I am so upset and annoyed at THE WORLD!!!!

Hi, sorry to hear your not feeling great today. Your days sound v.similar to mine minus the maths course! how do you do it all. Your alot stronger than i seem to be.

Out of interest why do you take laxatives only because i abuse them too (although trying not to now) i do it when i'm low and just another self destructing tool for me to abuse my body because i hate ME alot of the time.

Do you take anti depressants?

Boog

Hi boog100, thanks for the message.

Why do I take llaxatives? Well I ask myself the same question - I dont know! If I can get rid of my food,I feel better. Sometimes I just dont feel like eating, or if Ive eaten I want it out as I see no point in continuing this dreary existence. I cant drive, I cant get a decent job(I cant believe you now have to give a 10 minute presentation , in an interview , to work a scanning machine at Standard life, wtf is the credit crunch done!!!!!!) Sorry, off again.

I take them, they make me feel better, more control on self destructing, yup thats me, a bottle of wine , lots of laxatives, next morning loads of caffeine, (oh yeah and the ocassional wrap or chocolate bar ) Dont know why I waist money on food, when really I should just but more booze - I mean, do it properly, and hurry up about it. No one likes me, I dont like me, so how can anyone else. I want to be in a dark box, and hidden, that way I cant hurt anyone, and they cant hurt me.

No, I dont take ads, that would be criminal!

Hope your better than me boog100.

Saying , as you asked, I am in a much better mood once theyve worked.

Your email sounds a bit chirpier than the previous one - not that i can tell by just writing but you know what i mean

So do you suffer with alcholism and depression or just one of them? Why taking Anti depressants criminal?

I'm ok but this terrible illness \"depression\" \"anxiety disorder\" takes its toll as you probably know. So are you at work now?

Hi, boog100 - yeah I am a bit alcohol dependant.

Yeah....still not so great , just do the avoidance thing (all day) That helps, not as much as a glass of wine would. Off work today which is a good thing as really I just rather hide. Children cheered me up, but god, I cant handle how my partner thinks its okay to tell them one thing and make their minds insecure. Pra....(Iam sure you can finish that word of for me).

Do you drink? I cant see the future for the drink....even though everything seems bleak, I still have wants....yeah, right......well they come and go. I cant imagine having that \"feel good factor\" ever again.

Afriend of mine cheered me up. I had such a laugh, I cried. Why could it not be like this at home?????

Im at work tom and then have 3 days off - shifts are everywhere.

Do you drink as well?

Hi Tiny,

Yeah i do drink and i did get very dependent on it due to depression as like you it HELPED. But does it? Since early July i have not been dependent on drink and it actually feels alot better although to be fair it wasn't a long period that i relied on drink to get me through only a few month so i woulnd't have classed myself as an addict so by just changing my life style with drink and food has helped alot. I was in hospital becaus of depression and that helped loads.

What do you work as? How old are your kids? I take i your partner doesn't help much-does he mind you drinking.

My mother and sister are alchoholics so i don't won't go down that road although i do relate to why they do it sometimes.

I have two girl aged 3 and 6 and they are v.v.hard work. It sounds like you get happiness from your children and i'm guessing they are older than mine.

Boog

About the only \"Out of control\" thing i dont sdo , is shoplift!!!!

Been eating like a horse today. I eat wraps with about 10 million jalapeons- then wonder why I have indigetstion and heartburn all night.

Another thing I do is spend money , like there is no tomorrow, mind you that might be because there might not be a tomorrow. I dont even get a feel good buzz anymore. Nothing.

I just seem to be living in a dark rain cloud, (thats not opened the flood gates yet!). I cant seem to weigh consequences up. Hence why I go well a wee glass of wine ill fix it, a few laxatives away from being me again and ill be fine apart from the fact walking in a straight line irs about as hard as getting a PHD@

Ive eaten so much today: !) cup of coffee , slice of toast, caramel log

then more coffee, wrap in colesla with mustard and pepper. then cup[ a soup and another wrap with chees and jalapenos, (Only 7) of them, Honestly, belly look like Ben Nevis , where my bottom is the base and the end of my tummy is the top.

