Hey...lets talk about sex
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9 weeks post prolapse bladder op and have tried the unthinkable this morning! Actually wasn't too bad even though I think I still have a stitch...another hurdle crossed!Β Now my hubby has just made me some toast and coffee...aren't I lucky?
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heather62040 eve33308
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But the symptoms from the rectocele are gone. Sex is getting better. (I couldn't feel anything before the surgery and now I do) I am very happy I had the surgery!!
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Hijadeonagro eve33308
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I have been having sex with my hubby and everything ok, he notice that my vagina is more narrow and both enjoy much more. I'm 5 months post ant repair.
I have several questions I would like to ask you ladies:
- lately, every time we have sex, the following day I have discomfort when peeing, I have had several cystitis during the last weeks and this weekend we had sex again another cystitis has shown its face. This morning I was peeing some blood and I went directly to buy the medicine that my dr has prescribed and a box of cranberry pills. Does it happen to you girls? Before surgery I never had cystitis. We had sex with preservatives and now we don't use them any more cos I also had hyst besides the ant repair.
- the first times I had sex I didn't have pain at all surprisingly... But lately we have tried more postures and oh my god it hurts! More than a pain, it's like feeling that the posture is harming you. We tried horse and doggy ( sorry to be so specific...) and i was not comfortable at all. My question is will these postures be painful for ever? π’ We use lubricant by the way.
- and last but not least, I would try anal sex but I'm scared. Before surgery we used it from time to time and now would like to try, seeing that the postures that I used to like are painful. I didn't have post repair yet but I will have it done in the following months...what about anal sex having a mild rectocele ( my condition now) and furthermore, having a post repair? (My condition in the future)
I know these are delicate questions but any advice you can give me will be very helpful for me. I don't have any other person to ask about this!
Hugs my dears! πππ
Jan999 Hijadeonagro
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Hijadeonagro Jan999
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phyl_40063 Hijadeonagro
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Glad to hear your making progress. At 12 weeks post op, must admit we haven't tried penetrative sex ad yet, hospital asked 'why not' and said we could safely go ahead now. But I still feel a bit scared, the edge round the back of Vag... feels very thin and tight and can still be sore if wiped too harsh.
I am sure that last time when I had hysterectomy and anterior repair we had full penetrative around the 12 weeks. If I remember right it was still a bit sensitive.
I am sure that there is advice on the subject in the helpful resources section; the forum moderator posted some helpful sites and I think that there was something under physio section about best positionselling after prolapse repair . If I remember right I think Stephanie had posted something on there. Matron will probably be able to direct you there!
Phyl xπππ
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Jan999 Hijadeonagro
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Hijadeonagro phyl_40063
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Hugs! ππ
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