have had generalised anxiety disorder for a year not coping
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I have had depression for 6 years and last year got diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder. I have tried sertraline, citalopram and now on fluoxetine they help my depression but not my anxiety. I am on a waiting list to see a occupational therapist, as I cannot go anywhere on my own and when I am out which isnt alot as I spend most of my days inside as I feel safer. I sweat alot on my face when I am out and I know its down to my anxiety but I cant relax when I am out and I spend so long getting ready doing my make up etc just for it to sweat all off. Thats why I dont go out as I know I am going to sweat and its controlling my life. I hate going out now I basically have no life.
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steve365 rachelw2014
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rachelw2014 steve365
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steve365 rachelw2014
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rachelw2014 steve365
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Bones_2205 rachelw2014
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rachelw2014 Bones_2205
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papote53 rachelw2014
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iwantmylifeback rachelw2014
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That's really positive you're seeing an occupational therapist - I'd definitely encourage you to keep your appointments.
I wish I could help more for you darling, but at least know you're not alone in your frustration and upset. xx
rachelw2014 iwantmylifeback
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richard89308 rachelw2014
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some people naturally sweat more than others do so don't feel self conscious. Maybe see if there is an appropriate treatment to counter this? Worth a try anyway.
Richard
rachelw2014 richard89308
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carol12809 rachelw2014
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anne240 carol12809
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anne240 rachelw2014
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My problem is the opposite to yours - I hate staying in. I live alone and feel so lonely. I want to be out as much as I can, even though I feel anxious. I need to be with or near people. I try to control the anxiety as best I can by taking my mind of it. It is when I am alone, especially when I wake up, that is the worse time for me. I hate staying in by myself. When I am out I find I can be doing other things, and although I may not wholly relax, I am surprised when I get home that I have felt OK and dealt with things.
How are you now, as I see you posted a month ago? Is the anti depressant you are taking now helping?
sarah86347 rachelw2014
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anne240 sarah86347
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sarah86347 anne240
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This is just my opinion but CBT in my mind, is breaking the thoughts - feelings - behaviour vicious cycle that keeps anxiety going. Looking at patterns in your way of coping with life and if they are unhelpful and keeping your anxiety going, changing them.
For example I hate going to the supermarket because I think I will panic, this makes me feel anxious so I avoid going. This way I never learn that my thoughts may be wrong and the outcome may be different or if i do panic that panic is harmless.
Since I had CBT my anxiety returned because I had an abusive partner but the gradual exposure side of it is helpful too. Going into anxiety provoking situations in a gradual way so you can grow your self confidence and start to have a holf od anxiety instead of it having a hold of you and so you can start to live a more fruitful life, is a good aspect of it.
I really like the metacognitive therapy whioch has added to CBT skills for me. It basically teaches that thoughts are just thoughts unless we add a special meaning to them xxx