fellow sufferers

but we should try and but i our needs first .

 i blame thatcher ,because i dont know if you have noticed but this condition has only really flared up since the mid 90s

do remember your mum or nan having this i dont

now i no loads of women will jump on me for this ,  but i really do think that women have taken on to much, far more than our mothers

the presure is terriable, taking kids to school picking them up doing pack ups , the washing and ironing not to mention shopping taking them to after school activites and going to work as well with all those presures .

i am not saying that married women shouldnt work  i am just saying ,that in the past mother hood and taking care of the home was  hard physical work but if you did it well you were well thought of , now if you stay home your classed as lazy.

how many men take care of house kids and go to work . not many .

i think thatcher put to much presure on women , just because she had nannies and home helps . dosent mean everyone can afford it.

fibro mainly affects women just wondered if its a kinda of alternative to a heart attack , men over do it and get loaded down with stress ,heart attack .women get this . i 'm making any sense .

i get remarks like i v hooverd your stairs for you, iv done this  or that for you. like its a chore, even if we go any where he moans if my bladder is playing up because we have to stop a lot, thats why i put of a lot of stuff i dont need anyone to keep reminding me what a nuisence i am , but i determid to get to those musems ,even if i have to put up with him moaning. 

by the way magneisum is reccommended for migrains . but remember its a supplement and will take awhile. but i have a friend that had tacacardi fast heart beat so much so that she was due a pacemaker to be fitted

then she read about magneisum  thought nothing to loose tried for 3 months felt loads better, but went for the pre medical check any way to make sure it wasnt all in her head,

they checked her out ,told her if it keeps like this she wont need the op , she had had it for 10yrs slowly getting worse, so it was pretty serious, shes now emergrated to newzealand on a parent visa to spend time with her daughter and grandchildren she has just turned 60 and has a much better life now.all from a little mineral

myself, but i do take mag tissue salt .

sitting or standing for to long is painful

 what we have is much like when a sports man over does it and hits the wall of pain , just he recovers with fluids and rest the pain just keeps coming with us ,i promise i do understand.its like having the worst ragging toothache all over your body.

 the magneiusum is dear but well worth it i used to buy about £100 pounds worth enough for about 3 months u can buy it in liquid form to.

i dont have a bath anymore so i buy liquid form and rub it in my legs and thighs . helps cut down on the useage of my rhematisum oil i use that for my back neck and trunk and arms.

i dont use the magneisum liquid on my body because putting it straight on to the skin is quite sore its a kinda of salt so you can imagine ,but in the bath its fine .

the protein shake i mentioned yesterday , is whey protein shake by solgar vitiamin company . when iv checked my bank statement i shall be ordering some . next week .hopefully.

at the moment its my bladder given me hell

i am sweating so much with this heat i am constantly thirsty so i am drinking hugh amounts of decaff and water ,and peeing about 3 times an hour, its driving me mad and starting to hurt .

i believe you as i am sure everyone on this forum does , iv been in so much pain iv even considered trying weed ,its supposed to be very good for pain , but i am abit of a coward .so i stick to what i am doing for now it seems to be working.

  dont forget to try a self help hypnoises cd for stress there not very expensive  do it every day twice aday if you can, i promise they do help because your relaxing the tense muscles its hard at first but with practise it comes easeir and there is a reall bennifit.please try i know its hard you get so wrapped up with the pain you cant think straight you just want it to stop .

,yes iv heard that people with ms and athritus use it with great bennifits, sorry if i keep banging on i dont mean to i just want to try and help , peope sort the wheat from the chaff ,iv tried so much stuff over the years ,

its been an expensive journey to where i am now i just try and help others so they dont have to waste so much money trying all kinds of quirky and sometimes daft stuff.

i havent tried hemp oil , but iv got some hemp milk havnt tried it yet .

if i repeat myself its because i forget who iv given advice to i am not meaning to be annoying . i will try and make a note of yr name so i dont reapet myself , but i do have a memory like a sieve at the moment .

kids just think that your going on mines the same even my husband try not to let it get to you .

i am desperate to get to the york victorian  living musem .

and around october i want to get to the musem in newcastle where the cathrine cooksons are filmed although its not that far from us ,about an hour and half

, i couldnt do the journey and the visit and then come home it would kill me so will have to make a 3 day trip ,stopping over on the first night

god how sad, i feel about 90 when i say things like that. so got to get a few coppers together .still not everyones idea of fun , but i cant get enough of social history, might look and see if my grans house is still there where she was born in 1911 .