high blood pressure and anxiety

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Hi all. I posted a message some months ago regarding my BP, I went to the GP and ended up in hypertension crisis 200/110! My GP made me sit in the surgery for couple of hours and started me on amlodipine, this was fine until I had horrific side effects and ended up unable to walk, after few weeks was diagnosed with severe anxiety and stress so started on citalopram and propananol plus ramapril 5mg, it's been over a year now and I feel really good in myself and happy but have a phobia now of the BP machine, I had my own monitor but my family banned it as it made me worse, really want to visit GP and check it but very scared of Getting a high reading. I have worked so hard to change my life and don't get stressed and do yoga daily, anyone else feel the same? I am 38 yrs old

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    I can certainly understand your fear. Your blood pressure was very high. I too had fear of taking my blood pressure but my pressure was only 150/ 104 or so...Im.high strung and worry alot. I decided to change things after my doctor put me on 20 mg of linsopril. I started eating healthier and dropped 12 lbs in 6 weeks..i also asked my doctor to put me on a low dose of clonazepam for my anxiety. I just got off of my blood pressure meds for good this past weekend. Read all you can in trusted places like the mayo clinic. Don't be afraid to take meds that help keep you calm. My mom's blood pressure was like yours over 200 and she got help and it's much lower. Eat healthy, it's hard I know but will result in lower anxiety because your trying to put a health plan into action. You can do this! Your life is worth it.

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      Hi danny68892...

      Glad you're feeling so much better. Anxiety can reek havoc on the body. One never has a feeling of being settled, the unnecessary worry the anxiety causes. Anxiety most certainly can& does boost bp readings. 

      Losing 12 lbs in 6 weeks is great. How did you do it? I'm most interested. 

      Asking the Dr. for something to calm your anxiety was an excellent idea & I'm glad he went along with you. I totally agree with telling readers on this forum to go to TRUSTED sites like the Mayo Clinic for information. My very own Dr. has said the same thing. He also suggested the New England Journal of Medicine. There are so many sites on the internet offering advice, but one never knows how up-to-date the information is, or even if the site truly is qualified in their information. One should never diagnose themselves with information from from the internet.

      Again, I'd be most interested in how you managed to drop the 12 lbs. in 6 weeks. Thanks in advance!!!

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      Does clonazepam lower you bp (by lowering anxiety)? I know a few beers will drop mine real quick! biggrin
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      Same here if I drink a beer or two I feel great and the be,t day my bp isn't as high I notice I of course don't drink often though ahha

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    hi i have the same problem it sucks let me know how your doing. . .
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    i feel u . but mine is about 155/95. i dont have a vice, i seldom drink soda.
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    Hi Folks,

    This is a very interesting discussion. My story: bought a bp machine a short while ago and for the first four days I got readings of average 135/80... not too bad but was a little concerned by the 135 number- then on the fifth day I got 150/90, this really concerned me til I took it a few hours later and got 160/100! Almost called an ambulance when I saw that!   For the next few days I was obsessed and took it dozens of times, always getting these 150-160/90-100 readings. Then I thought "well it was pretty normal the first 4 days so I must be just spooking myself" but in the back of my mind I'm still worrying and afraid to take it again. They say to buy your own machine in case you have white coat syndrome but nobody warns you that you might give yourself a form of white coat syndrome ...until I found this blog.

     One thing I noticed that gives me relief of mind: my resting pulse is 70ish and on the bp machine it always registers 85-95bpm which implies the bp readings are also unrealistically high- anybody else notice this?

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      mark73553...Buddy...relax! Average bp reading of 135/80 is good. You don't state your age, but I certainly would NOT be concerned about that reading. You fell into the commn trap of worrying about it, then you were taking readings far too much, which of course causes more anxiety. Remember this formula...anxiety+anxiety= elevated bp readings. 

