I don't even know what i'm scared of!
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I am losing hope, my anxiety is 24/7, i struggle to leave the house and when i'm out fear just zaps through me constantly, i don't know what i'm scared of though.
I'm not scared of any specific bad thing happening, i hate panic attacks of course but i know they are just arenaline and can't harm me so i am logical about them.
I just feel scared for no reason, we were out today again, i force it daily and i just kept thinking 'oh god i'm out, i'm scared', we sat in an indoor play area with the kids an fear was going through me in waves, thinking about how scary 'outside' felt but it's nothing specific.
I am getting phone CBT in 6 weeks but how can it help if i can't even explain what it is that i fear?
I know the only way through it is to keep trying but it feels like it's getting worse every day and i am trying so hard, i just don't know what to do anymore
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lynne82155 BellaLuna
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I just dont understand it
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BellaLuna Guest
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I just worry that if i can't be specific about why i feel scared they wont be able to help me.
lisalisa67 BellaLuna
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kerry84695 BellaLuna
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jmcg2014 BellaLuna
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ann55375 jmcg2014
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gill16647 BellaLuna
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BellaLuna gill16647
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I do need to change the way i think about it and approach it, you are right about that scary tag and the thoughts i have when i'm anxious not being rational, i need to keep reminding myself of that too, it's been an awful day today and i really appreciate your words of encouragement, i will try to be kinder to myself too.
gill16647 BellaLuna
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BellaLuna gill16647
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I do need to try a new approach, it's so bad at the moment and nothing I do is helping so learning to view it differently is something I really need to try as hard as it is.
gill16647 BellaLuna
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BellaLuna gill16647
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I have been thinking a lot about your advice today and keeping it in my mind, telling myself to carry on with what i'm doing and saying 'I will not listen to myself' a lot, it helped me to survive another day which to be honest was still awful but i got through each task, went to the shop, felt fear, repeated those words in my mind and got it done.
I sat in a coffee shop and had a fruit tea too, i felt awful and rushed it down a bit but i didn't leave and resisted the urge to ask them to put it in a takeaway cup, that way i knew i had to stay in there, sit down and just be there for a little while.
I know it's going to take a long time, it hurts when i know i was fine a couple of months ago but i am accepting that for now i am having a hard time and i need to have patience and stay hopeful x
gill16647 BellaLuna
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BellaLuna gill16647
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I phoned my CPN and she is going to do a home visit with a consultant, i don't want it, i don't want more meds but she is being really pushy about it, i am seiously thinking about discharging myself from her because every time i speak to her i feel worse.
It's just anxiety i am dealing with and the agoraphobia, its horrible, i had some stress about a month or two before things got really bad but thought i was dealing with it fine at the time, i did tell the CPN about it and she said she would refer me for psychotherapy but it never happened,now she is insisting i need more meds and it's stressing me out even more x