Do you know my partner is such A b.........d, god I never thought I would end up like my mother , but here I am calling him names just as she did my dad, mind you my kids are not reading this and have not heard me say it (well, yet). He works 5 hours a day, or starts at 6 pm and finishes at 10....This weekend he astarted at 8pm and came home at 7 am - do you think he has met someone else? Do you think this is why he has decided it okay for him to move out? Do I care? Nope! Not Now , No one could hurt a person like he has me, and yes I am terrified of change, but Ill just stay away from men.

God , talking of which, there is an asian man that f annoys me. I made the big mistake of saying Hello to him ONCE, and yuck he so so perverted, cant describe it- goggle eyes Yuck! Right there. Hope ya speak soon boog100, feeling lonely and very fat and ugly, Blodody hairdresser cut my hair off and its a f mess!!!!

Boog. My children are 5 and 8. They are v hard work also, but I am blessed by the fact they are easy to please. My partner helps ocassionaly by taking them out on the odd day trips, but in the house and with the house chores he does not. My partner does not mind me / never has minded me drinking,. He drinks also- he drinks beer, I cant stand the stuff. I hate saying that I may become a drink dependant, my sister srinks every night also and my dad , likes to drink a lot too, despuit his bad health. His brother commited suicide, and his dad died from alcoholism, so I dont really want to be using alcohol as a measure to ease my moods, but I am so irritable, and by the time my children are asleeping in their beds I find that my mind is buzzing and I feel wide awake......by 1030...instead of going to bed with a good book....I am like, bring it on....opening my bottle and drinking. By 1230 I go to bed, Then usually wake about 6am, No wonder Ive been getting migraine.

Thats good that you were strong enough not to stay on the booze. The thing is ever since my aunt, granda has died and I was their for my mum, I resent the facts that she did not help me out when I really needed her. Should it not be the other way around? Maybe not at this age - but think that her illnesswa triggered me off on one again, and always will. When I think about it,, that makes sense.

So your partner doesn't stay with you?

How much do you drink?

What is your job?

Don't be down about your weight and hair they can be fixed or i'm sure your weight is fine and your hair looks lovely.

Do you live in London? :lol:

No, boog, my partner does live withme- just trying to get him out.

I am a shop assistant at the moment, trying to get into teaching.

I dont live in London - do you?

I tend to drink 3 or 4 glasses of wine a night.

If you live in lOndon, what part?

No don't live in London just work there. Just waiting for kids to go back to school - yippeee trying to juggle work and childcare is a nightmare!

Back to work tomorrow though and the rest of the week - its my haven really - don't really like homelife for no apparent reason just not a v. good mother or wife or housekeeper actually i'm very crap at it all.

Do you see someone for your depression?

Iam like that on the school holidays. I feel like you to - I am crap at all that housework ,a nd evemn though I adore my children I feel i dont do them justice, I can never manage to get it out my head that I dont give them the best and thats not dood enough. It has to be all or niothing. At the moment I have to collect my youngest from a friends, shes really hard work for me, I know she is feeling a bit insecure about specs, speech, andloves to be close to be and though I think she is brill and adorable sometimes I just want her to get off me, and give me 5 minutes ....this make me fee llike she feels like she is getting rejected by me and that makes me feel crap as my mum used to snap at me all the time even if it were just fior a cuddle, and I feel like this is a really painful thing. Do I make any sense to you? becca slleps in my bed, (I sleep in the spear room away from my partner) and she sneaks in and cuddle sme, I wake with 10 teddied in my bed and her cuddling me. But I know what you are saying, Its almost like the Cant llive with them, cnat live without them scenario but you feel guilty for not loving them enough! You can never love children too much - can you?

Hi

I work in the city but didn't live in London

3 or 4 glasses of wine is the norm for most women i think

Have a good evening if you can - tomorrow's another day

Boog

According to my doctor and cpn , that s not a normal amount.

What do you work as?

Hope you okay, and thank you for talking to me today.

how are you today?