      On the 5th day you got 150/90. What were you doing when you took that reading?Don't take readings if you're not feeling well, are anxious or upset about anything. Don't take readings within 30min of eating, drinking coffee, wine, beer etc., or showering/bathing, or smoking. Sit with your feet flat on the floor, with your back supported by the chair. Put the cuff on your LEFT arm, with the tubing level with your heart., & be sure the tubing runs straight down your arm & meets your middle finger. Have the cuff snug..not tight, but so  you can insert two fingers in the top.Sit for a few moments...relax...then push the button on your machine. Try your best not to worry about what's going on around you., & don't be staring at the machine. If your machine takes 3 consecutive readings on it's own...just let it do it's own thing, & spit out the average. Bp changes minute to minute. You can have a 135/80 reading now, then in about an hour it could be 155/80..It all depends on what the body is doing. 

      You admitted to being obsessed & taking readings dozens of times...getting 150-50/90-100 readings. No wonder!!! OBSESSED..that's the key word. You didn't do yourself any favours. 

      I hope you bought yourself a good machine. Some are not so good. 

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      Thanks, Mike- you are great comfort to all us worriers on here! I'm 55yrs old so yes 135/80 would be ok with me although now they're saying anything over 120/80 is too high. My bp machine is a cheap no name from China so maybe after 4 days it broke, lol. Gonna get an Omron soon. Also, I'm up in the "great white north" spending 3-4 hrs/day outdoors and it is freezing cold- apparently this can raise bp alot (see link below). Looking forward to summer, hoping for 120/80 in the heat!

      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3883610/

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      mark73553...It could very likely your bp montor is not accurate. Omron???? ...they're the BEST...& known for their accuracy. I would suggest you get the one that you can program to do 3 consecutive readings, then provide you with the average. You can also view each reading when done. 

      "They" may be saying anything over 120/80 is too high"..but that's not what I know. Even my doctor says 120/80 isn't for everyone...there are factors to take into acccount. With some people, it would be next to impossible to reach a target of 120/80. 

      Try to lower your anxiety..this may be easier said than done, but anxiety does you no good. Good luck!!!!!

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    Hey! This is my first time posting here. I’m 27 years old and I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety disorder since my early teenage years probably about 14/15. Since then my life has been marred by frequent anxiety problems. This has been boosted by the fact my dad had been sick with blood pressure, glaucoma( which took almost all his eyesight) and a heart condition. I used to help my dad monitor his BP with his apparatus. I developed this fear for the BP apparatus cos i felt it had a connection with my dad’s ill health. 

    Some years back before i turned 20 I had a little fever which was probably malaria in one night which I couldn’t sleep properly, kept waking up so i told my mum i had fever and she took me to a nearby clinic. Thought i’d just be given a drug or injection but the hospital’s policy was to take a person’s BP( by a nurse) before he/she sees the doctor. The nurse strapped my arm and began pumping. That was the beginning of my miserable life. Even before she started the process i was all over the place. She was in shock when she saw my BP.  I saw this shock and fear in her eyes. She was asking what was wrong with me at my age. It got me so scared i felt like dying. That was my first panic attack. 

    My mum was worried too, her eyes turned red as she consoled me. I was finally sent to the doctor who saw my condition and i told him i was so scared of the BP test that i felt so anxious and worried. He consoled me and offered to check me without the device. He said i was okay I didn’t have BP I shouldn’t worry. It took me months, perhaps years to get over that episode. Had a few panic attacks afterwards. My anxiety grew that i got scared of any hospital or any test whatsoever that had to do with my health. I even developed a fear for addressing a crowd(presentation)and also the fear for flying while still having the fear for my health.  

    My dad’s condition worsened from 2011 and i got to witness it all. I was very close to him as i was his last son and only child still staying with him. It was traumatic for me as i watched him die over time. I’m a sensitive person so i feel people’s pain and his was overwhelming. He finally passed on at the tail end of 2013 in my arms. I was a student then so i had to deal with lots of challenges on a daily basis and my dad’s death. But i kept living through the pain. 

