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I need some advice please!

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katie2705
katie2705

Ive become so co dependant its unreal from anxiety. My boyfriend is making me go home for a night because he thinks we will need space which is true I guess, im just having a down day and just need his company and said I'll go tomorrow but hes having none of it and I feel really anxious due to the arguing about it.and i can see it stessing him out cuz i dont want to go. If I go home Im scared I'll feel more down and wont have him. 

Its ridiculous I never used to feel like this, im so dependant on him and other people and I hate it.

He wants me to go home in the next like hour or so and its horrible I really dont want too. Can anyone give me some advice that'll make me feel better or even see sense? I just feel crap today and really need him tonight.

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  • jo57386
    jo57386 katie2705

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    Katie a healthy relationship is 2 people living their lives and coming together to enjoy each other. Not live in each others pockets. Does he get to see his mates by himself? And do the bloke things they enjoy? He sounds like a fantastic guy but don't smother him and lose him believe me there's not many out there who would be as understanding. You need to fix you and only you can do that. Cut him some slack sweetie and have a break for a few days. I bet your relationship will improve and you will begin to work out a routine. Let go a little sounds like he loves you and isn't going anywhere xx
    • katie2705
      katie2705 jo57386

      Posted

      You are right, he does love me and hes great and we argue so much mainly because we spend too much time together and its unhealthy.  Its about time I stopped waiting for someone to save me and actually try and help myself I know that. I just need to get back into a routine of going home its not healthy to live out of eachothers pockets I know that. Im becoming a paranoid person and I dont want that xx
    • jo57386
      jo57386 katie2705

      Posted

      See you know what's best but doing it is the hard bit xx
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