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Heavily addicted to masturbation, how to stop? Consequences?

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curious90
curious90

Hi, I am 24 year old asian male, never had a girlfriend. I used to masturbate almost everyday since I was a teen, and each time, i came. Everytime I came, I felt sinful. Each time I tried to stop, after not touching myself for a few days, I have the strong urge to masturbate again - the feeling to release the load. It kinda became a habit and it is really hard not to have the feel of not to do it.

Today marks the 7th day of me, not touching myself and the feeling sucks. I get aroused and fantasized at small little things easily. I am really determined to control myself not to end this streak.

I was wondering if anyone could give me some suggestion to perservere on here. On the side note, since I ejaculate almost everyday last time, I believe my balls are used to produce the amount of sperms. What happen to these sperms if they are not released like what I used to release them? I am afraid that I may be infertile in the future. Could anyone advise?cry

-curious

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  • andrew66395
    andrew66395 curious90

    Posted

    You are suffering from inappropriate guilt about masturbation. This is a cultural phenomonen sometimes referred to as DHAT syndrome and goes back to anchant teachings about the evils of sperm loss.

    You will need to rid yourself of that nonsenscical guilt. Masturbation is a normal expression of your sexuality. It is healthy and necessary and does not have any untoward effects. It does not cause infertility and will have no ill-effects on your or your future marreage. It is univercilly practised by both men and women. So please, stop beating yourself about it.

    • curious90
      curious90 andrew66395

      Posted

      I believe masturbate is normal, but excessive is not. (I consider everyday = excessive). The social ackwardness and withdrawal symptoms already shows the cons of excessive masturbation.
    • matt82320
      matt82320 curious90

      Posted

      oh and I forgot - PS: daily IS NOT Excesive. It is very normal.

       

    • carl11484
      carl11484 matt82320

      Posted

      Exactly ..some jerk 1-3 times a day,

      I did up until I was in my 30's. An I still do if I feel like it a my wife isn't home.

    • Love2090
      Love2090 andrew66395

      Posted

      Sir, I have been masturbating from last 7-8 years I m 23 years old now Indian guy. Sir I am having problems like my dick is not getting erected. And I am feeling kind off insecurity that I have small penis. What should I do to have a large penis and getting my penis erected
  • matt82320
    matt82320 curious90

    Posted

    Hi Curious90, I had the same exact guilt when I first started to masturbating as a teen.

    After understanding that it is simply a normal bodily function and not harmful at all. I finally learned to enjoy this gift of nature.

    I remember a couple of funny, but wise quotes that I heard from some folks I respect very much.

    1. If God didn't want us to masturbate, he wouldn't have made our arms so long ! - and

    2. The people that say they don't masturbate - are probably lieing !

    LOL, funny but true...  SO relax and enjoy this wonderful gift that nature has given us.

     

    • curious90
      curious90 matt82320

      Posted

      Is it wrong to masturbate to porn everyday? I think my mind is pretty screwed up with all these sick fantasies.
    • cycletourleader
      cycletourleader curious90

      Posted

      I certainly don't think it's wrong to masturbate to porn everyday. Like Matt said, those guys that say they don't are probably lying. Stop feeling guilty and enjoy it
    • matt82320
      matt82320 curious90

      Posted

      Sometimes things can become confusing. Ultimately masturbating to porn is a personal decision. If you feel something is causing harm, then stop. If you feel "screwed up from fantacies" talk with a professional. It can help you figure things out much faster than trying to do it alone. Make an appointment and give it a try - it helps.
    • carl11484
      carl11484 curious90

      Posted

      Your not screwed up your a man doing what men do.. Enjoy it,...

      My Dad always said if you don't us you will loose it...

      And their is Truth to that..

      Enjoy it

  • simonthethird
    simonthethird curious90

    Posted

    As all the others say this is not abnormal even once a day. You are young and do not have a partner.  You might well have sex with a partner daily and no one would consider this unusual - I hope.

    You will not become infertile.

    When I was young it was said that if you masturbated [at all]  you would go blind.

    "Couldn't we just do it till we need glasses, sir"?  or that we would get hairy palms.  Not true.

    As Woody Allen says "it's sex with someone you love"

    Please don't worry

  • cycletourleader
    cycletourleader curious90

    Posted

    Hi, this I'd definitely nothing to worry about. Masturbation is a very natural thing to enjoy. Most young men feel very guilty about it and believe in all sorts of ridiculous nonsense about what will become of you if you continue! I'm a lot older than you and (even though I'm happily married) still enjoy masturbating from time to time.
  • josh19198
    josh19198 curious90

    Posted

    If you never want to masterbait again you should make love to a women and after you finish with her you will feel less you will need to masterbait oviously. If you cant make love to a women you should end your masterbaition in a horrible way knowing you are going to stop after it, like if you dont feel like masterbaiting and your having fun you will probably end up not doing it for another week and or a month if you keep rejecting dont make yourself masterbait
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