I'm in so much pain!!
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Well I'm nearly 7weeks post bunion surgery and 3rd toe op for arthritis, well it's my own fault really Idont see my surgeon til tomorrow, I got impatient and took my splint ans darko wedge shoe off yesterday, my husband and other family members hasd commented that I'm putting it on now and that I shouldn't be limping and should be working and driving by now and to get on with things like before ie shopping etc. I didn't want them thinking this so I decided to try and put my trainer on well tat didn't go any where near on my foot so I thought that I would try my ugh boot I managed to squeeze it on eventually with a bit of pulling and squeezing in. I drove about 40 miles in total taking my daughter to dance and a bit of retail therapy I thought I needed!!! I knew that as my foot was killing me and pounding that time to go home and put my foot up, well I physically couldn't get my boot off there was intense pain in my big toe area as it's very rigid I was crying in panic and pain I thought the only was to get it off was to cut it off since then I've been in so much pain it's very swollen and I can hardly put it on the floor, I feel stupid by not waiting a few more days to see if my X-Ray is clear I'm sure the surgeon will give me a telling off tomrrow! I'm scared that I've made matters far worse than they it was as I actually thought I was on the mend. I'm a mobile hairdresser and have clients booked in for Tuesday theve all been very patient with me by waiting for me I'm not sure now if I can actually go back to work then. Has any one else been as stupid nd impatient like me?
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carol94506 kim14297
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anita51180 kim14297
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gillian81509 kim14297
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the fact you couldn't put a shoe on indicates its still v Mich in the healing phase with oedema as it tries to heal.
Have you got your boot off
raise your leg so it's higher than you heart bit like a delivery height
when swelling goes down and boot off then place peas in t cloth on and off to reduce swelling
put your brace and boot on you are being seen tomorrow but that's just to see how the opp has worked and the pins wires are in place almost unheard of to be boot free and twb.
as for your pts have you got a friend who can drive you or can you do them at Home
as for housework etc tough they want it done they do it
sue_22852 kim14297
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You have to take things slowly and be patient. You have had major surgery to your foot and it's going to take time to heal otherwise your going to end up back on the operating table! Rest and elevate your foot as much as possible. I am 12 weeks post op and my foot is still swollen and I am still limping. It's going to take time. I would take your husband along to see the surgeon when you go so he can explain to your husband the severity of your surgery and time required for a full recovery. Take care and take it easy. I wushu you well with your recovery.
gillian81509 kim14297
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it really takes time and the more time you can give it the better the recovery
get the swelling down asap
bohemia kim14297
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kim14297 bohemia
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anita51180 kim14297
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bohemia kim14297
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Mayfairmam kim14297
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jazzym05353 kim14297
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I really do feel for you. I know I used to feel guilty after my op about the day to day cooking and cleaning which my sister in law and kids used to do. But at the end of the day you have to look after yourself first because in the long run only you will suffer if you don't. The longer you take it easy and look after your feet properly the quicker you actually will be back on your feet. Hope you get better soon x
gillian81509 kim14297
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it's a big opp and takes time
I'm a podiatrist by training so I do know how long these take plus if the biomechanics that caused it havnt been resolved it may take longer
can you ask someone to cover your clients or as suggested you get them to you
as for rest well meals microwave dust after a while you can't see it
relax and get better
bohemia gillian81509
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Mishe55 kim14297
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first thing first, you are very unlikely to have done any long term damage but you just had a taste of reality. We all hope for much quicker recovery and I can tell you, it never changes. I am a veteran of huge orthopeadic surgeries since I was born with a club foot and have arthritis in most joints of my body. The current surgery is my 5th one, yet like you I would like to be all recovered just few weeks post op. The hardest part in your situation is the earning capacity and your not so supportive family. I wonder if you could get your husband to read some posts on this website? Taking him to your specialist appointment may also be useful although in my experience the specialists minimise the recovery time and pain issues so the patients cope better.
The likely reality of the situation is that you will be in pain for much longer than you hoped for. It seems to me that you may have to work out your priorities and if earning and keeping your clients is the most important thing you may have to concentrate on that. Although my guess is that you may have to cut down the hours to what you can manage initially. As for your family, try to educate them as they are clearly not that compassionate and since they do not have your experience they are making pretty uninformed judgements.
In all this Kim, remember that you will recover and things will come back to normal, just not in the time frame you were hoping for. The sooner you accept it the easier it will be on you. So push yourself a little but do not expect to be fully recovered tomorrow because that is simply not possible. All the best Kim.
heather00719 kim14297
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at 7 weeks of my procedure (I had the bunion cut off, the big toe broke and realigned with 2 screws & tendon repair) I was just getting my cast off and put into a walking surgisurgical shoe & crutches. By 8-9 weeks I was wearing tennis shoes and walking as much as I could stand on my own but it would swell still the more I used it.
Each day at the 9 week mark was noticably better than the last but I still have a limp and can't figure out why.
I think you should be ok and the pain could just be nerves getting back to working again.