    I never really felt sick or had physical symptoms of high BP but there was this night that i had a massive panic attack for the whole night. Early in the morning i thought i should go seek help but i was scared of a hospital so i went to a local pharmacy and complained about my attack so the man asked to measure my BP and my heart started racing again and i was at my worst anxious-wise. The man was shocked and i told him i was so scared of BP that I didn’t even wanna know the readings or any details about anything  i just wanna get better i just want drugs to make me better. He gave me some BP drugs(I think) which i started and but still never really made me more relaxed or any better so i felt its probably not BP so i stopped taking the drugs and i just got better on my own. But as usual i have my anxiety problems from time to time but never a panic attack again. This continued but yesterday(June 2018)i had another episode. 

    I am currently processing some travel papers as I’m planning to travel in a couple months time. I filled a form and there was requirement for a medical(blood test, blood group, blood sugar, height, weight and blood pressure). Days before the medical I’ve been anxious about the whole thing. I had an 8 hr road trip 4days back and it was pretty stressful. I came to the city where i had to process my travel documents. I never really had time to sleep. And i had to wake up very early everyday and spent days for the process. I have friends here they wouldn’t let me rest. We played soccer everyday for the first 3 days. Even though I’m pretty overweight(6ft 108kg) I actually play soccer at least once a week for about two hours every week. But since i came here I’ve played with my friends 3 straight days but then we smoked hooker for about an hour every night since i came. I’m pretty healthy since i drink alot of water( I don’t drink alcohol & i avoid drinks with high sugar content), I eat healthy most days along with the soccer i play. My lifestyle isn’t that bad for a guy my age. 

    Anyway i got called to the hospital yesterday and i was freaking out before i even arrived. Tried to calm myself and be brave to actually face it but i was still anxious. Before i went to the hospital i was relatively calm and had less anxiety but it kicked in the longer i was in queue. Had my blood taken for the blood tests then it was time for the BP test and everything just went crazy. I told the doctor I didn’t like my blood pressure taken i had phobia for it but he still insisted. I tried to stay calm but soon as that strap got that tight grip on my arm i could feel my nerves. My heart was pounding. The doctor still gave me that same ‘look’ and said ‘do you have BP?’ and i said no I’m so tense I didn’t know if i did. He recorded a 180/90 for me on the form and his remark was ‘Elevated BP’. While my brother whom I’m travelling with had a 120/80 was remarked ‘medically fit’. My brother has been seemingly worried about me. I wasn’t given any drug or treatment. I wemt home and I’ve been feeling off since i left the hospital . Even though i played soccer in the evening and swam in the night i still feel really bad right now. I couldn’t sleep throughout this night even though I’ve been sleepy for days and actually took a single panadol night pill( which usually makes me sleep if i want to) to aid but right now it’s 6am in the morning and I’ve been awake, scared and anxious. I don’t even know what to do. I’ve fought back several times for years but it keeps coming back. I don’t feel like i have BP(don’t want to believe even if i do) since I haven’t had it’s symptoms like severe headaches and dizziness. I want to believe it’s just my anxiety. I just want to be normal and healthy without any drugs. Oh! And i have acid refux as well which I believe gives me a lump in throat feeling(gets worse with my anxiety) can someone make me better please

