first thing Monday morning because I'm desperate.

I've used everything from Wheatgrass cream to my dad's prescribed ointment he used for hemorrhoids to baby wipes to Neosporin for external use. I'm CRINGING in pain. Can't sit or lay down in certain ways...

Will I be able to tell the doctor I want the surgery? That's all I want. . Just knock me out and get rid of all this.. please help!!!!

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    hello dear julia.im so sorry to hear that you are in pain.i had this problem for 2 years and try a lot of things. Please do the surgery.i have done this one month a go and now i have no idea how that pain was.
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      Hello Nima 

      i have done the surgery a month and a half now and was getting pretty good (not completely healed yet) until my mom noticed redness around the wounded part and above it a bit. It came to hurting me again though mildly. But I felt I am getting closer to being completely cured until this redness comes. My stool is soft since I am taking one spoon of lactulose daily. Do you think this is an infection?!! I just dunno where it comes from. !!! I am sick of this pain turning my life into hell😭

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    Are you seeing blood? 

     

    • Posted

      I have before but not lately. I've bled a lot before though. It's really the pain that bothers me, not the blood.

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      I've never had a fissure last this long on and off before.  It is horrible.  Luckily the pain is not too bad.  Just a little uncomfortable.  I am scared, I am depressed about it and have of course changed my dietary life style.  I have a colon surgeon and he prescribed the compounded nifedipine ointment for me.  I'll give it one more week to see if this thing goes away and then make an appointment to see what the next step is. 

       

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      I wish mine was just uncomfortable instead of painful but the pain is so unbearable. I just called and made an appointment for Wednesday. They have no openings today. I'm so mad!!! But we are all in this together 😢

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      Good luck at your doctor appointment.  You mentioned you were going on Wednesday.  Let me know how it goes.  I finally made another appointment.  I am on a waiting list for cancellations and am being seen on 9/21.  Good grief...I have to wait quite a bit.  I asked for a consult appointment.  I guess that's why.

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    I am attaching a post that I put on somebody else blog. In this post, I was recommending to the person to get the surgery, as well as other methods to try to try to ease your pain. I hope this helps you out:

    I would definately get it done, especially if you have dealt with it for a whole year. I had a chronic fissure, and after a month, decided to have the surgery. It was the best decision of my life. I am not going to lie to you, it is a bit painful right after surgery but if you can endure the pain of a fissure, it is not that much different. I posted this before....this basicallly explains how i felt throughout the surgery and after.

    I first want to give you a lot of credit for deciding to do the surgery...It is not an easy desicion, as there are some stories online that can discourage you from getting it, but in the end in my opinion it it better. 

    So basically, this is how it went down with my surgery. I had to fast the day before the surgery because they had to put me under anesthesia. I went in, waited, and then they put me under and the surgery was done. I woke from the surgery with morphine in my system, although once I woke up it had worn off for the most part. They basically told me I could get another dose of morphine, which would basically knock me out again, or I could stay up and move to the other room to wait until I was ready to leave. So, i skipped the next dose of morphine and went to the other room. As I was laying on the bed, the pain bagan to set in. The next part may scare you a bit and discourage you, but getting through this part is just part of the process of gettting better. So when the pain started to settle in, the paiin almost flt worse then the fissure pain itself. I was not only dealing with the pain from the fissure, but from the incision and cuts that were done form the surgery itself. This being said, you have to take into consideratino that the surgery is cutting into your sphincter muscle, so pain will come, but this is with any surgery. Unfortunately, with this surgery, it is in a very sensitivie area so the pain will be a little more intense. Some things I did in the hospital to deal with the pain was put ice on my butt, I bit down on a washcloth to decrease the tension that I would put into my butt area and to transfer the tension to my jaw biting into the cloth. They did give me percoset, but honestly it didn't help me a bit. I still felt the pain until I was able to fall asleep. The lady next to me said that the percoset made her feel that the ceiling was the floor and the floor was the ceiling, so I guess it affects some people differently than others. I also will recommend listening to music right after or watching a movie to distract yourself from the pain. SO that was basically it from the hospital. I couldn't leave the hospital until I could pee though,  which was not easy since I had so many drugs in my system and could  not really push to hard as it was painful and I did not want to upset the area.

    Eventually I peed and was able to leave. Then, I took some percoset that night and slept. The next day I felt no pain, as I did not poop at all, and as with before the surgery,  the pain  only comes when  you poop. 

    So the day after that I had to go to the bathroom. The first time you go to the bathroom will be very painful, almost more painful than pooping with just the fissure because you are trying to poop through a fissure and a surgery, but that comes with  the territory. I will not hide that I felt like I was going to puke the pain was so bad WHILE pooping. I also recommend listening to music while pooping as this distracts the pain  and gives some motivation  not to be afraid. The reason on put emphasis on the WHILE is beause after the pain is very dull and nothing compared to the throbbing unimaginable  pain of an anal fissure. Within  the next two weeks, I progressively felt myself getting better, and by the 2nd week I went back to the doctor and he gave me the ok that I was all healed up.

