Is my penis normal.redness and painful to touch

also when my penis is erect my foreskin does not retract on its own i have to do it manually.when flaccid i am able to retract it fully.although some time it sticks just to bottom part of glans.i am not experiencing a y itching ,only pain when it is touched

Keep retracting it. You're still young, see what it looks like in a year. But if the pain is unbearable, visit a doctor's office. Don't be shy about it, doctors see stuff way worse than this (and they see hundreds of penises in a year).

As glikkon says, you are still young and your penis has still a great deal of developing to do. Leave it just the way it is until you see what it is like in terms of being able to retract your foreskin when you are 19 or 20 YOA, or so. It is extremely unlikely that a condition or health problem would cause the amount of sensitivity you have with your glans.

The best thing to do is to simply wash the head of your penis regularly and carefully use a rough towel on it and eventually it will likely become much less sensitive. The other thing you can try is to manually retract your foreskin when it is not erect and have your glans fully exposed and try and go about what you would normally do each day with it like that. And yes, it may seem extremely weird or even quite or very sensitive as you walk about and do activities, but given time this will reduce a great deal.

Again yes, redness should not be present: can you name everything that is in contact with the head of your penis? So this would be soap - do you only use one particular, or lots of different ones? Shower gels? Other forms of body wash, and, do things like hair shampoo come into contact with the head of your penis? What happens in terms of contact when you masturbate? Do you use anything as a lube? Skin cream perhaps? Other than masturbation would you use something to moisturise the skin on your glans, or even simply on the foreskin and main part of your penis? Baby oil or lotion perhaps?

Try capturing a really good clear photo of the redness as most of your photos are not clear - try taking several in bright daylight or sunshine and upload the clearest one .......

thanks for the reply, here are some pics

sorry for the last pics .this time i hope it is clear.regarding any thing applied on my glans.i am telling from starting.i was addicted to prone masturbation from 13 and every night i used to ejaculate.one night i felt terrible pain in my glans may be because my glans touched my underwear for first time.i didnt do anything and was scared to tell my parents. somedays i used to get burning sensation and also one night i was urging to urinate every time but my bladder was empty. i waited it just got normal and i didnt paid any attention to it.after some time i noticed my tip was red and it pained whenever i touched.i was worried about it and found in internet that it could be balanitis.so i told my parents and, then we went to a urologist.he examined it and it was the first time that my glans were fully exposed.i noticed it was fully red like present .he diagnosed balanoposthitis and gave me betadine ointment and some antibiotics probably for uti.after 5 days i went there again as there was no improvement according to me ,glan were red and pained when touched .but he told it is normal and asked me to not worry about it.i tried not to pay attention to it but after 2-3 months also it doesnt resolved. i wanted to go to urologist but due to this corona pandemic i couldnt.i applied clotrimazole for 15 days .but nothing happened.also i applied mupirocin but my glans skin started to peel so i avoided anything and hoped that i will get better.after some time i understood the threats that prone masturbation lead to so i decided to abstain from it.i started hand jerking method but it was weird for me and also not that pleasurable.i just rubbed my glans with foreskin in between avoiding any direct contact with hands.i also started cleaning it everyday when i shower with lukewarm water and also after masturbation.everytime whenever i pee i retract it fully i am not using any lube for masturbation just apply coconut oil when shower because it is becoming dry and also peeling of skin starts happening. i didnt noticed any harmful effect of clotrimazole and mupirocin and my glans are red as they were from beginning.i know i have done stupid things i should told my parents that day only when it pained at night.now i am scared to tell anything of above to my parents but wanted to go to urologist for further examination.what according to you it is will it ever get better or it is a sign of extreme condition. also i don't want to expose glans and do normal things because the pain is unbearable.i tried to wipe it with cloth but i just couldn't bear it.just able to touch somewhat.not used any soap and shampoo but there is smegma build up under my foreskin.i am trying to clean it but it is not going without water.i dont want to use any soap so that i do not create any further complication.

thanks for the response and please advice me what should i do.