Face ache !

Hi Louise and thank you for reply , so sorry you have been having similar and yes I do go to the dentist fairly regularly even though I hate it. Teeth are all ok but I can see a change in my face, just been looking through some photos of a year ago and I can definatley see changes - horrible, my face has lost some plumpness in the cheeks and I look so much older because of it, I hate it. All these changes are hard and just sends anxiety sky high, wish I could just go to bed and wake up in five years time feeling amazing Uugghh like that Gonna happen. Every days anxiety ridden right now. Thank you so much for support and Hope you're ok xx😥

Aww i know what you mean about the loss of plumpness! Sometimes when I catch my reflection when Im not expecting it (say in a shop or bus window or something) I feel really sad as it just doesn't look like me 😂. I look so tired sometimes! I try so hard to be positive to get through this but now and again its just such a strain. Im sure we will both get through fine - lets just grin and bear it and keep smiling (although that might set our faces off aching again-LOL😄)

I hope you are feeling a little more reassured now hun and have a much better day tomorrow.

Lastly I went to my Slimming World class tonight (only a few pounds iff my target weight now) but I had a whoozy head and spaced out episode hit me half way through the class. Normally this would have freaked me out and kicked of the speedy heart beat panic session BUT I honestly just took a deep breath and stuck it out thinking of all the ladies here on this forum that would support me if they knew how I felt...... And it really really helped me get through it alot better - so thankyou to you and the other forum ladies for being there with me in spirit. Big hugs xxxx

Oh wow good for you going to slimming world, well done that's great that you've lost weight that boots confidence loads. Also for managing the awful panic attacks. .....I so badly need to lose weight and every day I think I'll start today but never do, in fact me and hubby have just shared a large bar of galaxy and I ate it all in one go, such a pig, I eat more when I'm anxious and it's not good as the weight has piled on so I need to do something about it as I feel like a sloath, all slow and lethargic so I'm not helping myself. Yes I feel better thank you knowing I'm not alone. Thanks for all your help, I really appreciate it, take care xx

Awww Louise,

I'm glad you were able to get through it. You and these lovely ladies are my support also. I didn't have you all I would be a basket case. Knowing you guys are here also helps me to make it through. So thank you as well. Big hugs to you and be kind to yourself!!!

Kinda made me chuckle inside. I would go to my doctor up north and tell him oh this hurts and that's bothering me. He surprised me at first as he would answer, oh that's good. It could be worse, you could be six feet under. First, what is Slimming World? I used Weight Watchers some years back and lost 60 lbs, then I lost 40 more on my own. Seems I have found some of it, none too happy 'bout that. Is your face still hurting? Do you have a sinus infection? I used to know if I bent over and my face would hurt worse! My son used to get them and his breath would smell awful. Could be?

Oh god you poor thing . Thank you very much for reply im relieved to know I'm not alone with these horrid things going on. Yes it is all very scary for us and I wonder what tomorrow might bring. Hope you sleep well xx

Thanks Lou,

This peri stuff is tough. Hope I don't have too many more years of this.

Me too - two years four months for me so far and it's all just crap, I'm coming back as a cat so I can lay on the bed all day sleeping x

That's not a bad idea...

well make sure its not a female then!!

 

I don't want any parts of a female....I'm over this whole female expierence. Men have it sweet. When they go through midlife crisis they buy a sports car and date women four times under their age. Just too easy....hahahahaha

I'm coming back as an overly pampered house cat with several plush pillows, a gay friend of mine is coming back as a blonde bombshell. We should be happy together!

That's sounding like a great plan, goose down pillows and a best friend - heaven ! 😉x

i know but it makes them look so stupid.................haha

 

I'd like to come back as woman and hopefully into a world where they have managed to stop the menopause from happening. I've enjoyed being a woman until peri began.