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IS IT HIV? I HAVE SYMPTONS BUT NEGATIVE IM SO WORRIED

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jason019
jason019

is it hiv i were a little bi curious on holiday (spain) and tried stuff with a trans from what i remember we kissed with tongue really wet kisses and i got sucked off and sucked them off i recived anal with protection im sure they were sweating slightly i started getting stomach pains and sweating loads in the night around 2 and half months later also noticeing blood in urine and white mucus in my poo also finding it hard to push all urnine out so i when to a & e in spain n they told me i had a little infection in wee they gave me tablets for a urine infection and told me to have them for 8days say on the 4th day of my tablets for the uti i went for a std test back in england all stds came back negative and negative for hiv at 3months but i had servere diarea i think this was a reaction from my uti tablets durimy wee eventually went back to normal and the pain went in my stomach eventually and was back to normal but i also noticed around the same time of the infection i had red spots in back of throat and a white tongue what looks like oral thrush and pharyngitis in back of throat and it seems to have got slightly worse my tongue and if i look carefully i can see green lumps on back of tongue these are both ment to be factors of hiv but i got retested for hiv at 105 days three and half months and still come back negative

im worried but what r chances it still not showed up ? i heard it can take up to 6 months to show

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  • ajith75476
    ajith75476 jason019

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    6 months is 25 years out of date..

    you dont have hiv...

    please get tested for other stis like herpes, hpv , syphilis.. syphilis is as nasty as hiv ..thankfully we have a cure..

    and prolonged anxiety can give you the same symptoms as hiv infection because they both cause the immune system to be down..

    get tested for other stis and if negative, stop worrying eat well and exercise .. i have already detailed why you dony have hiv in my earlier responses..and no there are no rare strains of hiv known , the tests will detect them even though you have them becuase they dont search for virus.. instrad they search for antibodies .. if you had hiv, based on your symptoms, you would have tested positive already. Symptoms are manifestations body's way of foghting an infection.. and that means the antibodies should already been produced if you indeed had hiv..

    so..take a chill pill and relax.

    that said hiv is not the only nasty bug out there .. if the doctor has already tested for evrything , then you have nothing. it is just your mjnd playing games and anxiety lowering your immune system .. i have been down the same path . please dont go down that path.. it is dark.

  • ajith75476
    ajith75476 jason019

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    here is your complete risk assessment:

    1. anal sex with condom: not a risk (for hiv) unless condom is damaged. if the condom is damaged it will shred leaving no doubt. the microscopic holes is a myth. anyway you have tested conclusively negative. even if the condom has been damaged .. you did not acquire hiv from this activity. real risks (if the condom indeed is damaged is hepatitis strain of viruses..

      get tested for hep strains- you are comfortably out of window periods.

      ebv/ mono- mono throws the same symptoms as hiv infection.. however- mono is not fatal.. the immune system will suppress it and during periods of prolonged anxiety, your immune system goes down and mono.might actually strike back, again both ng fatal as far as i know.

    chlamydia, gon, syph: get tested .. the risk for syphilis need not be due to only sex- it spreads by skin to skin contact with sores .. again if there is no skin to skin contact and only mouth on penis- syphilis in mouth is exceedingly rare

    your uti need not be only from sexual activity- even a bit of soap that enters urethra can disturb ph levels and can cause uti..

    oral sex recieved: zero risk unless the giver is bleeding ( as in needing immediate medical attention)

    oral sex given: close to zero and real risk if YOU (not her) are a meth user and have gaping wounds in your mouth.

    get tested for other STIs , you are fine as far as hiv is concerned since you tested conclusively negative ..

    6 months is for cancer patients who have had a complete body irradiation or long term iv drug user.. you would have mentiomed that already ..

    stop reading online it will feed your worst fears ..

    and your symptoms IF they are due to hiv will be caused after you have been infected for more than 2 or 3 years at minimum for a fast progressor.(late stage)

    • jason019
      jason019 ajith75476

      Posted

      i have been tested for everything at 3 months (90days) so what else could take longer to show up?

    • jason019
      jason019 ajith75476

      Posted

      from what i know sphyliss gonerea clamydia hiv and i got told other tests were made too but im not too sure what that was at 3months then at 3 n half it was just hiv

    • jason019
      jason019

      Posted

      at 3months too then like i said they said other tests have been made but not sure what they ment by that

    • ajith75476
      ajith75476 jason019

      Posted

      ok Jason . good news you do not have any life threatening or fatal infections..

      chlamydia and gon can affect your reproductive system. they are neg too.

      so your symptoms might as well not be from this encounter. might be a coincidence.. go to a good doctor and get them treated be sure to tell him you tested conclusively negative for all the above tests at 3 months. if possible while you are at it get tested for hsv -1/2 .. hsv doesnt cause any of the above mentioned symptoms btw. ask about other tests conducted when you have tme..

      all the best.. most probably, and this is only my guess .. due to prolonged anxiety, your immune system took a dive and allowed fungus to thrive which your body usually keeps suppressed.

  • jason019
    jason019

    Posted

    also at my age in men utis are extremely rare its strange

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