Had enough

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I do not know how to explain this. So many things I cannot do, too much isolation. So many cancellations of really really important things. I usually deal with it - what other choice is there. But today it was suddenly too much. This was my much loved father-in-law's funeral. Everybody else is there. I need to be with them, for grief, for closure. It is 6 hours transportation away, not a chance.

Something happened. I just cannot do this anymore.

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    Hi Solsikke,

    I too have been where you are I think, and have often felt so hopeless and misunderstood even by those close to me. However awful I feel, even in the depths of despair, things do ease up and as I recover some of my health I have renewed optimism. Had you considered taking the journey to your father in law's resting place when you have strength, with support, you may be able to grieve then? I hope you're doing better now.

    xx

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