    I never had any incontinence, although the only thing I still have is that its a bit harder to hold in my farts sometimes, but that is it....As far as the gauze, I only changed it because I would leak sometimes..I ended up just buying adult diapers at the store and used those until I stopped leaking. 

    As far as numbing injectino you asked about, the only  thing I was aware of was the anastesia I was on.

    As far as food after surgery, I just kept to a well balanced diet. I take metamucil fiber supplement every day since, and I squat on the toilet all the time now. Make sure not to take too much fiber as this can irritate the area.

    Hope this was enough information for you, and I really wish you the best of luck with  your surgery next week.....Noone should  have to go thorugh anything like this, but thank god we have means to take care of it with surgery....

    Also, this is another post i put that explains some things that you might want to try in addition to the surgery....

    I first want to say how sorry I am, and how much we al are that you have to go thorugh this. We have all been through the same type of pain, and can sympathise with your situation. A lot of the problem with an anal fissure is its not jsut a physical problem, but a mental problem as well. Thinking it is getting better and then to be in writihing pain the next day to through your hopes down the drain ruins your day and your hope of getting better. However, since we have all been there, we can probably agree that despite all of the downfalls that can occur, you will get better given time, rest, and proper treatment. 

    Here are some suggestions I have for you to help you through:

    1. Try somee zinc oxide in the form of calmoseptine which has menthol to soothe the area down there as well. Calmoseptine can be bought at almost any local drugstore and can be bought online too.

    2. Try squatting when going on the toilet instead of sitting. This is a much  helathier position and the poop sometimes will just slide out,  no pushing or straining involved.

    3. I would definately take a fiber supplement, specifically metamucil  is what I take evveryday,  in ordr to allow your stools to be soft and to allow them to pass thorugh easily. THis being said, with any fiber supplemetn, you must drink lots of water when using them, or they will not work veffectively. Also, do not take too much as too much fiber can irritate your bowels on the way  out and diarreah actually does worse down there.

    4. I would recommend getting a sphicteronomy surgery if htings dont get better. I waited it out, gave up, had the surgery, and was able to heal within about two weeks. I had a chronic fissure, so I knew where you are ocming from with v all the pain and discomfort.

    5.Try listening to music to distract your mind a bit, especially when going to the bathroom. If you are in writing pain, distract yourself with a movie or TV show right after. Also, to prevent myself from screaming and from putting more stress in the area down  there, i bit down on a washcloth in order to make the tensions with my teeth instead of my sphicter muscle.

    Good Luck!!!

    Sincerely,

    Myles 

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    I just had my doctor's appointment today and my doctor told me that I've got anal fissures and lots of them. He prescribed me an ointment that is .2% Nifedipine and 3% Lidocaine. It's a numbing ointment that I put around my anal canal, and it relaxes the muscle. I'm supposed to apply it 3x a day. I also was instructed to drink a Miralax drink every day. It comes in a powder that dissolves, so I drink at LEAST 8 Oz of Miralax a day. Hopefully this helps! I'll drink lots of water too!!!

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      Thanks for the update.  I have the same ointment.  I hope it helps you.  I think my biggest issue right now is trying to get a good movement every day.  When I go it always seems to be difficult.  I think I won't be able to solve the fissure issue until I resolve the regularity.  What did the doctor say about the Miralax?  DId he say it was safe to take every day or do you have to stop it at some point?

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      Hi Elizabeth,

      It actually says on the box to take it once a day for seven days. They only come 7 packets per box. I didn't realize it was like that, but I'll follow the directions. You should try it! You don't need a prescription for it. It's a stool softener. Very good for the bowels. Also try to eat yogurt!

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      I just started on it today to see what happens.  I figure anything is better than what I am going through.  I bought the box too so I don't have to measure anything.  My mom said it sometimes takes 3 days to work.  Gosh I hope not!  I sure hope that ointment helps you.

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    I've been using Miralax for a couple weeks now and it does the trick. My mom actually told me about it a few months ago after her gastroenterologyst recommended it to her. She was in for a colonoscopy and the doc said he uses it daily, then the nurse also said she uses it daily, just a tablespoon every night. The doc said it's important to keep things moving down there and Miralax is safe to use every day. I got confirmation from my primary doc as well when I told her i had been using milk of magnesia every night. She said milk of magnesia is what she recommends when nothing else works and that Miralax was safe for daily use. I use the full dose which is more like two tablespoons if i feel like I'm going to be constipated and only a half dose if not. It draws water into your bowels so it works best if you drink plenty of water. Hope this helps and sorry for the long story again lol.

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      Hello Matt.  I just saw your post to Julia.  I hope you don't mind me asking you....When you started to use Miralax how long did it take for it to work for you?  I just started it yesterday.  I have also heard the same thing from my mom regarding the usage of Miralax.  Safe to use.  I go back to my doctor on the 21st of September unless they have a cancellation.  I feel my biggest issue with this fissure situation is that until I get things moving on a regular basis this issue will never heal up properly and go away.  Thanks for the support group on here.

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      It worked right away for me but I also transitioned from other laxatives. I think when they say it takes up to three days they mean if you are constipated when you start using it. If you are not cconstipated when you start I would suspect it should work right away with plenty of water intake.

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