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I feel like this will never get better

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dan_19889
dan_19889

Not ganna make this to long because most of u that had this will probably know. I need answers( someone plz help me) I’m on day 2 had no bowel movement and I know/feel like I could then the pain is just so bad, feels like I’m getting stabbed with a knife.  I even ate regular food and my stool soften and some mirlax and still cannot go. I know there is cloth up in my butt. When does that come out? After first bowel movement? Can I pull it out if I get my fingers up there? I know that is what is making this harder to let gas go. I’m just loaded with gas. Is it normal if I still don’t go to the bathroom on day 3?

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  • gracielou
    gracielou dan_19889

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    I’m one month post op and it took me 5 days to have a BM, miralax worked for me but my dr had told me to take milk of magnesia if it didn’t work. The first BM was very very painful for me, when I needed to go for the second time I think I paced my house for hours avoiding it but the second time was a lot easier. I didn’t have anything in my rectum so I was able to release gas the first few days so I wasn’t as bloated. I’m sorry I couldn’t be much help in that dept. hang in there!
    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 gracielou

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      Thank you for your response, I know I have to go , it just won’t come out now if I use more mirlax is it ganna be a huge mess? And I figured it is ganna be painful. This is so awful. And ok I thought I haven’t went in 3days was not normal , how long to you fully recovered. And last thing when I have my first bowel movement I really hope it is like water, not chunks?? What u think about that. I did it hard food the last 2days ? Thank u so much for responding god this is like putting someone threw hell. I’m glad u are over your very painful days
    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 gracielou

      Posted

      Sorry to bother u. 1 other question u did have gauze up ur anus right? Does that come out the first bowel movement. And i know u said it’s a very painful first bowel movement but how does it come out like water, or thick /hard
    • gracielou
      gracielou dan_19889

      Posted

      I did not have a gauze, the first BM was normal (not soft) and yes it’s painful, don’t push. Second BM was softer and it was more of a stinging sensation than pain. I know this sounds gross but have you tried having a BM in a sitz bath? I’ve heard of that helping some people, I’ve just gone normally on te toilet. Are you taking a stool softener?
    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 gracielou

      Posted

      Yes I tried on the sith bath and in my regular bath. Just ain’t getting nothin out and I have a bunch of food in me that should be coming out, so I shouldn’t push at all? And yes I am on stool softener. Just seems like nothing is working, u said u had ur first bowel movement after how many days after surgery?
    • gracielou
      gracielou dan_19889

      Posted

      It took me 5 days but I wasn’t having much food at all so I didn’t even have bloat from not going so the dr wasn’t worried when he checked me. I would really try to follow up with the dr to see if they can help with the gauze. 
  • marc43972
    marc43972 dan_19889

    Posted

    Get on some sort lax ASAP last week hing you need is any sort of bunging up as will make your body push
    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 marc43972

      Posted

      My body wants to push I am sorta stopping it if u know what I mean because I can tell how painful it is ganna be. 
    • mary90364
      mary90364 dan_19889

      Posted

      Do not push just let it take it time.

      You should be eating a high fibre diet and drink plenty of water.

    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 mary90364

      Posted

      Ok Mary thanks I just think this gauze is causing me not to let the gas get threw and that’s y the pain is worse. I don’t know what to do. I can’t even take it anymore   Thanks for responding!
  • mary90364
    mary90364 dan_19889

    Posted

    What did your doctor tell you after your operation?

    Have you had internal ones cut out ?

    Did you not get stickes?

    You should have been given some medication for BM, I was given lactulose and fybogel which really helped me.

    You should be eating a high fibre diet and drink plenty of water.

    For breakfast I ate bran flakes and added either raspberries or blackberries this helps me.

    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 mary90364

      Posted

      Hi Mary thanks for respond. I did not have stitches,  and yes they were 3 huge internal , I am Taking lactulose , and some miralax that I added. And to be honest I ate hard stuff I had potbelly’s sandwich and a bacon and n cheese sandwich, I know it’s not good for that food.  I just really want to get this first bowel movement out, there is so much inside me, food, liquid,  I just don’t hope it’s a heavy first bowel movement, the medicine should make it like water ? What u think.  I just no there is gauze up there that is stopping me from letting gas out. I’m in so much pain right now
    • mary90364
      mary90364 dan_19889

      Posted

      I would contact your hospital and ask them for advise.

      Where did you have your operation?

    • dan_19889
      dan_19889 mary90364

      Posted

      I had it at advocate medical center Tinley Park illnois
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