I am paranoid,Anxiety, scare. Breaking down for the pass 4days

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I am concern about a sexual event with CSW 4 days ago at asian country...

1. A day before the encounter,near to the shaft of my penis, i got a pimples blackhead there, i went to squeeze.. did squeeze out abit of puss.. but i injured the skin on the surface. And got abrasion there.. about 3cm to 5cm away from the shaft of my penis. I am concern if will i get anything from the CSW.

2. She did oral me for 3 to 5sec.. i quickly ask her to put the condom on as i am scare that i may get stuff from her.. will this be a concern?

3. She sit on me .. will that cause the stds or hiv enter my body with the abrasion near to to penis??. I not sure if the abrasion area touches her viginal lips or touches her fuilds

... pls help to advice..

Thanks

Now the abrasion area is so uncomfortable.

Water run through there will have pain.

Standing up or seating will feel the tinggling.

I now having diarrehea. And is water type.

Backache and feel so fatigue.

Attached pics of the current abrasion

https://www.dropbox.com/s/7s5t55ibzz6fib9/Screenshot_2016-07-01-22-11-45.jpg?dl=0

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  • Posted

    Add on:

    Day 5 sunday.

    I use a herbal medicine to apply on the abrasion area. Started to dry up with scrab. Water run through no more pain. Already dry up 2days already as i started to apply on friday.

    Today is wed till now sunday 5days...

    Wed 1am To Sun 10pm.

    thursday, 2nd day started bodyache and joints ache.

    Friday, 3rd day started diarrehea and nausea, tingling feel at the groin and the tip of the penis, sweat in aircon room(25°c) sometimes chill. Backache, muscle ache and some others.

    Is this the symptoms or is it my paraniod and anxiety causes all this to happen on me..

    I couldnt sleep well and cant get to sleep.. keeps on thinking and thinking ...

    Please help. Is killing me

  • Posted

    I would get checked out if you are concerned. I know that I would be very worried.
  • Posted

    I will test it in few weeks time...

    But now i am so worried as all sypmtoms appear...

    Just 2 days after incident...

    That cause me to be so stress up and scare...

    I am married with 2 small kids...

    That why i like feeling end of the world...

    But today, the pain at the abrasion no more as i apply a herbal medicine on friday(2 days ago) dry up already.

    What i have now is the diarrhea and no appetatie, feel like viomittting,chill and sweat ,the pain on my left side of my neck,my back and my body muscle.

    Am i too paraniod and stress??

    Sypstoms appear that fast or my stress causes all this

    • Posted

      Does your wife now what's going on? You are worrying and I get it! It's all you can think about when this is happening. I feel your pain. I tested negative to all and still having issues. It's obviously not an STD but it's still painful. The body is fighting something.

  • Posted

    the aches and muscle pains are likely from the illness that gave you diarrhea etc. glad you cleared up the open sore but that is not the end of it. get some fluid replacement ( can you get Gateraid/Poweraid/ Vitamwater?) into yourself and then when you feel better you should go get tested. any sexual fluids in contact with open skin unfortunately is high risk for STI, as was your sexual contact, so you need to protect your family, but your current symptoms may just be a bad stomach flu.
  • Posted

    Thanks for all advice...

    I am just wondering if the open abrasion will get the STI or HIV...

    As what I have contact maybe the squirt water from the lady.

    As u have clear my thoughts as Symptoms ain't related... really ease me alot... thanks

  • Posted

    Thanks...

    I am too stress up...

    My wife don't know i dun dare to let her know...

    I scare my marriage broke out from there....

    I am just to curious.just nice after the incident I felt sick...

    I ask a few forum..

    All told me HIV dun transmit this way and I am not in risk.

    For stds I need to wait for the time to go check..

    Lucky I found a few forum like this where I can ask and get advice ...

    Thanks guys for the work...

    I am just to stress and scare ....

    I am lost ...

    • Posted

      It is LOW transmission risk, but not zero, if HIV infected sexual /vaginal fluids came in contact with a fresh open sore on your genitals. The risk is not zero. I do not believe it is causing THIS illness as the time to diarrheal presentation for HIV is wrong, but you should still be checked for HIV. Now and in 14 weeks. Best way to avoid all this anxiety is avoid high risk behaviour.
    • Posted

      2/2 From US gov web site - although risk extremely rare for skin to skin transmission

      "Men can also get HIV from having vaginal sex with a woman who’s HIV-positive. This is because vaginal fluid and blood can carry HIV. Men get HIV through the opening at the tip of the penis (or urethra); the foreskin if they’re not circumcised; or small cuts, scratches, or open sores anywhere on the penis" . Really, I'm not trying to stress you after trying to calm you, but you do need to know your risk of HIV is not zero.

    • Posted

      Hi there.

      But the doctor aside saying of the fluid as is not those cream white type.. is transparent like urine. ( squirt).

      Is risk non..

      As what u quote that also scares me when I 1st read last few days... that why I no matter how.. will get it check... to to confirm my status

    • Posted

      Vaginal fluid is vaginal fluid. urine is urine (and very low risk). Do you really think you can make a correct judgement on which fluid type it was? Just do the tests...but again, in lower risk category.
    • Posted

      Thanks...

      Yes is water I feel... as is only wet.. non sticky type...

      Thanks... I will go for the test .. but is just the worried I am having that cause me stress and scare..

  • Posted

    Lucky mine is not flesh wound..is been more then 20hr since I go injured the pimples....

    I will still go check for all panel test...

    But u say now is only 5days less then a week.. I go test for HIV??

  • Posted

    I'd agree with what's been said however until your mind is fully at rest with tests, if you go down that road due to concerns being present still then to be fair to your wife and keep her safe you either need to avoid sex with her or wear condom.

    If she asks why avoiding sex etc then you can say stress from work or a myriad of other white lies to keep her safe.

    Really hope it's nothing, you regain peace of mind and have learnt valuable lesson

    • Posted

      Yes I will.. and will never dare again.. is really not worth just for a few minutes pleasure...

      Hopefully this won't transmit to me ...

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