I don't want to live anymore
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The last couple years i've been dealing with what i'm told is depression. I've felt this way for really as long as i can remember just on and off and much more subtle but, ever since highschool graduation it's manifested into something i don't want to live with anymore. It's not an exageration when i say nothing brings me happiness anymore. I can't stand being around my friends, family, and i dropped out of university three weeks in because i can't bring myself to try.
I have reached out a few times. The first few people i reached out to don't really keep in touch and at it did hurt but now i feel indifferent towards it. I told my mom and she brought me to my family doctor who started me on cymbalta (which i went cold turkey after a month and a half) and zoloft (which recently i went cold turkey on after my family doct gave me tryptophan and i ended up in emergency with serotonin syndrome.) The drugs made me restless and even more numb to my feelings to the point where i honestly rather feel suicidal than nothing, because it's something.
At the time i was working a horrible job at the dollarstore where my manager used up every last drop of energy i had in me. I got a new job after that stocking shelves at Costco but quit after a day because i knew i couldnt keep up with everybody's upbeat and annoyingly postitive moral. After i quit i spent a month unemployed, alone, and feeling so fed up with myself i tried to commit suicide. I failed and that's about the time i went back for more help and was started on zoloft. After a fight with my parents i went and got a job working for Walmart doing overnight stocking, which i do right now to this day. It's better than the other jobs i've had but it's still something that i don't want to do because realistically i don't have to do it. Plus being an overnight deal it was making my sleeping pattern ridiculous to where i was sleeping only maybe 3-4 hours every couple of days.
So i tried a couple sleeping meds, none worked, went to emergency for SS, quit my meds. In a last try for help a couple days ago i reached out to my bestfriend and simply he explained that maybe the reason why none of the people in my life have been around is because they don't know how to help, or maybe they didn't want to say the wrong things. That put things into perspective a bit but not really enough to make a difference in the wat i'm feeling. He also told me he wanted me to see an actual specialist and suggested i find a new job.
I made an appointment to see a psycologist this wednesday, and have an interview monday morning. But the thing is that i don't want to get better anymore. I really don't see the point in living. I don't want anything. I don't care for people or really their feelings. I don't want to try another round of meds. I don't want to go through the new job process again. I don't want to tell some stranger with a degree things i've repeated a million times.
When i when to the hospital with SS i thought i was having a heart attack. For a moment i thought i was going to die and i knew i could fight or take flight, but i fought. So that must mean there's something inside of me that still wants to live, right? But ever since it happened i've been wishing i would of given up and died.
This honestly might be the last time i ever post here. Everyday i get farther and farther away from wanting to live. I need a reason to try. What's the point in living if you can't enjoy it? Is there really a point of seeing a shrink? or even finding a new job if i'm going to feel the same?
I'm fed up.
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KM75 JaredC
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I'm not going to tell you that things will definitely change for you, or that there is 'a point'. I can relate to so much of what you're feeling, and I know the hopelessness of where you're at. It is horrible, awful, and unfair.
I will say this though. You came on this forum and reached out to strangers because regardless of whether you see it as looking for help or not, there's a part of you that wants to be seen for this pain you are in. Even if the only thing you want is to not feel the way you feel right now, that is still a want. And if you still want *something*, there is hope. So go see the psychologist - you never know. At the very least, they will recognise the despair you are in, and unlike your friends and family (and general doctors sometimes too) they *do* know what to say and do. They will listen to you. Give it a chance.
Try not to focus too much on jobs or other things for now, just hold on to the fact that you want this one thing - to not feel how you feel now. It is the only thing that matters.
sueeliz JaredC
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Take one day one hour one minute one second at a time, try everything the medics suggest, it might work. Follow the instructions to the letter, don't be stupid with your meds, antidrepressants need to be in your system for at least 3 months to get some effect. Most meds have horrible side effects but persevere they do go away. You're in a battle here I know you can't be bothered I know you just want to lay down and die but you can't so you may as well push yourself to fight.
lynne82155 JaredC
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You are doing all the right things
Go and see your psych on Monday get the help you need and deserve.
Get some therapy and find a support group.
This forum is excellent your not alone
Stay Strong
frank68910 JaredC
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frank68910 JaredC
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just my thought and doesn't have to mean anything but I discovered that I am the Master of my fate and the captain of my soul, after all-like that saying goes.
you know?
I discovered that is the key. We are what we think we are.
We do what we want. We don't need approval and if we don't seek it we sure as hell won't get it.
I learned how to un-try.
If I wanted to jump out of a plane or climb a mountain or write a book or jump off a bridge that was my perrogative.
I think that was why my son lived his life the way he did. I played the game. you know-the parent, husband, father. But I sure as heck didn't 'do' the things I wanted to do after I got married. I played the role someone said we have to play. I forgot that life is supposed to be
some kind of BS magic.
Well, I was wrong. When I was young and healthy and happy I didn't need to change anything. Someone said: Life is wasted on the young.
Thats it in a nut shell. an old guy can look back and say wow-I wasted it. a young guy or gal says-wow-is this it? Is this all there is to life? endless need? need to be popular or different or the same or better looking or it would all be good without that pimple! Long hair-short hair-
you want to fit in but be fdifferent and darn it sucks to be me.
I think you said alot when you said you didn't have an answer. Thats enough. It is honest-clean.
thanks. It isn't everyday someone actually speaks the truth anynore.
JaredC frank68910
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And really i should be thanking you, the last couple days reading your comments were all i really had to look forward to. Appreciate it.
Has877 JaredC
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Casper8986 Has877
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Hey, I'm in the same boat. I feel exactly like this and I don't think we'll be getting a response anytime soon with how old the post is. If you need to talk to someone who most likely knows how you're feeling, feel free to message me
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