help think i might have acid reflux

So sorry to hear about your loss but the first thing you need to do is relax, all this worrying doesn't help the situation and can actually make it worse. Remember how if you cut yourself and you keep thinking about the cut it feels worse, try to ignore it and then you forget about it.

You need to give the tablets time to work depending on what they are. You have been referred to a specialist so that is good .

It could be a million and one things. Do you worry that everytime you drive your car you are going to be killed, of course not. So why think the worse of a condition. It could be reflux or something that will just go away of its own accord.

Relax, watch what you are eating as reflux is easily aggrevated by certain foods. There is some stuff I adore which I now avoid and that is with all the medication I am taking.

Hello natashaloo...First of all, I am SO sorry for your loss. I lost a set of twins once, it's very hard when that happens, very hard! I grieved for months. I did see one of my boys, and for about 6 months I would have a flashback of that moment. It would even wake me up sometimes. But, as time passes it will get better, although the date will remind you once a year, for me, that hasn't stopped. But now, about your lump feeling in your esophagus. I've had that too, I also have had that feeling of it moving up and down. Like something is stuck, it's weird. But my digestive problems grew from that to other things as well. This is how I cured myself: I found probiotics! I take one 50 Billion Live Culture capsule a day. Ultra Flora Critical Care Probiotics, I got them in the refrigerator section of the Healthfood Store. It took mine a few days to work at getting rid of the pain, then after a week or so my symptoms were so much better I was able to eat again, AND sleep. I was having terrible pain when I burped! Now that was weird! But it's gone now, I'm eating and sleeping normally after months of pain. 

You hang on sweetie, you'll feel better again. The pain of the loss of a child is one that most people just don't get. Like that nurse who said that terrible thing to you, it was HER OWN inability to cope that was the problem! NOT YOU! And if you ever need to talk about it I'm ready and willing to listen, I've been there so I know what you are going through. I used to look at twin boys and cry, and even though I still feel that loss, I'm doing much better now. I even asked my doctor what I did wrong. He was a WONDERFUL man and explained to me that it wasn't anything I did, and that those things just happen sometimes, he was a gentle soul, I was fortunate to have had him as my doctor. 

I hope you feel better soon honey, try those probiotics they REALLY helped me!

Jenny 💕

sorry about your loss hun .

acid reflux will be common at the moment as greif is a form of stress which makes our body over react and make to much acid . give your self time hun and try to do something positive every day.

make a special window box as a rememberance so every time you look out your window your smile at the thought of your special baby 

who the angels thought to precious to leave heaven .the pain will easy .hun dont rush it . its still very early .

natasha I cannot offer anymore advice than you have already received and blasted acid reflux is literally a pain in many many ways and knowing how to reduce or indeed prevent it seems to me a dark art.

However my real reason for contacting you is to say that I wish to join everyone else in saying how sorry I am to read of your tragic lose.

I can only hope that as time goes on the pain will get less and less. All I can add is that in the space of a very short time you have had to deal with some life changing events so of cause you will be feeling depressed and why shouldnt you but please dont bottle it all up inside but instead confide how you are feeling to your close friends and family as I am sure they will want to help you get through this awful time. Best wishes Ted