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      Hi there, my heart goes out to you. I am a worrier and have suffered from anxiety since a teenager. I have had the same problem with high bp. -  the connection in your brain with the bp monitor and fear is overwhelmingly strong. It is all to do with your fight and flight response - you see the monitor, the brain perceives a fear and then tries to protect you by giving you the adrenaline boost to run away from it. That worked in cavemen times but now it is not a fierce bear you are running from but the monitor! I fought against bp medication for years and then I had to have treatment for other problems - my bp was always up when it was taken -it started when a nurse took it years ago and told me it was a bit high 130/85. i was very stressed by life circumstances at the time so got very anxious- from then on the pattern was set and it dot higher and higher (198/102). Last year I had an op (it was touch and go if they would do it because my bp was so high. ) The op went  wrong - the doctor made a mistake and i spent six weeks in hospital where they took my bp all the time. I was out of it a lot of the time so not really up to being anxious about it because I was so ill. My bp was apparently all over the place - sometimes too low. I guess it helped me in a way to break the cycle of anxiety. Now I don’t panic when the cuff goes on. It is still up sometimes so I have gone on the medication. But I really don’t feel the anxiety any more. Not sure how you can break the cycle but maybe hypnotherapy might help you. 
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      mubarak94664...you stated that when you were at the hospital, you freaked when they put the bp cuff on you, & you could feel your heart pounding. As I've said in previous posts, when this happens, the bp spikes. Quite likely,  your true reading wouldn't be 180/90. Sometimes in a Dr. office when a reading is that high, & he/she knows the patient is very anxious, they'll let them rest a few moments, then take another reading. By the way, to say you have blood pressure is a comedic expression. Everyone has blood pressure.Remember as well, elevated bp usually doesn't have any symptoms which is why it's termed "the silent killer". 

      I too used to become anxious at the very idea of taking bp readings, til I finally decided it wasn't going to control me any longer. It's just a machine., not a 5-headed monster. I used to feel a little anxious at the very sight of the machine, or the cuff at the Dr. Not now. YOU must be boss, not the machine. 

      When you feel anxious, go for a long walk...talk with friends, or play a relaxing game on your c-phone, ipad, computer or whatever. Remember, YOU are boss, not a machine or cuff.

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      UPDATE! After a very bad night i finally had a pretty decent sleep from around 7am to 1pm after reading through some of these posts which gave me some relief. I went to a doctor after waking up just to have some reassurance that i was okay. We had a pretty decent discussion and i feel he understood me. He didn’t ask to do a bp test. He understood that it freaks me out. And he believed it was the reason i had the 180/90 reading. He prescribed an anxiety drug that i should try for 10 days starting from tonight( I don’t want to use drugs) I’m giving it a shot though. I already feel better today. He said i should just try and get used to the bp machine by accepting that it’s just a machine. He also advised I should lose some weight and avoid meat. He’s given me some hope and  feel much better I’m even playing soccer later today. 
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      Maybe your doctor can put a 24 bp monitor on you? It will record your bp every 1/2 hr, even while you are asleep (so no anxiety issues then).
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      mubarak94664...good! Glad you got to see the doc. I was right in what I wrote earlier, that when you were extremely stressed that time, it was the reason for the high reading of 180/90. No wonder!

      Give the anxiety med a go..Nobody likes drugs, but sometimes we need a bit of help from them, especially if they're a little on the mild side. 10 days isn't a long time either. Your Dr. also said what I did as well...The machine is just a machine. Don't let a machine control you. 

      Hope you enjoyed the soccer game. Let us know how you get on.

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      I actually don’t want anything to do with a bp monitor right now, I’d still panic. I just hope over time i’ll convince myself to face my fears. I’ve been living with this anxiety for a long time and it’s pretty much affected a large chunk of my life. Things that people find easy to do i get anxious in doing them. It’s gonna take some time for me to accept the whole bp thing. I believe I could make myself slowly get comfortable with it over time. 
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      Yeah thanks Mike you were right. I enjoyed my soccer and had alot of fun swimming with friends for about two hours before going to bed and i had a very decent 14 hr sleep(I’ve not had a good sleep in days). What i realize is as long as I believe I’m fine then i feel really good and healthy but soon as something triggers my anxiety then things get bad. I begin to have negative thoughts and get even more anxious. The doc said the anxiety med will make me better so I’m giving it a shot
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      mubarak94664...keep up the good work. You now know that you're fine..it's the anxiety that's your enemy. Whenever you might feel even the slightest bit of anxiety creeping in, get rid of it...tell yourself that you're not going to let it control you any longer...then busy yourself. You'd be amazed at how well this works. 

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      Thanks alot Mike. Really appreciate your words. I’ll try as much as i can to stay positive.

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