i feel like im dying
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how can peri make me feel this sick
it started jan 2016 but past 3 months have beem horrible. i wake up at 5am feeling so sick. i am beyond tired everyday all day ( prob cause i dont sleep much ) and my body doesnt feel good. i feel like i am slowly dying and even tho all my tests come back normal ( and i havr had a lot ) that they are missing something thats gonna kill me. my constant upset stomach/trapped air burping/ feeling unsteady when i walk is the worst one, amxiety, feel like i have ongoing flu.
please ease my mind and tell me im not alone. this seriously needs to stop. its putting me into depression
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cissy2020 kim74983
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i am right there with you. I am sick all day almost every day. i feel like i have not much of a life because i ALWAYS feel bad. an i dont know how to make it better. the shortness of breath is the worst for me right up there with anxiety that is off the charts. i dont know how women make it threw feeling this bad all the time.
mary27278 cissy2020
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Cissy I know the feeling. what are all your symptoms?
lisa62408 cissy2020
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Does anyone get buzzing in their ears? x
viola79502 lisa62408
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Yes, I have buzzing in my ear. I always hear a cricket too!!!!! My Dr. said is Tinutis, but it all started with my menopause!!!! Truly sucks!
cissy2020 mary27278
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i honestly have so many. i wake up tired everyday. i feel sick to my stomach my body hurts chest pains ( these days been the right side when i take a deep breath) my head is ALWAYS CONGESTED my anxiety is so over whelming some days i just cant leave my room. my ears always ring and make me crazy.... oh an my husband loves this one.... i can go from smiling to the worst rage ever over stupid stuff. ugh..... i have been to the quack doctor and she just seems to not care. i cry way more then i smile and honestly if i didnt get to go to church 3 times a week im not sure where i would be right now.
sick and tired
Keron720 viola79502
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Oh my God! I have that "cricket" sound too, in my left ear. I was diagnosed with TMJ syndrome, which was triggered by the onset of perimenopause. It also causes ringing in the ears.
shelley85069 cissy2020
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have you checked your iron? i recently added an iron supplement and shortness of breath is easing. its all so annoying ans scary.
toria_07298 shelley85069
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did the iron cause any tummy problems at all? x
shelley85069 toria_07298
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Havent had any tummy issues yet and able to exercise (walking mostly) without the horrible shortness of breath. I drink matcha green tea also every day and that may help prevent constipation that iron can cause. x
toria_07298 shelley85069
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oh lucky you 😃 i cant do green tea as its high in histamine x
shelley85069 lisa62408
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yes i do! i am 44 and have this off and on for the last 5 yrs! its so annoying. i had my hearing checked at one point and all came back fine.
lisa07272 kim74983
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Hi Kim,
I am really struggling with lots of symptoms, I told my doctor that I can't cope anymore. No one seems to understand how awful the symptoms are. I keep waking up in total panic, I have been getting a burning mouth which is horrible, the whole roof of my mouth hurts, and now I keep feeling like I need to burp. I keep getting the chills then the hot flushes. I really feel for you I know exactly how you feel. I worry everyday that I have something serious, my anxiety is so bad. I hate being on my own too. I worry about this burning mouth as it can be so painful. Glad you have had many replies to your post, as it helps knowing that you are not alone x
maria_03422 lisa07272
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Hi Lisa . I have the chills that lasts for days!! like you i get so anxious being alone and now i stopped having my grand daughter over night because I'm worrying something bad will happen to me and she will be left alone.. it's a nightmare, how this thing takes away every joy in our lives!!
lisa07272 maria_03422
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Hi Maria,
yes it is a nightmare, I had to go to see a doctor today as I felt so rough, and I keep getting eye pain. I had a proper meltdown as the anxiety about going to a doctors surgery freaked me out, but they was adamant that I had to get it checked out, and said all safety procedures were in place. I just can't seem to cope anymore everything is so overwhelming
maria_03422 lisa07272
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I know, Lisa..like we don't have enough anxiety lets throw and the pandemic on top it makes it hundred times worst..everything will be ok at the drs today! I had this eye pain when I first started , I was around 45 years old..i remember driving and out of nowhere this sharp pain in my right eye! I got so scared but I noticed always happened around my period. I had it checked nothing was found!! good luck ans let's us know how goes xoxo
lisa07272 maria_03422
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Hi Maria,
thank you for your kind reply, the doctor was nice and checked my eye and said to try using drops, also they want me to go on Antidepressents to help with the anxiety, I just keep crying as I feel so ill. i keep getting panicky as the doctor had to feel around my eye & face so that stresses me out, with all thats going on at the moment, he did wear gloves but it still makes me so anxious as he also had to move my hair out if the way I broke down in there as I feel so bad I said to him now i'm worried about the face mask getting wet but he said its fine
maria_03422 lisa07272
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so glad everything went well!! its the hormones that is doing this to us!! at least your dr was nice..i had some drs that literally told me I need to go home and get a life!! have a cup of chamomile tea will calm you down..
I know im so scared to go to the drs with this pandemic!! I worry about everything this days...