Irritating , annoying comments about chronic pain .

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Don’t you hate it when the able-bodied try to encourage you with cliches that no longer apply to chronic pain patients?

The one that irritates me most is, “If you can dream it, you can do it!”. or, "the power of positive thinking" ... Here's one of my favorites

just keep moving and be "Mindful" of your tolerances.

It makes me want to reply, “Really? I’m dreaming that you would feel my pain”.rolleyes

What at are some of the irritating response you receive from those who do not suffer from chronic pain? And what do you tell them?

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    Hope, Gloria, Indi, Kathleen, Catherine, Michael

    yes Hope....Bill Ray Cyrus singing Achy Brachy Back...

    • Posted

      👏👍😅that one made me laugh till I cried. 

      Where is everybody?  😳Out doing shopping therapy? 🕵🏻???👛👡👖👔

      Hi Everyone ! Help finish up the below bones connected to.... I got stuck on the ending!

      Neck bone connected to the backbone, backbone connected to the

      battery PAC and the battery PAC connected to ....???? who can keep this going on?

      Hopexxx😱

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    my cell phone is up to date...out of all of Patient this is the only thread that always lands at the beginning of now 240....too aggravating for me to sort 240 looking for the correct post.....Merry Christmas everyone...Gloria have a safe trip...Indi, go to New York and get your shoulders some help, have some great pizza while there...
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      Wait wait wait. ???At the top of the page go to page two ??we have such a long thread it has turned the page to #2.

      SEE button at top says page 1 or Page 2.  Above reply box? Click on page 2. OR 

      Also when you click on the notifications box replies to you, on right of page to you , then wait a second until it resets from original topic post to post you have been alerted to in the notifications box will reset to the reply page you need. 

      I never have have to go through them all. It will automatically go to post when you click on notification 📦 reply to you. 

      this won't be the same without you. ??

      Hopexxxx👀

    • Posted

      How's the chair repairs going? 

      Any my weather issues in the Springs yet? My son lives near there.

       Also,our whole town 1/2  the state shut down again ice storm.

      i remember when I lived there during a bad snow storm a truck carring molasses jackknifed on 1/25 near Lincoln exit . Can you imagine trying to clean up 15000 gallons of frozen molassia off the hwy. it was closed down

      for days! 

      I cancrlled led my pre op appt. not going out on ice. My car hadn't learned how to ice skate yet. ?

      ?? well and stay warm and cozy!🎄??

       

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      ??Summer is the best time to take the T-tops off when the CORVETTE RALLY takes place in Denver. It will be fun. We can have all the cutie vette muscle guys push us around to check out all the different cars through the years. 

      I have done Corvette Rally's for many years. We could start in the Parade. I luv a Parade!!!!😄

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    ??I have told many friends and groups I was involved with for many years about my chronic illness, only to find they reacted not at all,but went on talking about themselves as if they didn't even hear me. Some are 10 years older, usually whisper amongst themselves well wait till she's our age. She's got nothing to complain about! 

    Even church members I've known served on many committees & fund raisers over the years and volunteered for various community functions.

    I was told well you look great , I said you can't always judge a book by it cover. 👍

    Hopexxx

    • Posted

      Yep I can relate to that...People who know I have AS usually say you look great I think you're getting better....rolleyes I can't get better I tell them...but the reply is always the same....it's mind over matter my dear.   ggggrrrr cry

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      Hey Gloria

      twice Patient took me to the correct post!

      They say that they think you are getting better because if they didn't they would have to admit that they too are fallible.

      Just sit on your scooter all gussied up with four inch heels on your tootsies...

      8 day count down...

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      How you doing Hope? Not heard from you in a while, hope it's all going well ??

      Was wandering if you'd heard of celecoxib anti inflamitories, just been given them off doc also have my MRI scan on the 24th

      Sending hugs 💝

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      Hi Carolineq8,

      yes I have heard of it it's a nsaid cox 2 anti inflammatory. See the side effects and trust the judgement of ur doc. Alternate this and any other  NSAID. They can cause serious internal bleeding if long term. 

       Some of these drugs can be trick. I just trying to titration old dilaodid. It's a awful,itchy pain med. down from 8 3 mg a day to one a day. Finally the pain from surgery has subsided and can put most of my weight on the revision done on my hip.

      i also took another med for AK WORKED very well but had to have liver yeast every month. I forget what it was . My doc took me off due to height liver enzymes. 

      Have the results to your tests tests come in yet? 

      Hugs

      Hope

       

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    Yes Gloria your more than welcome to add they can't see it in your X-ray.

    Life is one time offer use it well. Anyone that cannot read X-ray needs to send it to a radiologist. Then take another angle then another X-ray to MRI.

    ??I guess you fight through the bad days to earn the best days of your life!

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    I keep trying...and today look where I landed.

    Hope, if I looked as bad as I feel, we would have to cancel Halloween...

    Looking my best, smelling my best, is all about making myself feel better.

    You are one of the best books on the shelf

    hugs

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      Welcome back to the site of wonky world. 🙀It finally clicked in. Great so any words of wisdom to share.😀

      i have one for ya.???

      well we don't give pain medication for bone on bone hip pain. Try a cane.

      OK IT ONLY A TEO 🌟🌟rating!

      xxxxx

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      I can trade in my old jpinta for nice, shiny new ones...but I bet you graduated on the bottom of your class...

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