Im alone and wondering what other people do in the same situation
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HI, I am alone and have pretty much done this alone since after the first week. I am very bored and cant wait until I can drive again. I watch tv, play with my dogs, read magazines, of course do therapy. Anyone have any ideas what I could do so as not to be so lonely? I really use this site to ease the lonliness. If it werent for my therapist I think I would have gone insane. I wont be "released" by my surgeon until Dec 8th.
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anita78925 juliatnr
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Tucks juliatnr
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Oldfatguy1 juliatnr
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Tucks Oldfatguy1
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sandra37762 juliatnr
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liz34614 juliatnr
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Annodoremouse liz34614
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Look online for activities in your area, (Youth clubs for the elderly) Things where you could get a taxi to. Push yourself to do things
Take care
betty07083 juliatnr
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Just checking in to see how you are doing. I'm curious, where in the US are you located? I'm also here, in California.
Hope you are doing better - it's a roller coaster journey, to be sure!
Take care & keep in touch, Betty (almost 18 weeks)
juliatnr betty07083
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sandra37762 juliatnr
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Oldfatguy1 juliatnr
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betty07083
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We are all different, as I slept better than ever the first few weeks after the op. Maybe because I slept in the downstairs guest room by myself. After going back up to the master bedroom with my husband, all my bad sleep habits came back ( I'm not blaming my husband - don't get me wrong, ha) but after 18 weeks I'm getting pain in my TKR knee at night now, which I did not have before!
I'm feeling very discouraged at these new pains I'm having, but that's another topic. I just wanted to say that we are all different and no set time when you might start sleeping better.
Old fat guy has some great advice for you!
Take care Julia
Annodoremouse juliatnr
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I had my kitchen set out to reach everything
To avoid boredom I used social media especially twitter. Planning the day out making sure meals were properly prepared and set out (a chair in the kitchen helped) fitted in physio but aking it further than planned.
I started driving after 5 weeks (automatic car using 2 feet) Now Im doing almost everything I did before and Im extending my walks
Texting & chatting on the phone
Facebook has gamed and jigsaws free Ive used them
brenles juliatnr
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joansgarden juliatnr
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I have been borrowing audiobooks from the library ( all done online) and find that if I get one that grips me, the hours go pretty fast. I am 2 weeks post-op and I must have listened to 10 books in the last 2 weeks. And while I listen I knit. Of course that only works for me because I am a knitter and love to do it. I've finished a shawl over the last 2 weeks too. After my visit to physio today with no improvement in the amount of bend, I've decided that I need to walk and walk and walk. So that will fill in some time too.
I am in Oregon and in fact joined this forum because I couldn't find anything comparible in the US. I figure we are all going through the same healing process and will have the same questions and problems. Besides, I am Australian and I sort of feel at home with you Brits